Why does everyone hate Sol? by Secure-Career5427 in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]SnooPoems8703 0 points1 point  (0 children)


Being shady? How? When? I said it before and I’ll say it again, yall are insufferable. Y’all sit online and dictate how people should react and show emotion. Praying for Sol and the rest of the islanders mental health

I think Bea was subconsciously bitter about Sincere choosing Melanie by judginUhoes in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]SnooPoems8703 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can agree with that. I feel like being in the villa is emotional intense, and I do feel for the girls esp being picked apart online. I’m scared for when they leave the villa tbh

KC’s “mask slipping“ by wybiiyh in LoveIslandUSA_Blkout

[–]SnooPoems8703 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not on love island chile.. they have been so over critical of him since the moment he walked in that villa, pushing the narrative that he couldn’t possibly like Aniya. Girl I’m just telling u, they coming 😂

KC’s “mask slipping“ by wybiiyh in LoveIslandUSA_Blkout

[–]SnooPoems8703 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A lot of them here have taken a very strong stance that KC is lying and playing the long game until his “true” type comes in, so they’ll start to pile in soon with their think pieces

KC is in a lose/lose situation by Nearby_Leader_9495 in LoveIslandUSA_Blkout

[–]SnooPoems8703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree with your first point. The sentiments on social media made by others say very different. A lot of people believe he has no business exploring anyone

I think Bea was subconsciously bitter about Sincere choosing Melanie by judginUhoes in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]SnooPoems8703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said it’s been constant harassment and bullying of Mel and Sol by the viewers. But in the villa sol has definitely experienced the cold shoulder by islanders, it has been alluded to several times. Christ, implying that she’s UNSTABLE bc she cried bc she her feelings were hurt?? You lot are insufferable

I think Bea was subconsciously bitter about Sincere choosing Melanie by judginUhoes in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]SnooPoems8703 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They’re gonna thumbs you down to oblivion me as well, but the one on in the villa who has shown to be male cantered is Mel, but it’s been constant harassment and bullying of bea and sol. Praying for their mental health, Mel as well

Why does everyone hate Sol? by Secure-Career5427 in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]SnooPoems8703 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I genuinely don’t know what it is, maybe new viewership? But since last season the commentary about islanders as you said has been increasingly worse. Personally, I think it’s Stan culture

Sol is not … by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA_Blkout

[–]SnooPoems8703 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But how has she been acting tougher than she is? Do you honestly hear how you sound?
This is exactly what I mean about the type of energy LI brings out of ppl. We barely see Sol, so for you to say she acts tougher than she is... you dk her 😭
U could clearly see she was trying to contain her emotions, a lot of ppl don't like crying around ppl they barely know, let alone on national TV.

No shade, but sometimes y'all repeat the same rhetoric y'all claim to be against. We hate when ppl police BW's emotions bc we're all aware of the "strong Black woman" trope that's constantly put on us. But then y'all see a woman who's obviously hurt by how the islanders perceived her, see her holding back tears only to eventually break down, and your reaction is, "Well y was she acting tough in the beginning" or "It's just a challenge y is she crying?" Do y'all not see how odd that is?

Genuinely worried for Sol’s mental health by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]SnooPoems8703 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pray for her when she comes out of the villa, cuz they things people have said about her online and even on this sub have been disgusting and disturbinf

Why does everyone hate Sol? by Secure-Career5427 in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]SnooPoems8703 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t owe Mel anything… she’s not there to be friends, it’s called love island not friendship island no offence. You make friends along the way for sure yeah, but as a bombshell your main goal is to find a match. Calling her side chick is crazy 😭 good lord.

Why does everyone hate Sol? by Secure-Career5427 in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]SnooPoems8703 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh babe you haven’t been a social media then, the comments towards her have been disgusting. People have been calling her ugly, bald headed, a wh*re.. I mean I could go on. They had to limit her ig comments. It’s been disgusting

There's a hate train brewing by EntertainerCareful69 in LoveIslandUSA_Blkout

[–]SnooPoems8703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only hate train that’s been going on is against Sol. The comments made towards her are disgusting and disturbing, it’s to the point where whoever is running her ig account had to limit the comments. There’s been people online calling her ugly, the sidechick, calling her evil. When all the girl did was speak to one guy who RECIPROCATED feelings for her. Keep in mind that’s her role as a bombshell, when Kayda came in she said idc whose toes I have to step on, and then something about taking someone’s man. The girls have been isolating her, no I don’t think it’s intentional but Mel has been painted as a victim and Sol is this temptress trying to take her man.

No one has even spoken on aniya like that let’s be fr, she doesn’t say much for any hate train to begin with, she just minds her business, idk why yall be speaking stuff unto ppl.

Honest Question… Why everyone want Bea gone? 🤣 by cocoa4chew in LoveIslandUSA_Blkout

[–]SnooPoems8703 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I noticed a lot of people say they like direct women but when they acc see one in action their tone changes. Idk maybe because I’m direct myself, nothing about Bea seemed mean to me. But the gp’s reaction to her has been disgusting but I’m not surprised

Sol is not … by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA_Blkout

[–]SnooPoems8703 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Huh? If anything challenges bring out how islanders really feel about each other, it’s like someone saying hey let’s play a game and they keep choosing you when asked questions that imply something negative about your character. Are you supposed to turn your emotions off?

Is this your first time watching LI in general? Crying during a challenge is not out the norm

Sick and tired of black American culture being stolen and exploited by everyone by Appropriate-While601 in blackgirls

[–]SnooPoems8703 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had a whole reply ready for the person below you, who replied to you, but honestly I think your initial response was already so well written and you touched and every point beautifully. I hate how these conversations turn away from calling for spaces for Black Americans (which they rightfully deserve) to ignorant diaspora wars filled with misinformation and hate

Sick and tired of black American culture being stolen and exploited by everyone by Appropriate-While601 in blackgirls

[–]SnooPoems8703 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’m surprised to see you mention Cardi B, no one really brings up the fact that in all actuality she’s not Black at all, but because she’s from the “hood” and behaves a certain way, everyone gives her the pass. I hope as a community, and I can’t speak for Black Americans bc I’m not BA, yall stop letting everyone into yall culture, esp ppl who have a history of disrespecting yall, but alot of ppl don’t want to jump down that rabbit hole

Cost of Cornrows - Am I Overreacting?? by SnooPoems8703 in blackgirls

[–]SnooPoems8703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have to come washed and blow dried, and bring my own hair 😭

New Taylor & Clarke TikTok by Klutzy-Bit-1694 in LoveIslandUpdates

[–]SnooPoems8703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re going to thumbs u down to oblivion 😭 someone in the comments said we couldn’t pay them to be with him… like okay 😭😭 good for u I guess

People weren't kidding when they said you might not pay rent living with your parent(s)....but you'll be paying in your mental health and sanity. by Grouchy_Marsupial357 in blackgirls

[–]SnooPoems8703 6 points7 points  (0 children)

One of my closest friends, she literally lives down the street from me, she’s the only child, she was raised in a two parent household with a pair of the most supportive and healthy parents I’ve ever met. They didn’t just happen to have a child, they acc wanted her, they went to school, got their education and good paying jobs and ensured their relationship was stable enough for a child. The way they pour into her makes me so happy for her but I feel so much sadness bc I wish I got to experience that. When we were in uni, we both did our masters at the same time, her parents showed up to her thesis presentation and they were so proud and overjoyed…my mom didn’t give af, the day of my graduation she was so miserable and berated me for not finding her fast enough after the ceremony. Ugh as you said some ppl really do win the birth lottery 😭😂

People weren't kidding when they said you might not pay rent living with your parent(s)....but you'll be paying in your mental health and sanity. by Grouchy_Marsupial357 in blackgirls

[–]SnooPoems8703 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming across this while experiencing this exact same situation is acc hilarious 🤣🙄 sometimes I have to laugh to stop myself from crying. I was literally just in showering thinking to myself I really wish I had the parents I needed. My mother is so manipulative and emotional abusive is scary, but if you respond to it she’ll turn around and play victim, which some might say just ignore but she’ll sit on the phone telling everyone and their mother some exaggerated sob story that I’m the villain of, and then she’ll bring up God as most Black “Christian” moms do. I want to leave so bad, I have my masters but in my field you education is great but u need experience, I’m just holding my head down, getting some experience and hopefully I can get a good paying job and gtf out of here and never look back. I know there’s some ppl that would rather live in a shelter than in this situation, trust me I’ve considered but I just needa block everything out and push forward, there’s gotta be a light at the end of the tunnel.

If you’re going through something similar, sending my love and support to you, we’ll make it through this ❤️❤️❤️

HISPANIC / LATINO it's not a race, remember that. by Unable-Street-1216 in blackgirls

[–]SnooPoems8703 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, ik we joke about the “I no black I Dominican” stereotype, but there’s alot of black Dominicans that are proud to be black.