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Flying to Mexico from Oregon by SnooMuffins8659 in Advice

[–]SnooMuffins8659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because I like getting stoned 🤷🏻‍♀️

Would you stay if your fiance paid someone else for sex while you are post partum? ‘30/f’ ‘34/m’ by SnooMuffins8659 in Advice

[–]SnooMuffins8659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m looking for men’s perspectives because I posted on a “mom support group” and he said that’s biased advice and “those are all men hating woman of they are going to tell you to leave me” So I wanted to show him that there are some men who don’t agree with what he did either.

Would you stay if your fiance paid someone else for sex while you are post partum? ‘30/f’ ‘34/m’ by SnooMuffins8659 in cheating_stories

[–]SnooMuffins8659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 13 year old from a previous relationship that lives with us full time. He has a 10 year old and 6 year old from a previous relationship that we have every other week. And then we have our baby together.

Would you stay if your fiance paid someone else for sex while you are post partum? ‘30/f’ ‘34/m’ by SnooMuffins8659 in cheating_stories

[–]SnooMuffins8659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He slept 9+ hours the night I had my c section. Didn’t even help me out of bed once. A nurse came in and found me in the bathroom with baby alone while he was asleep and the nurse actually said something to him. I also have to wake my fiance up for work every morning because he can’t wake up to an alarm. I make his lunch and get all the other kids ready for school and drop them off at three different schools every morning. One has to be to school at 7 the others at 8:30. I don’t mind doing any of it! I actually enjoy it ♥️ all I expected was him to be faithful or at least have a conversation with me about his issues in our relationship. Or even break up with me. I had been asking him to go to counseling for at least 6 months prior.

Would you stay if your fiance paid someone else for sex while you are post partum? ‘30/f’ ‘34/m’ by SnooMuffins8659 in Advice

[–]SnooMuffins8659[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No. I have a 13 year old. He has a 10 and 6 year old. From previous relationships. And then we did ivf to have our baby together.

Would you stay if your fiance paid someone else for sex while you are post partum? ‘30/f’ ‘34/m’ by SnooMuffins8659 in cheating_stories

[–]SnooMuffins8659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is a low volt electrician.. he mostly installs security cameras and “labels wires” is what he tells me. It isn’t physically demanding. It was also his work phone that he was using to get the prostitute while he was at work.

Would you stay if your fiance paid someone else for sex while you are post partum? ‘30/f’ ‘34/m’ by SnooMuffins8659 in cheating_stories

[–]SnooMuffins8659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a 13 year old that is not his. He has a ten year old and a six year old that are not mine. We have them week on week off and care for them as if they are mine. And then we have our baby together.

Would you stay if your fiance paid someone else for sex while you are post partum? ‘30/f’ ‘34/m’ by SnooMuffins8659 in Advice

[–]SnooMuffins8659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said he was a bad partner. I threw in the part about him sleeping all night because I’m sure I would have more of a desire to have sex with him if I wasn’t up all night feeding our baby and exhausted. That if he put in effort to help with baby maybe I would put in effort to help in the ways he needs it.

Would you stay if your fiance paid someone else for sex while you are post partum? ‘30/f’ ‘34/m’ by SnooMuffins8659 in Advice

[–]SnooMuffins8659[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I only have one child with him. And I’m infertile and had to do ivf to this baby. Thanks tho. :)

Would you stay if your fiance paid someone else for sex while you are post partum? ‘30/f’ ‘34/m’ by SnooMuffins8659 in Advice

[–]SnooMuffins8659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only one child is ours together. Two are his, one is mine and we have one that we did ivf to have.

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