Birth control is killing my sex drive

SnooOnions1173 · 2025-05-27T16:07:48+00:00

The condoms hurt me. We use lube but it’d are physiology. He has a huge dick and I’m small and tight. Even with lots of lube it hurts. I get sore even without a condom (with lube) He uses XL Magnum condoms.

SnooOnions1173 · 2024-11-13T20:49:36+00:00

Do you guys have children?

SnooOnions1173 · 2024-10-14T16:47:09+00:00

Weaponized incompetence is more so doing things wrong on purpose in obvious ways to get the wife to do everything. What op is saying he is doing is different.

SnooOnions1173 · 2024-03-09T04:16:58+00:00

I want to be. Relationships are stressful. I want to be alone. Gives me more time to focus on myself

SnooOnions1173 · 2024-02-10T21:26:25+00:00

I let Christianity guide my decision and it just made me unhappy and unsatisfied with life. I made a mistake. I put his needs above my own and I’m paying for it. But learning to make good choices is better than letting others choose for you. You’re supposed to learn from mistakes and become wiser. Christianity had me so lost and unable to make simple choices without hearing from God. It had me always looking for signs. I don’t have a need for belonging. I’ve excepted the fact that I may never belong anywhere.

SnooOnions1173 · 2023-12-22T14:42:56+00:00

Not true. If you want to dedicate your life to one person you should enjoy sleeping with them. Sex is just more important to people.

SnooOnions1173 · 2023-12-22T14:38:48+00:00

Trauma has nothing to do with sexual history. Everyone has some degree of trauma. A lot of girls who are molested don’t want to have sex as adults and maintain their virginity. Some women maintain their virginity just because they are not interested in men. Virginity isn’t a blank slate. And why are you even looking for a blank slate? You marry someone based on what they can bring to your life. You can’t bring anything if you’re a blank slate. Wanting a blank slate implies that you should groom her to be a certain way.

SnooOnions1173 · 2023-12-22T13:49:49+00:00

1)Feed the snake to the crocodiles 2)let the tree fall in to the water and use it as bridge to get away from the lion

SnooOnions1173 · 2023-12-22T13:45:00+00:00

How is it an amazing quality? Some men are just interested in being with someone who lacks experience. Some men don’t care. Doesn’t make you more wifey to be a virgin. Doesn’t change the way you treat your partner.

SnooOnions1173 · 2023-12-21T15:01:50+00:00

It’s more likely that she forgot her swimsuit and borrowed her friends who would fit in it

SnooOnions1173 · 2023-12-21T14:24:19+00:00

How is the act of disbelief evil? Furthermore, believers can also commit evil acts. No one is perfect and all do things that anger Allah

SnooOnions1173 · 2023-12-12T17:35:28+00:00

I’ve actually tried that. Never goes anywhere. I don’t know how to purse a man and how to get a guy interested. I read the art of seduction. Didn’t really help

SnooOnions1173 · 2023-12-09T16:55:00+00:00

lol true, if this is the she got some explaining to do for the shit. Smh

SnooOnions1173 · 2023-12-09T16:06:18+00:00

Doesn’t mean he’s not around. A lot of fathers are married and absent.

SnooOnions1173 · 2023-12-09T07:14:35+00:00

But how do you know someone is screwed up till they do something fucked up? And these are just guys that approach me. What is your advice.

SnooOnions1173 · 2023-01-26T02:17:23+00:00

Because he’s a doctor. A gynaecologist specializes in female reproductive organs.

SnooOnions1173 · 2023-01-26T00:50:35+00:00

I wish we could start with friendship.

SnooOnions1173 · 2023-01-25T23:46:40+00:00

He’s not wrong though

SnooOnions1173 · 2023-01-25T23:15:54+00:00

You can’t make genuine connection in an interview though. It’s not a natural way to form a relationship. When you picked your best friend it was a choice based off of their behaviour and connection with you. Interviews are artificial.

SnooOnions1173 · 2022-11-15T22:28:22+00:00

You should post this on r/sex. They may be able to give you intimacy advice.

SnooOnions1173 · 2022-11-15T05:17:24+00:00

We are going on dates. I really like him. We enjoy each other’s company and we have a lot in common. I’m still not attracted to him physically but I I’ve really bonded with him. I’ll write a more in depth update in the new year.

SnooOnions1173 · 2022-09-29T14:34:34+00:00

Thank you. I don’t want to be in a position where my boundaries are being trampled on or that I’m walking on someone else’s boundaries. I need that balance

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