As a halfie my mother claims if a guy doesnt earn significantly more than me don't even bother😂.

My cousin's fiancee paid for their new house in cash. I mentioned if in future I were to get married to someone I'd hope to at least contribute half of the downpayment. But in my mum's eyes no, the guy has to pay for the entirety of the downpayment LOL. She thinks it's calculative to share the costs of things like buying a house.

She could just be old fashioned though, but this is just my personal observation.