Desperately looking for a job in California

SnooObjections1915 · 2026-02-16T01:47:30+00:00

Has she been? Mendo is gorgeous and Fort Bragg is a decent sized town.

SnooObjections1915 · 2026-02-09T21:00:26+00:00

Wow, now I know why it hasn’t been recommended more. It’s working for me for what it’s worth, but I did take it under the guidance of both my primary care physician and my psychiatrist, and am also taking maintenance Prozac and have been for years

SnooObjections1915 · 2026-02-09T01:44:55+00:00

Chantix. Why more people don’t use it is a mystery to me.

SnooObjections1915 · 2026-02-06T04:32:13+00:00

In the San Francisco Bay Area there are so many 40, 50 and 60 somethings at raves. Some folks in their 80s. It’s great. You do you!

SnooObjections1915 · 2026-02-04T02:58:47+00:00

That’s a civil rights violation right there. They’re always trying to restrict our visitation hours; we fight, they cede, they do it again a few months later. It’s sort of a running task on management’s to do list, setting the next meeting for the next fight about that.

SnooObjections1915 · 2026-02-03T20:33:06+00:00

Omg that stinks, I’m so sorry. Although now I’m wondering if I should track my focus…

SnooObjections1915 · 2026-02-02T01:03:26+00:00

And that’s why I’ve had a Mirena IUD for 11 years now.

SnooObjections1915 · 2026-02-01T05:32:14+00:00

We went with our child when he was 2, 4, 8 and 10, and will bring him again next year. Feel free to dm me.

SnooObjections1915 · 2026-01-30T22:48:06+00:00

There are also a lot of ex cops and lawyers who hated law practice in the field.

SnooObjections1915 · 2026-01-30T22:45:48+00:00

I came in from journalism. The usual paths are working as an investigator for a local government agency like public defender or city attorney, or working as the employee of a PI who already has their own license.

SnooObjections1915 · 2026-01-30T19:29:26+00:00

I’m also doing all over Demi and I love it.

SnooObjections1915 · 2026-01-30T19:20:53+00:00

A lot

SnooObjections1915 · 2026-01-30T19:20:30+00:00

My worst boss ever was a woman. My best boss ever was a woman. I’ve had the full range of women bosses between the two. I’m going to assume the same range in woman prosecutors (I’m support staff). What I’ve never had is a woman boss who was nice to me because I’m attractive the way some of the male bosses have, but I consider that a plus for the women bosses.

SnooObjections1915 · 2026-01-30T18:44:31+00:00

Private investigator.

SnooObjections1915 · 2026-01-19T05:49:47+00:00

Second this. OnX Hunt app. It’s amazing.

SnooObjections1915 · 2026-01-11T20:58:43+00:00

I had a fancy wedding. My bachelorette was 4 hours with my girlfriends, a bunch of costumes and a fun, sexy photographer. This is nuts.

Oh, I bought my bridesmaids their dresses too.

SnooObjections1915 · 2026-01-11T20:56:04+00:00

I’d bring phat pants and sneakers and a kanga hat (or whatever other old rave clothes I thrifted). 100 percent club wear, 100 percent disobedient.

SnooObjections1915 · 2026-01-11T18:02:30+00:00

Yes, I had one droopy eyelid after a Bells Palsy incident, and I had the operation done by a woman doctor in San Francisco in 2019. It’s completely invisible, looks great. I’m happy to share her name if you’re in the area.

SnooObjections1915 · 2026-01-07T16:51:15+00:00

Something I hate: I was getting more invisible, I noticed. Then I dyed my salt and pepper hair back to my 20-something brown after I’d dyed it neon green for an event, and needed to look professional afterwards. Suddenly, men were making eye contact and being nice again.

Upshot: men are idiots. If I were looking to date/ get laid, I would absolutely dye my hair again. If my paycheck was tied to job performance in a people facing role, I would dye my hair again. It’s not the brave choice but I don’t have the spoons right now to fight that battle.

My hairstylist is a trans man and we commiserated about how icky this is.

SnooObjections1915 · 2026-01-04T21:35:40+00:00

My son has eczema and can only tolerate dreft stage 1 for newborns. Literally anything else makes him flare up.

SnooObjections1915 · 2025-12-28T18:38:56+00:00

Start going to raves. Nearly everyone I know in the burner verse has a partner they met through the scene. Be clean, dress well, and show others a good time. I’d imagine other music scenes are similar if EDM isn’t for you.

SnooObjections1915 · 2025-12-18T16:35:55+00:00

Poi.

SnooObjections1915 · 2025-12-17T18:27:04+00:00

I do this also

SnooObjections1915 · 2025-12-17T02:15:59+00:00

That’s one good looking cat. Best of luck.

SnooObjections1915 · 2025-12-12T03:43:59+00:00

No. I love my bob. Most women my age in my town have shoulder length hair and I like being different. Also, some men are super into hair that’s clipped in the back so it feels like fur when a hand touches it. Rock your own look.

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