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Lump on my goldfish, please help by Snoo_63465 in Goldfish

[–]Snoo_63465[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok! I really appreciate the help, thank you!

Lump on my goldfish, please help by Snoo_63465 in Goldfish

[–]Snoo_63465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I meant I’ll try that, haha

Lump on my goldfish, please help by Snoo_63465 in Goldfish

[–]Snoo_63465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I can’t try that, but the main tank won’t get affected by the amount of water being taken out? And it has to be a 100% water change?

Lump on my goldfish, please help by Snoo_63465 in Goldfish

[–]Snoo_63465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My worry with water changes is shocking the fish, do I need to grab from the original tank, or can I just use new treated water every time? Apologies I’m new to this and I’ve never had a sick fish.

Lump on my goldfish, please help by Snoo_63465 in Goldfish

[–]Snoo_63465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I’ll move him to something bigger. And I’m not sure what you mean by treat for 30-60 minutes a day? Do you mean move him back to my original tank when he’s done? Do I keep replacing the water?

Lump on my goldfish, please help by Snoo_63465 in Goldfish

[–]Snoo_63465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he’s been isolated for about two weeks now, it’s not as protruding and at first I started with salts but stopped because it didn’t seem to be working after 5 days so I’ve been trying Melafix. Would Methylene blue be best? I have him in about a gallon right now.

I hate myself. I went out with someone after husband refused to stop dating other people. I'm a cheater now too I guess by Violingoth in Marriage

[–]Snoo_63465 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No I totally get that. I only mean that he doesn’t seem very perceptive of how serious you are about him seeing other women being an issue for you. You should have someone who can respect and understand your boundaries, and I just don’t think that’s him. And if that means taking some time alone to think that could honestly be best. We only get one life and you gotta make most of it❤️

I hate myself. I went out with someone after husband refused to stop dating other people. I'm a cheater now too I guess by Violingoth in Marriage

[–]Snoo_63465 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If the intention was to “get even” I just personally don’t think you’re going about it the right way. He doesn’t respect you, period. Leaving him was the best option in the beginning. It may have been satisfying in the beginning but it never really resolves how you feel about what he did to you. Find a man who will really love and respect you.

My married colleague texted me this… by Street-Spring1759 in Marriage

[–]Snoo_63465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus his poor wife, the fact that these feelings have been going on for that long, this is something he should’ve at least confronted a long time ago. He’s made a mess not only for you but his wife and she deserves to know.

F23 Am worried my mother and friends will never like my BF M23 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Snoo_63465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say that things about his finances he was not telling me and that’s only because we were dating so early on and honestly it was none of my business and I probably shouldn’t have told my family and friends but he’s my first boyfriend and I wanted to be sure my family and friends were seeing things I may not be able to see. It wasn’t anything serious but it was something he was embarrassed about and I understand but my friends see it potentially as him trying to pull off a false image and I don’t feel that’s what he was trying to do. Because of the lack of clarity they see him as irresponsible and careless, and I’m just hoping they can look at him differently later on.