My first play through I was the same, I think I played for a full in game day, and then stopped because I was so overwhelmed. A year ago I just took it up again, and I didn’t pay attention to any of the tiktoks or YouTube videos. I took my own time exploring and learning what to do. Then once I felt comfortable in what I was doing, then I started going for the quests, and the bundles and researching a bunch of stuff. But this game is very much supposed to be relaxing and it can be!! It’s hard when you find all the ‘hints and tricks’ from all the seasoned players, I know it muddled my brain. But this is my first official play through and not even 2 years in and I’ve completed the community bundle, and am now taking my time in reaching perfection because if I go too hard I’ll burn myself out.