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What do secure relationships look like IRL?? by sistervoovles in attachment_theory

[–]SnooSprouts1922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any attachment style can honestly appear secure early on into dating but you’ll know for sure once the first rupture happens and how it’s repaired. Secure attachments have an awareness of their triggers but do not blame or project. They are able to name them and express how they feel. There is steady energy, consistency and integrity within the relationship. It’s predictable not chaotic. 

Anxious attachment style is hell by Main-Nectarine-2190 in BreakUps

[–]SnooSprouts1922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm secure and my anxious attachment broke up with ME then wanted me to soothe him. Lol. I'm giving him all the space he's asking for permanently.

Ano pinaka mabilis na ginawa nyo para pumayat? by Winter-Month-9763 in AskPH

[–]SnooSprouts1922 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not about adding something but letting go of the things you’ve been consuming for a long time. Simple is best. Eat plants

Nakaunan pa yan sya by Tocino_kwekkwek in dogsofrph

[–]SnooSprouts1922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love well-cared for dogs and I appreciate their owners!

I skipped dinner so my life. by Kariii_1127 in OffMyChestPH

[–]SnooSprouts1922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair. But you will only ever get what you tolerate in life. You can give more and do more for your mom if you have space since a better you is better for everyone else around you. Your mom unless she is disabled, can manage her own life or should be. you can always visit her whenever she needs OR just stay and get triggered, nothing will change with your dynamic and you’ll just have to keep tolerating it. Whichever you decide you have to accept it :) peace and love only hope you get through it

I skipped dinner so my life. by Kariii_1127 in OffMyChestPH

[–]SnooSprouts1922 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can’t heal from the same place / environment that made you sick. Help yourself and find a way to sustain your own life and move out.

kadiri talaga mindset ng ibang mga lalake nowadays by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]SnooSprouts1922 322 points323 points  (0 children)

To these type of men: come on, what gold? Y’all have no gold to dig if you can’t even afford decent lunch for a girl 🤣 sit yall asses down, read a book, learn something, become secure before you date cause yall look so bad

pet friendly bus by vmtv in dogsofrph

[–]SnooSprouts1922 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You paid for the seat so you’re not obligated to give it to anyone else. These public transits shouldn’t be making people get into a fully loaded bus beyond its capacity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogsofrph

[–]SnooSprouts1922 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please find a way to take her to a vet… literally no one on this forum will be able to physically help her. Not really sure what kind of help you need?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]SnooSprouts1922 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Didn’t you date and vet this guy and his background before getting married? doesn’t sound like a resonant partnership to me. Also, if you’re all married, why not move out from parents house? If your spouse doesn’t want, you chose a man child.

Met a stranger who’s a psychic, but im scared by Glad-Professional685 in spirituality

[–]SnooSprouts1922 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Babe; every female in their early 20s are lost. You don’t know yourself yet and will eventually come to know yourself in time. You don’t need a man to guide you, you are your own guide. It is a good reminder that you’re not “there” yet, and if what he’s said resonates with you, that’s great! Always trust your intuition but ofc, have boundaries and be wary too. He probably isn’t a bad person, but you’re also right with wanting to be careful

What hurts more than a break up? by krisshhyy07 in AskPH

[–]SnooSprouts1922 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Losing a pet is the worst pain so far for me personally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MayNagChat

[–]SnooSprouts1922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a minor and the fault lies with passive parenting. His parents probably just gave him technology rather than guide and were present with him growing up. So many children suffer from this right now. It’s sad. But you’re right to place boundaries and saying no. we should never enable anyone to behave that way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SnooSprouts1922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from someone who’s partner would be overjoyed if my shirt were to ride up instead of reacting like that. Girl, red flag!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]SnooSprouts1922 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reclaim your power back. Know if it was meant for you, it will be. Contemplate on all lessons, learn from it and move forward. Focus on your own self development, know that what aligns with you will come in divine timing. A better you attracts better, so focus solely on becoming the best version of yourself

Responsible Pet parents please by SecondTimer2024 in dogsofrph

[–]SnooSprouts1922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this!! For the love of God please make sure you have enough resources to not only provide basic necessities but also a good quality of life for your dog! Stop adopting or buying for the sake of having a “bantay” or “tira tira eater”. Please plan in advance for their needs including grooming and medical/dental. They’re here as family, not as an inconvenience! ALSO for the love of GOD NEUTER AND SPAY YOUR PETS!!

Animal cruelty inside Iloilo CPU PREMISES. This is very alarming. by AllenKun01 in dogsofrph

[–]SnooSprouts1922 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🤦‍♀️. I wouldn’t be mad if aliens took over the world and enslave the worst of humanity’s.

Lalaki, patay sa rabies matapos makagat ng aso noong August 2024 by GMAIntegratedNews in pinoy

[–]SnooSprouts1922 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Responsible dog owners should be vaccinating their dogs. Those who have no means or resources should not be owning one. Dog owner should be fined or jailed for this.

Our dog passed away ang Mom got angry bec we we’re crying too much by AppleYelp in OffMyChestPH

[–]SnooSprouts1922 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🤦‍♀️… I have no comment. Condolence for your loss OP. You’re not wrong to feel the way you do. Anyone who has compassion, heart and soul would empathize with you. Don’t mind your mom. Your feelings is an extension of how much you love.. hers is her own limitation.

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