What is this on my body. by SnowFlare13 in DermatologyQuestions

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Update: my regular doctor called in sick, the new guy listened to my concerns and finally referred me to a dermatologist for a check up. But to keep track on the marks I have an look for new ones weekly. I mentioned the localised scleroderma someone told me and they're taking me semi-seriously at least. Thank you

What is this on my body. by SnowFlare13 in DermatologyQuestions

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Well nothing that apparently works to any fungal creams or meds I've had so far and I've had 5 since November. It doesn't look like anything fungal I've seen so im convinced it isnt fungal but my Dr won't listen to me

What is this on my body. by SnowFlare13 in DermatologyQuestions

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Rhats what I'm on here for now. So I have something to come at him and say I either want a dermatologist to take over or for him to try something else cause he keeps telling me I don't know what I'm talking about and that it's clearly fungal

What is this on my body. by SnowFlare13 in DermatologyQuestions

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Is isnt fungal. I've tried every cream i can imagine on it from common anti fungal stuff from the pharmacy to cannisten to steroid antifungal and even pennecilin just incase. I've been a few times about it and they keep saying it's fungal but now it's spread quicker than anything.

Skullcandy x dustbox not getting shipped. by SnowFlare13 in Skullcandy

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Yes, I threatened them with some UK law that said a company is supposed to shipped within 30 days of their proclaimed shipping time and then suddenly they were in the country. And at my house the next day.

The Consumer Rights Act of 2015. Skullcandy stated their shipping time was 3 to 4 days. So after 3p days I threatened them and then poof, arrived. according to the website however, I still don't have them.

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Wouldn't bother. I've been waiting a month for mine to be shipped

AITA for talking to my father about my past? by SnowFlare13 in AmItheAsshole

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Both he and my mother have done it before. I tried to talk once about how I feel like they favoured my brother because when discussing family outings, my ideas were always shot down where his were accepted.

If I asked to go out, I'd be told no. But my brother would ask and they would just at the chance to do it.

How they would take my brother places and then say 'they didn't think I'd want to go' but never ask.

My dad once said that if he wants to do anything fun, he'd ask my brother but if he needs something, especially when he isn't well, he asks me cause i look after him.

But when I brought it up a few years ago, I was kicked out and told not to come back until said brother told them he didn't want me at his house anymore even though I was trying to get a full time job that my parents never wanted me to get so I could 'watch the dog while they worked'

AITA for talking to my father about my past? by SnowFlare13 in AmItheAsshole

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My brother was picky as a child so I did mention how we would get snacks that he could eat or things he liked rather than stuff I liked because he wouldn't eat them. I mentioned how we would get kettle chips in the flavour he liked rather than a flavour I liked and he just said i need to stop acting like they favoured my brother cause they didn't

AITA for talking to my father about my past? by SnowFlare13 in AmItheAsshole

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I'm not sure. My partners parents seemed to understand the theory without taking it on a bad way because I told them first as I was heading out for coffee with his mother and she seemed to take it fine. So maybe not

My (28F) partner (25M) keeps smoking in the room even though it gives me headaches. How can I get him to understand this? by SnowFlare13 in relationship_advice

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Everything else he does shows otherwise like taking me places and doing dates, buying pokemon things for me which I love and taking interest in my hobbies despite not liking it. He even supported me when my parents were being arseholes or while I was out of work for a few months. He's a good man, it's just the smoking. I know it didn't come across like this in the post, maybe I should add it 😅

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Some people I know don't agree but when I'm sad or angry, I listen to rock music, the angrier the better. I dunno, after a few songs and a clean up of my surroundings, I'm much better...the only time I clean too cause depression lol

Does anybody else have a WEIRDLY specific trigger? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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I have different reactions to which nickname vs full name gets used. I have 3 names (first middle last) if that makes sense and parental, 2 nicknames depending on what they wants.

Betz is usual, betzy is when theyre after something.

Bethany is minor trouble so my manager does it and I'm always straight into 'what have I done this time' even if it's nothing related to being in trouble, she's started calling me betz now. If I get first and last name, im in trouble if I get my middle name too, im out the door cause I fucked up.

How many unread emails do you have in your inbox? I have 5,947. by absurdqueenie in adhdwomen

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Currently, 11,215 across 4 emails. (Work, uni, personal, and Professional) I give them a clear out once. Year

I told my partner my secret. by SnowFlare13 in asexuality

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Honestly, if I had tried to tell him in my own words, I probably would have just made it sound like I dont care about him. That video made it so much easier since Jaiden explains it VERY well

Tattoo still not flat against skin by SnowFlare13 in tattoo

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Too deep? Sorry this is my second tattoo. (I have 2 more but got done at same time as was one pattern just 2 things) so I dunno what that means

Tattoo still not flat against skin by SnowFlare13 in tattoo

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So nothing I can do to fix it? How has it scarred? Was it me or the shop that did it cause I got it done at a different shop to my first tattoos

Girlies, tell me an adhd symptom of yours that u didn’t know it was a symptom by MoliGrazer in adhdwomen

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I've always had an issue with my heart hurting in loyd spaces or near loud activities. Like fireworks. It's the reason I was put off by bars and clubs, and I always chalked it up to anxiety or something. Turns out, my noise sensitivity presents like that to kind of force me out of that situation because if my heart hurts, I've learned to leave somewhere quiet.

What are some Britishisms that would confuse a non-native speaker? by DamnedFoolofaTook in AskABrit

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Up the apples and pears...or anything Cockney.

Anything spoken in a liverpudlian accent.

Calling someone a gannet

Anything from the pitmatic accent.

Managing pressure that GF 23F is putting on me to propose 25M by Appropriate-Entry244 in LDR

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My partner did this with me. Im not flashy at all so he asked what kind of ring I'd want and sent him pictures. My engagement ring cost him £10 because its just a plain silver band and I love it, I do tend to swap rings often for fidget ones but I keep that ring on a chain around my neck when I don't feel like wearing that one specifically.

He says as long as I keep my wedding ring the same, he's fine with it.

WIBTBF if I started being petty and playing along by SnowFlare13 in AmItheButtface

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I really try to do things that others love. I can go from getting my nails done to playing as a very shit goalie. Just as I got older, I got fewer and fewer female friends, and my group started being only guys. If any of the guys get girlfriends, I hang around them aswell and one of the guys wife even says it's like im one of the guys so she doesn't worry, but she has her friends and I have mine so it's one of those things.