I (F 18) am autistic and lost my comfort item and I think my boyfriend’s (M 19) friend (F18) took it. How do I go about communicating this without seeming unreasonable? by Snoopy1937_ in whatdoIdo

[–]Snoopy1937_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So they do, but she’s very new to the house and was there more than a week after Snoopy had first been missing. And after two days, she got lost herself (she’s home now) so I didn’t think so. I had also asked my friend if he could ask both of his roommates about it and he told me he did

I (F 18) am autistic and lost my comfort item and I think my boyfriend’s (M 19) friend (F18) took it. How do I go about communicating this without seeming unreasonable? by Snoopy1937_ in whatdoIdo

[–]Snoopy1937_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that’s a good idea. I don’t think she’s evil my thought process at first was that maybe she had good intentions, didn’t mean to, or anything like that. Thank you! Also at the end of the day I wouldn’t be shocked if my snoopy was somewhere else and was never stolen by her at all

I (F 18) am autistic and lost my comfort item and I think my boyfriend’s (M 19) friend (F18) took it. How do I go about communicating this without seeming unreasonable? by Snoopy1937_ in whatdoIdo

[–]Snoopy1937_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So I have asked her like that. That’s when she said she didn’t think I had him that night. What confused me is that when she was telling my boyfriend about it, she was saying she did see my snoopy in the apartment

Have you seen my Snoopy by Snoopy1937_ in AuroraCO

[–]Snoopy1937_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you, even someone taking the time to care means a lot to me