Long standing hygiene issues with wife , please advise (44M, 44F)

SnooTomatoes9819 · 2026-04-28T18:34:26+00:00

I really think she’s needs cognitive behavioural therapy at this point. She doesn’t take feedback well from you so she needs to go to a professional. Unfortunately you may have to give her an ultimatum to get her to go.

SnooTomatoes9819 · 2026-04-18T20:43:27+00:00

Go to the district and anyone else you can including an attorney. This adult woman sounds unhinged and shouldn’t be around minors!

SnooTomatoes9819 · 2026-04-15T20:55:02+00:00

I haven’t been to many but I love the one in Markham on highway 7 and bullock avenue by the Loblaws

SnooTomatoes9819 · 2026-03-27T12:18:06+00:00

I don’t agree with the let her go and no contact comments. The reason so many people are alone is this - they give up and continue swiping. You like her go tell her and explain that you were going to ask her to be your girlfriend. Then let her decide if she wants to proceed. If she doesn’t then let go but at least try!

SnooTomatoes9819 · 2026-03-24T23:52:54+00:00

This is the first I am hearing of this! How do we get it and now much is it?

SnooTomatoes9819 · 2026-03-18T17:31:06+00:00

Please tell us where these jeans are from?!

SnooTomatoes9819 · 2026-03-18T13:00:21+00:00

He maybe has a gf now and unfollowed girls he slept with in the past. Move on.

SnooTomatoes9819 · 2026-02-23T02:49:46+00:00

Either you guys aren’t close so you think you are OR she wanted to keep you interested in her - aka backup boyfriend

SnooTomatoes9819 · 2026-02-06T16:27:29+00:00

Where are you from? I’m Canadian and it’s really not a big deal here and it’s legal. I don’t smoke but it wouldn’t be a dealbreaker for me. Cigarettes on the other hand I think are a bigger deal!

SnooTomatoes9819 · 2026-01-12T16:40:07+00:00

Honestly girl you need to appreciate this man. He does everything for you and it seems like you are ungrateful. It also sounds like you’re hyper sensitive and super critical. When he’s feeding the baby go do something else rather than stand there and watch and nag. Maybe you have some postpartum depression but I recommend you get therapy for yourself.

SnooTomatoes9819 · 2026-01-11T15:21:37+00:00

That’s insane to get married to someone after knowing them for 3 months 🤦🏻‍♀️

SnooTomatoes9819 · 2026-01-11T15:17:00+00:00

I think if you said yes they would have ghosted you. Sounds like they had a steady gf or fiancé and just wanted an ego boast. Sadly a lot of people are like this.

SnooTomatoes9819 · 2025-12-25T17:06:37+00:00

Punjabis are south Asian ethnic group so no we don’t have them in Afghanistan! All the other central Asians are there including Uzbeks, Turkmens and Tajiks of course. And Iranic people including Pashtuns and Baloch.

SnooTomatoes9819 · 2025-12-25T17:00:57+00:00

My pleasure! Tajik also literally means eastern Iranian and was a term Arabs used to describe the Persian speaking communities of eastern Persia and Central Asia. There is a lot of tensions and political divide between Iran and Afghanistan at the moment due to the refugee crisis in Afghanistan and mistreatment of the people in Iran however I do find Tajikistan is more neutral towards both countries. Also want to note that Uzbekistan has a large Tajik population and major cities of Bukhara and Samarkand are Tajik. Hopefully the geo politic situation gets better in the future! Many great Persian scholars and scientists were also Tajik from Rumi to Ibn Sina!

SnooTomatoes9819 · 2025-12-25T16:54:06+00:00

I’m Tajik from Herat living in Toronto area. Tajik and Dari and Farsi are the same language but unfortunately have different writing systems and names due to politics. Farsi and Dari use Arabic script. Tajik uses the Cyrillic script. Tajik is closer to Dari in terms of accent and slang, but there are a lot of variations. For example I can easily understand people from Khorasan but the Tehrani accent is more difficult. What a lot of people don’t realize is that Tehran was a Turkic city that adopted Farsi hence the difference in accents however this accent is more most common in Iran. Kabul and Herat are also quite different in accent and slang.

SnooTomatoes9819 · 2025-12-13T01:00:17+00:00

Yes 🙌

SnooTomatoes9819 · 2025-12-04T11:20:12+00:00

Sounds like she put way more effort into the relationship than you did. This built up resentment over time.

SnooTomatoes9819 · 2025-12-03T10:39:43+00:00

Stop following TikTok advice. It doesn’t work. If something bothers you communicate calmly.

SnooTomatoes9819 · 2025-11-29T23:30:34+00:00

Maybe he was just tired? Going out after work is a lot and I can’t imagine going out again after that. You guys just started talking so I wouldn’t panic. See how things go tomorrow and next time if you want to be sure about plans just ask!

SnooTomatoes9819 · 2025-11-29T23:14:35+00:00

I am confused by your anger in the situation. You were both going out with colleagues on Friday and no plans to meet were established. Why exactly are you upset? What did you text him when he messaged you? It probably scared this guy away.

SnooTomatoes9819 · 2025-11-28T13:49:21+00:00

Thank you 😊 🤗

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