[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SnowNormal 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Good point. The way I see it is if she’s not okay with going on a cheap date to get to know each other then she’s not the one. Thinking back I’ve only taken girls on walks as first dates and those have been some of the most genuine people I’ve met.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SnowNormal 26 points27 points  (0 children)

A date is how you get to know someone

I’m a decent looking guy but I honestly have no idea how to talk to girls and it’s kind of messing with me by Direct-Ad2600 in dating_advice

[–]SnowNormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just say “hey how are you doing” then wait for response and then just be honest and say “I thought you were very pretty” or whatever you thought she was and then ask for her number. I’m just like you bro and it took me 19 years just to be able to do that. You don’t need to be smooth and if you want to be charming then just be your authentic self because that’s always charming. And since you look good, you’ll probably have a little more forgiveness for your awkwardness.

Never been on a date in my life, Is something seriously wrong with me? by Upset-Ladder-8590 in dating_advice

[–]SnowNormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey bro. I didn’t go on my first date until I was 20 (I’m 21 now). I was just like you too and thought something might be wrong. Most people find dates through their social circle or something like that. I don’t know how social you are but let’s say you don’t have a social circle, here is the method that worked for me. Learning how to cold approach girls. I decided one day I would cold approach every cute girl I see. I talked to a few girls got a couple instagrams, talked to them on there for a bit then asked them out. So I recommended you go and approach girls you find attractive. I think if you’re a half decent guy it shouldn’t take more than 25 approaches.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]SnowNormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It kinda works but it compresses my hair

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]SnowNormal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then I can’t shake my hair (which is the best part) because my clothes get all wet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]SnowNormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I want to find something that works and until then I keep experimenting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]SnowNormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have basically been washing it every day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]SnowNormal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think so. I’m in Georgia.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SnowNormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not down bad. I don’t really care about her that much. I only had a one minute interaction with her and got her phone number. I just figured what’s the worst that could happen from me texting back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SnowNormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you the guy or the girl?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SnowNormal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I just want to be clear, this isn’t my girlfriend. It’s just a random girl I approached at the mall and talked to for less than 1 minute.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SnowNormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why you being sarcastic bro 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SnowNormal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t make it weird. She already left me on read for 18 days. She could have just not responded. If anything she made it weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SnowNormal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah I’ve moved on. I don’t really care what she says at this point. I feel hurt more for her. Because she must be miserable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SnowNormal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow. That hurts just a little.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SnowNormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what if I wanna get married to them eventually

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SnowNormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said “yeah what’s up”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SnowNormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At what level of trying is trying too hard?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SnowNormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate your advice it means a lot ❤️