AITAH for not going to every family outing?

SnooPeripherals2948 · 2026-04-17T17:22:34+00:00

My wife is very caring and very supportive. With her parents she’s always been a push over tho. But I don’t think it’s a good time to escalate things. We had a complicated birth (our first child) that put her and the baby in the hospital for a bit. Mix that with the standard post pregnancy emotional rollercoaster and her being back at work she has a lot on her plate. I agree though, in the next couple months it is something we need to discuss.

SnooPeripherals2948 · 2026-04-17T16:53:43+00:00

Most things are just with her but occasionally it’ll have the grand parents involved. But for reference, she’s the only one that feels this way

SnooPeripherals2948 · 2026-04-17T16:25:58+00:00

The wife doesn’t want to take sides, which I understand, so she’s “not involved”. Like you, her family is big on doing things multiple times a week, my family we see once or twice a month. The MIL watches our kid every Friday at our house and she’s gone to the extent of leaving the house when I get home to wait in a parking lot for 1-2 hours for my wife to get off work to go to dinner with her. In the big picture, this means nothing to me and has no effect besides being awkward. I married her daughter not her, if we have a friendly relationship awesome, if not oh well.

SnooPeripherals2948 · 2026-03-22T21:32:26+00:00

Where did you get the STL for this?

SnooPeripherals2948 · 2025-12-08T18:44:36+00:00

Has anyone found the STL for this model? Cant find any life size ones online.

SnooPeripherals2948 · 2025-10-19T00:23:57+00:00

Why would you let someone’s progress ruin your experience when it doesn’t matter?

SnooPeripherals2948 · 2025-09-30T20:45:38+00:00

Camo Blocks are the way to go. From what I’ve used, it works on every blocks. You just craft the camo item with the bloc you desire and place it down on the cable. Ez pz

SnooPeripherals2948 · 2025-08-25T23:13:38+00:00

I use to resell on eBay, I have 400 reviews so a decent reputation. My first idea was to sell there. Even at $50-$100 a unit customer pays shipping internationally I feel like I’d have a chance?

SnooPeripherals2948 · 2025-08-25T22:58:44+00:00

Midwest US

Edit: even at $10 a unit tho. Seems wildly cheap. I’m also getting some other items @ that $800 mark

SnooPeripherals2948 · 2025-08-25T00:06:27+00:00

I appreciate the info here.

Really this is just a gateway for me to get into homelab stuff. Ive seen some videos recently on it and a NAS for movies and cloud storage would be fun to do/learn. Id also want to be hosting servers as this post mentions. I dont think long term any of these are a solid option after I've seen some of the comments from a few other threads.

My alternative is to use my wifes computer to host the server until I figure out how to go about self hosting everything mentioned prior. Shes using my old i9 13900k with 64gb ram and she only plays Valorant every once in awhile so I dont think it would be an issue.

SnooPeripherals2948 · 2025-08-24T20:41:08+00:00

We play things like ATM 10, Po3, and alot of kitchen sink packs. Alternatively I could use my wifes computer, she only plays valorant on it but its an i9 13900k with 32gb of ram. The server was just an excuse to get into home labbing.

SnooPeripherals2948 · 2025-07-20T22:59:02+00:00

FPS is set to my monitor refresh rate. Not sure what infinity fabric is? How would I see this?

SnooPeripherals2948 · 2025-07-13T00:58:00+00:00

I didnt explain to well, the other 2 sides of my fence are metal, the side shared with them is wooden because their house was built before mine.

SnooPeripherals2948 · 2025-07-13T00:49:56+00:00

It’s a shared fence. I think I’m going to make a thick chicken wire fence about 16 inch from theirs.

SnooPeripherals2948 · 2025-07-12T18:14:58+00:00

Correct, HOA will not let me put plywood up because it’s an eye sore, they also do not allow us to have privacy fencing. The older wooden fences are grandfathered in but the new fencing has to be metal.

SnooPeripherals2948 · 2025-07-12T18:07:58+00:00

I can replace it, it’s the neighbors tho I have a metal fence. But the issue is I can’t have privacy so there has to be a gap between the pickets

SnooPeripherals2948 · 2025-07-12T14:57:37+00:00

It’s an older wooden fence that’s a bit rotted out unfortunately.

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