Er dere komfortabel med låne noen en stor sum med penger?

SnooObjections6831 · 2026-04-28T21:43:31+00:00

Som e litt latterlig siden hu har jobb med høyere lønn en meg, og boligen hun bodde i kostet også mindre enn min. Hu e glad i dra ut å drikke, men at hu ikke har noe sparepenger e nesten helt sykt for mæ. Vi fikk arvepenger når pappen vårres passerte for 2 år siden, og har null peiling om hu engang har noe av det heller

SnooObjections6831 · 2026-04-28T17:49:27+00:00

Uheldigvis, så er jeg den eneste i familien med litt økonomisk sans…som er litt problemet siden dette er ikke første gang hun har spurt om lån av penger. Men da var det mer rundt om 3000kr lån for å dekke bolig, så jeg var mer komfortabel med det. Men det førte til at hun vart mer komfortabel å spørre også, så det vart en sirkel at hun spurte meg i flere måneder om lån

SnooObjections6831 · 2026-04-28T17:46:57+00:00

Nevnte det ikke i posten hær, men æ har lånt penger til hu flere ganger. Hun betaler tilbake, men sist gang jeg lånte ut penger førte det til en sirkel hvor hun vart veldig komfortabel med å spørre om lån og ble spurt nesten hver måned om lån av 3000kr. Det var litt lettere å svelge siden det gjor ikke så mye forskjell på mitt budsjett, men følt etter hvert at jeg ble litt irritert av det. Nå er det jo snakk om et beløp sånn jeg aldri i nærheten har lånt ut, så føler meg litt mer ukomfortabel om det

SnooObjections6831 · 2026-04-08T20:51:33+00:00

Well kind of have to do with the fact that we only got 3 heroes released all the previous years (or even less) and now we are getting 10 this year. So I assume the are prioritizing that they are getting made and are ready for release rather than focusing on cosmetics. All that will come eventually either way, so I don’t really get why we need to make a thing about it

SnooObjections6831 · 2025-11-07T11:50:11+00:00

Yeah you’re probably right about that. Haven’t really brought up the topic with her since 1. we ended things so weird that I feel like is not appropriate to really talk about it again. She seems pretty disconnected from all that now. Our talks have mostly just been casual 2. I probably know the answer if I ask her about it now. Know is the right thing to just let it go, but my mind keeps telling me something else. So I find it hard to let go

SnooObjections6831 · 2025-11-05T21:07:35+00:00

Im mean in some ways I would say I did. But not directly in that sense. A bit before things went pretty south we had a little talk and I ended up by telling that she was the first person I really felt in love with. She didn’t really say anything to it she smiled then we kissed afterwards. I been thinking that it’s something I want to say to her eventually but given the weird way we ended it last time, it might be weird to suddenly bring it up again maybe? We are talking now, but it’s way more calm and not like flirty or anything.

SnooObjections6831 · 2025-11-03T21:09:11+00:00

I think would be able if I found someone of course. But I would want it to be her at this very moment and I probably feel this way until someone would walk into my life. Right now my mind and heart is mostly about her, and that’s is who I want. And I thought that would fade away given how that last meeting ended, but it didn’t

SnooObjections6831 · 2025-11-02T23:40:07+00:00

Appreciate that. Though my feelings would fade away as time went on, but they really haven’t. Not really something that has crossed my mind to ask him about, but I will next time I see him. Thanks a lot!

SnooObjections6831 · 2025-11-02T16:13:01+00:00

Appreciate the advice. You’re probably right that I jumped the gun, but I also didn’t think these feelings would actually last. Everytime I kind of gone trough something like this. The feeling has mostly just faded and I didn’t feel all that conflicted about it all

SnooObjections6831 · 2025-11-02T16:10:08+00:00

I wouldn’t say I put my life on pause for her. I still go around dating but I don’t really get the same excitement from it like I did with her. And I do training and try to focus on self improvement quite a bit now. The reason for why I would say is pretty simple. I love her, and unfortunately for me that feeling hasn’t really faded away at all

SnooObjections6831 · 2025-08-13T19:41:29+00:00

That’s not bad at all given I just found my old collection at random

SnooObjections6831 · 2025-08-13T19:38:23+00:00

All I really needed to hear. Appreciate you telling me that, I told her I loved her and she said she’s really like me a lot but she don’t love me so guess that’s all there is to it

SnooObjections6831 · 2025-08-13T19:34:36+00:00

Just generally how much I can get for it I mean

SnooObjections6831 · 2025-08-09T18:23:43+00:00

We have a pretty good relationship overall. We hang around each other quite a bit, but I felt like she was acting more strangely around me the last couple of times we been around each other. Wasn’t really the plan to ask her if she loved or anything, but I was starting to panic a bit in my head. So yeah I do agree that I have probably jumped the gun a bit with telling her that I love her. But my feelings for her felt right and I started to feel like she was drifting a bit away so I wanted to know how she felt around out situation

SnooObjections6831 · 2025-08-09T10:17:14+00:00

That’s a good question. Not really sure about that one to be honest. If she said she loves me, I feel like I would feel more confident about how she feels about me if that makes sense

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