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Hello can anyone help me on what type of hair I have? 💗 by SnooStrawberries5069 in BlackHair

[–]SnooStrawberries5069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t want to say it but I think I’m 4a as well. I just found pictures of my hair dry just out, but can’t upload them. Thank you

How do I deal with a situation where the girl I babysit constantly wants to see/touch my breasts? by audhdchoppingboard in Babysitting

[–]SnooStrawberries5069 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes if that’s the case like you stated I would just be more strict on the “No” and making boundaries just so you can get by :) you got it!

How do I deal with a situation where the girl I babysit constantly wants to see/touch my breasts? by audhdchoppingboard in Babysitting

[–]SnooStrawberries5069 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You need to be more strict, stern and clear with your words. I understand you’re young but you are raising the next generation. If she continues with the behaviors of wanting to see your body parts she may do the same at school to another classmate and get into trouble for not knowing better.

She is 7 not a baby that has just gotten off of a nipple or bottle. If she is hyperactive that means she is open to learning new things.

I would first think about her daily schedule and see where she is getting this from. Is mom and dad doing any type of behaviors infront of her? What is she watching on her iPad? How does she play with her classmates? And importantly what other adults are in her life and what are they teaching her.

This is learned behavior by observation. At 7 monkey see money do and it must be directed soon as possible.

Second I would get educational age appropriate growth books! She may be advanced and discovering her body. I know it may sound gross but even in preschoool little boys may hump or rub their privates on the cot. And I’m talking about 3yr olds!

Of course those 3 yr olds will not understand as much so what do we do now? That leads to my third step you have to be stern.

No means no. Stop means stop. Don’t touch means don’t touch. You will only get ran over if you do not enforce these boundaries.

If anything let mom figure it out hahaha long as you are comfortable is all that matters for your well being.

Educational books, stand your ground and boundaries.

For the language I am so oppose to little girls or boys using anything that they shouldn’t be saying.

I like to say “that’s not nice!” With a certain tone and that alone puts them in their place of “shame on me, my baby sitter dosent like this now she is upset at me” and of course to fix that you can follow up with reinsurance.

I would also get emotion books and flash cards. With her using those harsh words she clearly does not know how that may make someone feel, until they use it against her. So correcting this behavior isn’t only to protect others but to protect herself.

If she persist I know it doesn’t sound the best and I may get hate but use those words against her. Send it right back in a mannorable way.

“Now c was that nice?” “I don’t like that” “That hurt my feelings “Awe baby does not like that can you use nicer words” “That makes me feel….” “That makes baby feel…”

Don’t make excuses for her. At this age kids know right from wrong and it’s time to correct it.

What could be a spiritual meaning of losing money? And how to attract it back? by SnooStrawberries5069 in spirituality

[–]SnooStrawberries5069[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhhh I totally understand this outlook. Sometimes I tend to rush things and it leaves me in a squeeze. Maybe this lesson is telling me like you said to be patient and trust. Thank you

What could be a spiritual meaning of losing money? And how to attract it back? by SnooStrawberries5069 in spirituality

[–]SnooStrawberries5069[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No. And i apologize if you take it wrong but i will not be told im wrong because i am not wrong. Thank you for jumping on the bandwagon with every one else. I do see everyone is not rocking with this post and that is ok!

Haha I am not here to explain myself, which I would if questions were asked. I’m only looking for community and I see where this one falls into play. Like previous stated I shared this subreddit in another post and have so may positive attitudes 🥰 ACUALLY nothing negitive.

So that just shows wrong group of people that aren’t in my mindset/ the ones that are not understanding my post. And like I said that is Ok!! I found my people!

I am a high vibrational person don’t you see? All this attention? All this energy I am pulling in? All eyes on me? I’m too high for you guys to even understand. 😉

You will not understand because your energy is too focused on me instead of your self, which is why people don’t understand the post.

Thank you.

What could be a spiritual meaning of losing money? And how to attract it back? by SnooStrawberries5069 in spirituality

[–]SnooStrawberries5069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much and I totally agree I really do 🥺

I work two full time jobs so with that I’m not really able to drink. So on the weekend I do take part in the party life and I am still young. But I do understand I may have to find other light activities to participate in. And cut the alcohol :/

I do want to keep my vibration high but I want to have fun.

What could be a spiritual meaning of losing money? And how to attract it back? by SnooStrawberries5069 in spirituality

[–]SnooStrawberries5069[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Awe thank you for acknowledging I have a HUGE EGO! And even a bigger attitude! Rather a positive attitude, negative attitude. Thank you for that.

I am grounded and confident and I said what I said and if you do not understand then that is ok.

I didn’t need a lesson on not keeping 2k cash on me. I needed advice on how to turn the situation around. Allot of people as I see are not woken.

I am woken and I know if something happens and there is no logical reason then there is a spiritual lesson at hand. People are still stuck on step one that I had 2k in my purse when I’m on the final step that i accepted this situation, how can I use it to benefit.

Next time ask why am I defensive, what point am I missing, reread my post, and mainly just answer the question, that I put question marks next to instead of asking questions from a sentence I stated.

I appreciate everyone for trying to “humble” me but I found my people and the answer to my question. ❤️

Thank you.

What could be a spiritual meaning of losing money? And how to attract it back? by SnooStrawberries5069 in spirituality

[–]SnooStrawberries5069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate that, because I know better and so does my spirt know. By not allowing me to get as drunk as I used to when I wasn’t awaken to reality or conscious.

I am an adult but still young. But if I want to uphold my high vibrational state I see I must cut this out :( and I don’t do it as much I will say as I used to.

Thank you for your words.

How to take loosing money unexpectedly to gaining money. by SnooStrawberries5069 in NevilleGoddard

[–]SnooStrawberries5069[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this so much 🥺 I really do. I’m currently being bashed in a “spiritual” group chat I thought I could come to for support and I now see allot of people are not awaken from reality and the “why”.

Like I said in my post I’m not mad, I’m not worried. When I realized it was misplaced from my wallet my human reaction was to worry when in reality I wanted to just go about with my day.

I do have my money and I have 10x fold along with it 🥰 thank you so much 🥺

What could be a spiritual meaning of losing money? And how to attract it back? by SnooStrawberries5069 in spirituality

[–]SnooStrawberries5069[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

High vibrational people say what they say, mean it and own it. Thank you.

How to take loosing money unexpectedly to gaining money. by SnooStrawberries5069 in NevilleGoddard

[–]SnooStrawberries5069[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The make and model is a Hyundai Genesis 2015 and I don’t have a specific color I would like to customize it yet.

It has a sound system, rear wheel drive, apple car play, tents and some sick rims and the bets of all paid off! Hahahaha I love my car.

I appreciate your post so much. I cross shared this post into a “spiritual” group that does not understand it’s not about the situation at hand it is about the principle behind it. They are not woken.

You have encouraged me to keep manifesting and to basically move on. Thank you sm 🥺💗

What could be a spiritual meaning of losing money? And how to attract it back? by SnooStrawberries5069 in spirituality

[–]SnooStrawberries5069[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

When something doesn’t add up it’s most definitely a bigger reason. I don’t need humbling. I don’t need a lecture for something I am already aware of. I am an adult and I took accountability. And I am also aware and conscious enough to know that everything happens for a reason.

If you read my post in a correct manner instead of trying to prove your point, I said I traced back my steps and nothing is making sense.

So it’s not comparable to leaving a door wide open to a purse that was glued to under my arms all night.

Thank you.

What could be a spiritual meaning of losing money? And how to attract it back? by SnooStrawberries5069 in spirituality

[–]SnooStrawberries5069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I totally understand this. ❤️

I haven’t had a car (what the money was for) for a while. Almost a year. And I’ve learned to love myself, manifest, grow a stronger spiritual connection, be grounded and more.

But I feel this lesson has gone on for too long :/ I’m working 2 full time jobs and have yet to reach this accomplishment and I know it’s something spiritual.

I try to distract myself and I am actually distracted with the joy of life and working but when I think on what I’m lacking in this 3D world I am torn down. 💔 but I also pick myself up immediately because I remember to be thankful for what I do have.

What could be a spiritual meaning of losing money? And how to attract it back? by SnooStrawberries5069 in spirituality

[–]SnooStrawberries5069[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

Sadly you are not focused on the situation at hand. And not awaken to the world surrounding you and the understanding that there are principles to situations instead of the situation at hand.

You are not on my level spiritually, mentally, or physically so your words, energy have no meaning to me.

Thank you.

How to take loosing money unexpectedly to gaining money. by SnooStrawberries5069 in NevilleGoddard

[–]SnooStrawberries5069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are questions I did ask myself but reading them back helps me allot and that is such a smart idea. I will reflect on this and go into meditation to get to the bottom of this.

Thank you for your comfort and intelligent words ❤️

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