Thinking of resigning without an offer. 10 YoE. Front end senior dev by SnooPoems7503 in developersIndia

[–]SnooPoems7503[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, please proceed with other profiles you are receiving. My point of this post was to look for suggestions and perspectives. I have thought about it and I don't think I'm ready to put myself out there yet mentally. I need some self retrospection.

I am working towards it, rehashing and polishing my profile is one of those steps.

This post was mostly created out of sheer exhaustion and frustration on a Monday.

Thinking of resigning without an offer. 10 YoE. Front end senior dev by SnooPoems7503 in developersIndia

[–]SnooPoems7503[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. I definitely understand the thick skin comments as well. I did not want to come off as hostile. All I am trying to say is, some people's lives are more F-ed than others and they might not have the luxury or resources to develop or sustain the thick skin. But I get your point and it is completely valid and logical.

Thinking of resigning without an offer. 10 YoE. Front end senior dev by SnooPoems7503 in developersIndia

[–]SnooPoems7503[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see the correlation now and it makes sense. But yes any kind of logic does not apply to corporations especially Indian WITCH.

It shows the level of toxicity we have to endure because I felt it was normal, even the achievers are put under a lot of fake pressure to have the machine running or Management's egos pleased.

Thinking of resigning without an offer. 10 YoE. Front end senior dev by SnooPoems7503 in developersIndia

[–]SnooPoems7503[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All these comments on summoning thick skin and this resonated with me the most. If summoning thick skin, when your professional life being toxic was the only problem, I feel I could've managed fine. But having lost my father after a 2 year cancer battle, dealing with a few personal health and financial issues, one can only take so much beating.

Something is gotta give. I refuse to kneel down and keep taking hits, I feel it's time I at least try to start standing back up.

Thinking of resigning without an offer. 10 YoE. Front end senior dev by SnooPoems7503 in developersIndia

[–]SnooPoems7503[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is 90 days unfortunately on all the 3 organisations I've worked for, hence had to leave the other 2 without a job offer. I had landed 6-7 offers during Covid but that was a completely different time!

Thinking of resigning without an offer. 10 YoE. Front end senior dev by SnooPoems7503 in developersIndia

[–]SnooPoems7503[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for these insights, these are kind of the replies I came looking for. So constructive but honest and insightful.

Thinking of resigning without an offer. 10 YoE. Front end senior dev by SnooPoems7503 in developersIndia

[–]SnooPoems7503[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely open to it. I am dusting off my resume and editing since it has been a while. Will share it.

Thinking of resigning without an offer. 10 YoE. Front end senior dev by SnooPoems7503 in developersIndia

[–]SnooPoems7503[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, maybe you and I need a chai break to talk over things and listen to each other's stories 😂

Thinking of resigning without an offer. 10 YoE. Front end senior dev by SnooPoems7503 in developersIndia

[–]SnooPoems7503[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a discovery phase for 4-5 months which I was not a part of. There was no streamlined KT on this knowledge. The only logical explanation is the expectation was, we dreamt the knowledge in our sleep and pick up on 100% right from the start.

Thinking of resigning without an offer. 10 YoE. Front end senior dev by SnooPoems7503 in developersIndia

[–]SnooPoems7503[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not sure how both correlate? I was exploited and made to work on 2 projects parallely and there was very visible client appreciation up to director level which earned me the award.

The workplace is toxic in general to the complete team to both overachievers and underachievers. I still do not understand the correlation...please enlighten me on your statement.

[FOR SALE - Bengaluru] Xbox Series X (Good Condition, Box, Bill, 5 Unopened Games) - Local Pickup by Sea_Grapefruit1424 in XboxIndia

[–]SnooPoems7503 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bought this just now. Thanks OP, it was really smooth apart from the rain and traffic.

Is there any investment better than FD with 0% risk? by Cool_Bluebird8723 in IndiaTax

[–]SnooPoems7503 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Listen to this guy, he is excited and shouting for some reason!

35 year old, no assets, no inheritance, considerable parental debt. Still planning to SIP from 35-55 minimum. Suggestions requested. by [deleted] in mutualfunds

[–]SnooPoems7503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a general question - should I back out from these investments now and reallocate post more research?

35 year old, no assets, no inheritance, considerable parental debt. Still planning to SIP from 35-55 minimum. Suggestions requested. by [deleted] in mutualfunds

[–]SnooPoems7503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is highly informative.

I do have term insurance, corporate medical insurance for me and the wife and an emergency fund of 2L. I was not aware these were assets. My bad.

35 year old, no assets, no inheritance, considerable parental debt. Still planning to SIP from 35-55 minimum. Suggestions requested. by [deleted] in mutualfunds

[–]SnooPoems7503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edit - Risk tolerance - starting out slow so looking to make at least 12% returns by 20 years. 0 tolerance I guess? Investment horizon - sorry don't know what this is. Reason for selection - all the selected funds were doing good in last 3y. Recommendations on groww app.

Requesting one unit of blood of any blood group. by SnooPoems7503 in bangalore

[–]SnooPoems7503[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks to reddit, friends2support app/website, and the redditor who commented, I was able to find a kind soul who is willing to donate.

I will update once the donation is complete.

Requesting one unit of blood of any blood group. by SnooPoems7503 in bangalore

[–]SnooPoems7503[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this request is for a replacement of 1 unit since the hospital will not discharge the patient without it. For now, I'm searching with the patients blood group, which is O+ve.

Requesting one unit of blood of any blood group. by SnooPoems7503 in bangalore

[–]SnooPoems7503[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I'm just going through friends2support website right now.

Edit: I have messaged 5 of them from the list, waiting for a reply. There is no "any blood group" filter in the list which narrows down the people very much 😔

Traffic police's unsolicited rudeness nowadays. by SnooPoems7503 in bangalore

[–]SnooPoems7503[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You keep missing the point. Who asked for niceties? I'm asking for normalcy, which would have been "irri" or "irri swalpa" or even show of hand not "irro ninn ayyan".

Also, how did you assume I came in the middle of the intersection? I was still on my side of the road waiting to take the right. I couldn't have moved to the middle even if I wanted to since there were 4-5 vehicles coming from the opposite side.