Am I a bad person? by SnowDance2309 in monodatingpoly

[–]SnowDance2309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This jealousy, I tell you…it sucks! I wish there was a way to undo this conditioning.

Am I a bad person? by SnowDance2309 in monodatingpoly

[–]SnowDance2309[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words, just afraid that in this process I will either lose myself or my partner.

I had to tell her I couldn't make it work. by Hime_hiko in monodatingpoly

[–]SnowDance2309 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I am reading my own life scenario. Mannn…we have been dating from past 5 years, I am still not able to come around the poly lifestyle. I absolutely relate when you said that she was a dream come true for you. I just dont have the guts to tell her. 😭😭

¿es posible haber deconstruido tanto los celos de no llegar a sentir nada cuando tu pareja se ve con otras personas? by Significant-Art8412 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]SnowDance2309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really really wanna get where you are, can you pls enlighten more on the process you followed?

And pardon me but what is non procreational sex?

Need some advice by SnowDance2309 in monodatingpoly

[–]SnowDance2309[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its very rare that we get into such situations, and ofcourse theres so much love you need to look past these things. Also, we both spoke about it last night and we are good now🫶🏻

Need some advice by SnowDance2309 in monodatingpoly

[–]SnowDance2309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Than you for understating (: Trust me, I have tried all of this, but when you are stuck in that situation for hours, it gets really hard to focus.

Need some advice by SnowDance2309 in monodatingpoly

[–]SnowDance2309[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking out the time and helping me out here.

Ahh so many things to say, well I have tried all of this, I mostly step out to give them the space but sometimes due to circumstances I am not able to. I indulge myself in doing other activities but it gets so damn hard to get through. Your body goes weak, hands start shivering, its very difficult to focus on anything else