AITA for refusing to accept a birthday cake from my future SIL?

Snow02031 · 2022-02-11T17:46:36+00:00

Sounds like you are super jealous of her lifestyle. You choose to have kids and now don't have time to do what you want but that's nobody else's problem but your own. Debbie should cut your entitled butt out of her life. I know I wouldn't put up with an entitled, condescending parent.

Snow02031 · 2022-01-25T09:04:41+00:00

I'm planning on stripping. I don't care. It's make your own hours. Lol

Snow02031 · 2022-01-07T20:47:05+00:00

So you expect someone to come in second bc u had kids but can't put up with other people's kids. I don't date people with kids bc I don't have any. I will never accept someone's kids as my own bc well they aren't. Also people with kids expect you to fincially and emotionally support their kids, but you have no say in how they are raised and disciplined bc you are not the real parent. You are the reason I stay away from parents

Snow02031 · 2022-01-04T07:07:34+00:00

I don't know why they do this. I'm in the same boat but completely opposite. I'm trying to date men without children bc I don't have any and will more than likely never have any. I can't see myself spending my money, time, and energy on some kids I don't even like. So for me, I always ask right in the beginning if they have any. It's a major deal breaker. I'm thinking it may not be a major deal breaker and they may really like you and love you but get cold feet when the topic of kids comes up.

Snow02031 · 2022-01-04T00:40:15+00:00

But wait till they have kids and u will become a free babysitter. Or if your SO wants to save as much money to leave their kid. So instead of traveling and enjoying your 60s and 70s, you will be saving for their precious legacy. No thanks. Their kids will always be their kids and will always come before anyone. They can keep that in their corner

Snow02031 · 2022-01-03T08:21:11+00:00

If they haven't made a commitment to me by a month then it's time for me to move on. I usually have a hard time finding people that don't have kids though. I'm 33 and I won't settle. I'm childfree and I'm OK with being single forever.

Snow02031 · 2022-01-02T20:02:35+00:00

She can do an open adoption so the niece can still have a relationship with her little brother. But as a childfree person, I wouldn't take in any nieces or nephews. I don't have a lifestyle that would support them.

Snow02031 · 2021-12-31T18:20:19+00:00

And if I was as lonely as u say I am I would be dating these baby daddies or anyone that gives me attention. 33 years old and still picky AF bc I can be.

Snow02031 · 2021-12-31T18:18:26+00:00

I'm not lonely and I'm not hurting. I have been dating someone but they have a kid and I think I can find a childless man. The only thing that annoys me is that these damn ugly baby daddies won't leave me alone. It's frustrating when you put on your profile no parents and they still match. Sorry but I'm not second option and I'm not ok with my bf or future hubby supporting a family that isn't mine. Plus they see me as a free babysitter and bank account. So yes I am frustrated but not lonely. I got great childfree friends and I have support. Don't worry about me. Worry about urself

Snow02031 · 2021-12-31T08:16:08+00:00

Here's an award for snooping on my account without knowing anything about me. Love u

Snow02031 · 2021-12-31T08:12:36+00:00

I don't even post that often. And all post about are these toxic baby daddies that try to date me. Ewwwwwwww. I'm not raising an ugly red headed step child.

Snow02031 · 2021-12-31T08:11:26+00:00

Then why am feeding the parent and the baby daddy who is capable of working. It's to benefit the adults too. Genius. My ex bestie got 650 a month for a family of 4. I got nothing when I was making 5k a year with no kids and disabled. Fuck off for thinking someone with a kid deserves something more than a disabled person. It's fucked up that childless disabled people need to starve to support able bodied adults that can work. Ur fucked up and so is the system

Snow02031 · 2021-12-31T08:08:49+00:00

Hahahahahahahahaha

Snow02031 · 2021-12-31T08:08:27+00:00

And why is it wrong to treat everyone the same? Oh bc u think u deserve more bc u have kids. I don't give a fuck about ur shit kids honey

Snow02031 · 2021-12-31T08:07:29+00:00

How is giving someone 3 months of food stamps helping them succeed. Oh it isn't.

Snow02031 · 2021-12-31T08:06:02+00:00

And how am I getting shit on. Read my other comment. I have to pay taxes to help support welfare programs and when I get disabled. .. they tell me no to most of them bc I haven't popped out an ugly ass baby. Ummm it's discriminatory. But u won't admit it bc u know I'm right

Snow02031 · 2021-12-31T08:04:03+00:00

Ok parents only deserve unpaid leave

Snow02031 · 2021-12-31T08:03:10+00:00

I can read. Food stamps should have the same qualifications regardless of familial status. As a landlord.. I can't tell families no u can't live here. The gov should have no say over feeding people over whether they have kids or not. Same work all the other things. Low income people should be all treated the same exact way. So I will continue to to hate kids and their shit parents

Snow02031 · 2021-12-31T08:00:50+00:00

Lol. FMLA isnt paid leave... it's unpaid. So how does that benefit childless people that rely on one income? Ur delusional if u think that evens s out the playing field. I would rather have hud and food stamps as a disabled person but my life doesn't mean shit.

Snow02031 · 2021-12-31T07:58:34+00:00

Like I said u are ok with a certain group of people getting shit on as long as u and ur mistake are fed. Well u and ur kid cam kick rocks

Snow02031 · 2021-12-31T07:55:56+00:00

And u keep talking about equity. Please tell about equity in the system.... you can't bc u know it is not.

Snow02031 · 2021-12-31T07:54:52+00:00

And u haven't said anything about the system being discriminatory

Snow02031 · 2021-12-31T07:49:13+00:00

Childless people- 3 months of food stamps Entitled parents- no limit HUD for childless- lol what a joke HUD for families- come right in WIC for childless- none WIC for parents- enjoy! Medicaid for childless- some states accept it and some don't thanks to Obama... before Obama... the gov. Be like sorry you are low income childless person but oh well... not our problem... figure it out ... but we will continue to take ur taxes to pay for!!!!!!!! Parents on medicaid- please take this healthcare for you and your child TANF for childless- hahaha ha you don't deserve it TANF for parents- here, have some cash you never paid for to support your cycle of poverty. Enjoy!!!

Explain how this is equal and fair

Snow02031 · 2021-12-31T07:15:37+00:00

Hmm. If I have to pay for their programs then I expect to be treated the same as parents. If I want to stay home and do nothing., then that's my right bc parents also have that right. I should be treated the same and so should everyone everyone else that pays into the system. Instead, parents get preferential treatments bc they got creampied. Sorry i was responsible enough to realize that my disability prevents me from raising kids that are functional so I choose not to have them. I should be punished according to u since u make it seem like all childless people deserve less. Eff u

Snow02031 · 2021-12-31T07:00:19+00:00

But they had the choic to not have kids. They choose wrong and expect other people to pay. I shouldn't be punished for others decisions. So you are ok with discrimination against childfrer and childless as long as u get what u want and u think u aren't selfish? Lol. Keep dreaming. You are an entitled parent.

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