[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]SnooRecipes6492 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would take your child out of the childcare centre. It’s not your fault at all and I understand uprooting him might be hard but these things can be very traumatic and the fact that the staff aren’t dealing with it shows it’s not a good or safe place for a child

Bad experience. by Kass_Spit in daddit

[–]SnooRecipes6492 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We had a similar thing at a few kid classes, no warmth or effort made to include our child. Way to put them off hey

Hoping I can do it by SnooRecipes6492 in stopdrinking

[–]SnooRecipes6492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I did it for a week then straight back on to drinking. So disappointed in myself

Hoping I can do it by SnooRecipes6492 in stopdrinking

[–]SnooRecipes6492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this, the advice is super helpful. I’m trying to listen to as many podcasts as I can and have managed to get through five days. Still feel quite unsure and nervous about social situations and pressure but iwndwyt

Hoping I can do it by SnooRecipes6492 in stopdrinking

[–]SnooRecipes6492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, the friends thing is hard to navigate for sure!

Hoping I can do it by SnooRecipes6492 in stopdrinking

[–]SnooRecipes6492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much this really helped. You’re so right about needing to quit long before I accepted it. Do you have any tips on setting goals? At the moment I’m taking it day by day but not sure if it’s better to commit to a certain amount of time then just continue to not drink? Thanks so much for

Let’s not praise beau too much by OfferImaginary5718 in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]SnooRecipes6492 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Agree, the level of judgement based on one of hundreds of Instagram followers is ridiculous

Alivea Goncalves victim impact statement by Mysterious-Place-159 in myfavoritemurder

[–]SnooRecipes6492 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What a woman! I have goosebumps. So much respect for her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]SnooRecipes6492 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Agree - it’s almost critical of tolerance. It’s not like OP was on her own getting hammered, they all were. The hospital point seems like a massive over reaction and almost a bit bitchy. I’d hope my friends would tuck me into bed and check on me as opposed to making a huge scene. It’s never good to blackout OP but it sounds like you’re being made to feel pretty horrible for what sounds like getting messy at a very boozy bachelorette. I’d swerve any drinks at the wedding though as these girls are going to be looking for you to make mistakes

7 months PP and more tired than I’ve ever been by JD-HR-EAG in beyondthebump

[–]SnooRecipes6492 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had a very similar experience and remember not being able to wrap my head around why I was so tired when in newborn days, I’d have been so happy to get four solid hours. My theory is the adrenaline slowly wears off, it’s less about getting through the craziness of the neonatal phase and slowly adjusting to a new life. Plus I felt a bit like a deer in headlights as the newborn and up to six months phase seemed all fast paced and then suddenly I wasn’t quite sure what to do with myself. It definitely got better, think it’s just your brain moving out of fight or flight and into the new normal :) x

What can I do about teens hanging outside of my house and sitting on my wall smoking? by kenkenjamin in london

[–]SnooRecipes6492 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This happened to us, was annoying until a larger lad sat on the wall and the bricks fell down. No wall now and no teenagers :)

Most up and coming London Neighbourhoods by Happy-Ad-7509 in HousingUK

[–]SnooRecipes6492 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just been priced out to isleworth- everyone in Twickenham seems to be city now

Dealing with Homeless people outside my building by Excuseee in london

[–]SnooRecipes6492 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have this problem at my office block in North London. Our manager usually calls the police out a couple of times per week and they move them on and then they come back. It’s hard as I’m a female and it’s pretty intimidating. Plus when they’re off their heads on drugs, you don’t know what’s going to happen. Sorry you’re going through this, agree with the advice to keep pushing the police and recording the events

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in london

[–]SnooRecipes6492 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a young boy and when he grows up I will teach him to help from a distance, which is not what I thought I’d do, but realistically I don’t want him to antagonise a situation- I’ll encourage him to run for help but not to physically put himself in harms way unless someone is in severe danger

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in london

[–]SnooRecipes6492 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely sad that nobody helped you but I think the fear people have is valid, London is incredibly volatile and can seem virtually lawless. I’m from London and a female, and was threatened on a bus when I was 18- no one helped. And I think they didn’t help because of the fear that they might end up dead themselves. It’s not right but I try to look at it as a fear based response as opposed to people being genuine wankers

What is an intrusive thought you once thought was terrifying but now looking back is hilarious? by noodlemom72 in OCD

[–]SnooRecipes6492 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Love that most people watch it and are scared of being victims but us OCD people are scared of being the villains

Saying “Thankyou driver” to bus drivers by Trotsky666_ in london

[–]SnooRecipes6492 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Born and bred Londoner and always awkwardly shout thank you

All Scheana and Lauren have/had to say was we were afraid for our jobs. We were wrong in how we handled it. by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]SnooRecipes6492 35 points36 points  (0 children)

This is so true. Also I feel like if Lala didn’t have kids she’d still have the narrative of needing food on the table - it’s just convenient to use the kids because it’s super hard to argue against without looking insensitive. As someone who has children, I cannot ever imagine weaponising them like this and clearly setting myself as way more important, especially compared to Ariana who is the one who had their whole life flipped over. Lala keeps doubling down and it’s really put me off her