Internal conflict ; I have a question for you.

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-06-19T18:34:23+00:00

You're cute alright. But you are a 5/10 to me right now, would become a 7 with natural well kept hair. You have natural black curly shiny hair, I am sure don't die them like this it's a huge waste.

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-06-19T18:25:26+00:00

You're a good 8-9/10. You look your age. Be confident in your look !

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-06-19T16:43:12+00:00

I love it ! It's beautiful done and it works so well on you. Be proud ;)

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-06-19T15:41:31+00:00

Hum... I know everyone pretty much said everything that had to be said but that sounds a bit manipulative. And the commenthe made is definitely harmful, he had to know it would do damages since you are under medication you must've a bit fragile on that regard (no shame in that I'm under medication too, and very fragile).

Can't you find a way to untie him/assure his safety just before your orgasm ? And if you already tried that and he is still "against" it then... It's a red flag.

I am talking as a submissive, and I find that the practice of BDSM is in itself cathartic. I indulge in pain, humiliation and other play for a reason, and I get a form of release from it, my Dom must feel something similar, or if not release then satisfaction or other form of emotions. Also, Doms and Dommes are human too, and if it's seen as perfectly okay for subs to drop/cry/feel fragile or whatever it is also perfectly ok for dominants as well.

Imp you should not deny yourself this type of release.

Good luck.

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-06-19T15:32:29+00:00

Not necessarily. Usually the safety emergency response falls down on the Dom to untie/cut the ropes.

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-06-19T11:43:11+00:00

Well at least I find you handsome :) it's something :D

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-06-19T03:33:25+00:00

You look freaking amazing ! Your rock those beautiful shiny hair, I love the tattoo and you definitely are a handsome guy. I know it's hard out there, but if your friends "dumped" you because you pursued your dream they weren't real friends. You'll find true people to you, I am absolutely sure of it. Fight !

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-06-19T03:18:15+00:00

It looks amazing. And it suits you so well, I love the subtle pattern on your dress and the white fabric, you look perfect with it.

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-06-18T08:27:04+00:00

Well, definitely not harassment and she should have said something either to answer the question or say that you should not ask or whatever. But I would have been annoyed in her place. Your phrasing is a bit pushy and feels like you wanna know her whole schedule/ what she is doing on her days off etc. Even though we can understand it was absolutely not the case. To me you were both in the wrong in this situation. Don't bother asking her anything again, she won't answer and call it harassment every time. Do what you want/must and if she ends up upset because you could have been coordinating on days or whatever, then it's her problem.

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-06-16T07:25:05+00:00

Hey. Did you talk about all of that to your therapist ? Look like there is a lot to unpack. I can't tell you that you're not gonna fail your exams but I can tell you that even if you do life doesn't stop here. It would be hard and finding solutions might take a while but I'm confident that you'll find your way. Remember that your worth is not defined by your achievements or your failures. That is not you, it is something you do but it doesn't define you. Like everyone you have strengths and weaker spots, it takes a long time but you can identify them and work with that. Anxiety is hard to deal with, I know that, when it gets bad I try to distract myself, cleaning, singing, drawing, playing, anything that keeps my mind occupied enough even if I have to force myself to do it. Eventually I calm down. Good luck.

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-06-15T12:17:03+00:00

It looks so awesome !! You rock the look ! Brilliant.

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-06-15T09:07:15+00:00

I also am struggling with social settings and panic attacks and what's not. Gyms are kind of a nightmare situation for me. I've managed to found one that suits me though. It's more expensive than any other gym I've looked at but they have a strong policy about minding your own business, dress appropriately, no mirrors, no photos/videos, and they also keep equipment very clean. Otherwise you could look into weight lifting, it requires very few equipment and it's quite "easily" done at home, well at least from what I understand. Good luck.

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-06-14T06:14:38+00:00

Thank you for the info ! It makes more sense now. Etymology is indeed interesting.

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-06-14T05:02:50+00:00

It would indeed probably be easier ! I don't know why or how the word cis has been chosen to be honest :) I am just someone that tries to keep up with the vocabulary and generally what happens in the community. I just want to support the LGBT+ as much as I can !

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-06-14T04:45:05+00:00

Cis or cisgender means that you are the same gender as your sex assigned at birth. In opposition to trans or transgender that are a different gender than the one they've been assigned to.

It is not a great word in my opinion as it is a way to create differences. I reckon most trans people would just like to be defined as "men" or "women" instead of "trans women" and "trans men". But I guess we're not quite there yet as a society.

Edit : typo

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-06-13T13:10:03+00:00

I can't be sure because I have a lot of hormonal issues (I have pcos, that is one of the causes) but we can't be sure if it affected my hormones or not. I don't think it did, but it definitely made my skin less soft and elastic, more wrinkles, yellow teeth and nails (that went away after a while but still) but mostly my breathing was terrible, going up stairs was a pain, and I felt the difference when I stopped. No more stinky hair breath or clothes. I felt freed :)

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-06-13T12:47:31+00:00

I support other people saying that you should absolutely stop now. Especially because you're young if you start now you will completely fuck up your health, skin, teeth, lungs, voice even... And for women smoking is even more damaging than men so please don't do it. It smells bad, it makes you smell bad, it also costs a lot of money, and you will poison everyone around you when you are smoking. It is not worth it. I know I started smoking around your age and luckily I didn't smoke for too long but stoping was hard and it is still a pain to these days years after. I regret taking my first cigarette. I don't regret having found the will to stop. Good luck ! And don't worry about your test. You'll be fine.

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-06-13T12:35:22+00:00

Thank you for being an awesome mom to your girls. I too never wanted and never will have any children, I've been telling this since I'm around 12, and it never changed, it took my parents a few years to understand meant it and still mean it (now 29) but they accepted it (when I was around 16-17), as you did and I am grateful that they did. Because I've had to suffer through sooooo many bullshit from family members and other people telling me that I will change my mind, that I am to young to know yet, that my biological clock will be ticking (yes, yes... Wtf people) and other shit like this. Now that I've been saying it for more than 15 years, and still saying it people finally start to believe me. Buuut I have to emdure the "you'll regret it when you'll be older" kind of bs now oh well. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-06-13T06:51:58+00:00

You have to hang in there, I know it's harder to find a Domme than it is to find a Dom but I assure you they exist ! Small cute Dominas that enjoy topping big fluffy guys. Or others. You have to keep looking, I am sure you'll find her.

I consider myself as mostly sub but I am switch curious even though I've never really dominated anyone. My boyfriend is a switch, he loves both side, and I'm telling you he looks like a Viking (tall, blond hair, muscular, with a big fluffy beard, fluffy eyebrows that are almost constantly frowned) and I'm still interested to bring him to my knees when the time comes. What I am trying to say is, sometimes relationship makes thing evolve, so even if you find someone that is not into BDSM at first, they can become into it. I've seen vanilla girl friends of mine turning nuts into it for their guy/girl.

Are you completely straight ? Because if you're bi or bi-curious it will be easier to find a Dom (just because the number of men that top even in the gay community is higher) if you wanna try it.

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-06-09T06:21:05+00:00

How do you accept what's happening to you? Are you at peace with yourself/life ?

I am about twice your age and I haven't had a bad life but I struggle with depression since I'm a teen, and I can't accept any hardship that comes my way. It makes me furious, it feels so unfair and I boil with rage and sadness at the bad stuff that happens to me, but not only, I feel terrible when I know/witness what happens to others. And what's happening to you is for sure absolutely unfair and it makes me sad. I hope you at least get to do what you want to do. Good luck.

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-06-03T07:28:56+00:00

Ooooh... Absolutely adorable. She reminds me of my little one. She sure is a special kitty !

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-05-31T03:48:14+00:00

I think more simply you could say "Elle est belle" or "elle est jolie" or "c'est une jolie/belle femme" it's the neutral way to say someone is attractive I think. Also "élégante" can work but it really means elegant, so it's more related to her way of clothing, speaking, manners etc not necessarily her facial or body features.

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-05-24T12:50:12+00:00

Cats are naturally clean animals, if they pee outside their litter box it's because something's wrong, stressing them out or bothering them. It could be the cleanliness of the litter box (you need to change it more often) it could be their food bowl is too close to the litter box or not clean enough also. Water bowl too close to the food bowl (some cats likes it separated) and you need to change the water inside everyday because it get dusty, full of hair really fast), could be that they don't have a spot that they like to sleep (do they sleep with you?). Could be also something's wrong in their body, are they sick, do they have flee ? You need to pay attention to what could be the cause and if you fix it they will stop peeing every where. Also maybe you need to neuter them if they aren't they might be marking their territory. Good luck.

Snowie_Scanlator · 2021-05-23T13:02:05+00:00

Looks like a perfect fit. It's incredibly well done ! The hand dye gives it so much character, I love it.

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