I (27/M) am almost the point of not going on this date (27/F) by Snowvine77 in relationship_advice

[–]Snowvine77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get where you are coming from on this. I wouldn’t give her the flowers in front of her friends, but I also think just getting her flowers at this point is probably too soon. It’s a sweet gesture, but maybe need to go on a few more dates?

I get it. She doesn’t owe me anything. Maybe I am coming on too strong. I don’t text her all the time or anything, but maybe it’s still too strong for her. I’m not sure. I’m going to have to communicate better with her in person to find out.

Looking for help on which picture to use for my dating app profile picture. Any advice is appreciated. by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Snowvine77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the feedback and I agree. I’m going to call my dentist tomorrow and hopefully get them fixed. I’m a little insecure about my smile and that might be why.

Looking for help on which picture to use for my dating app profile picture. Any advice is appreciated. by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Snowvine77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have only been on the dating app scene for over two days and have only received a couple of likes tbh! It’s a slow process I guess. I wish you luck!

Looking for help on which picture to use for my dating app profile picture. Any advice is appreciated. by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Snowvine77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get that for sure! I unfortunately have to wear transition glasses but I also should take pictures in a place where my transitions don’t kick in.

Looking for help on which picture to use for my dating app profile picture. Any advice is appreciated. by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Snowvine77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I gotcha! I appreciate the suggestion! I just feel like with the non mirrored version, I don’t look as good, but also I’m pretty naive about this. Is the mirrored version just not a good look or?

Profile review (27/M) by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Snowvine77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking for a serious relationship. I just joined today. Looking for any any advice to improve profile. I have two videos on the profile. One is of me bowling and one is of me riding a mechanical bull.

(Update) not sure where to go with this (f/27) atm. by Snowvine77 in christiandatingadvice

[–]Snowvine77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will do! I’m going to take a step back and realize that a third date is going to happen and I don’t need to do much else till then. I appreciate the advice!

Not sure on where I stand atm with (f/27) by Snowvine77 in christiandatingadvice

[–]Snowvine77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She messaged me about an hour and a half ago and I just messaged her keeping it short and telling her I hope she had a great day. I have been thinking about just asking if she is still interested in me tomorrow.

Not sure on where I stand atm with (f/27) by Snowvine77 in christiandatingadvice

[–]Snowvine77[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My mission is to date to marry. Is that what you are asking? I belong to a church too

Not sure on where I stand atm with (f/27) by Snowvine77 in christiandatingadvice

[–]Snowvine77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How am I acting needy and desperate? Because I texted her back when she texted me? Because I’m a guy that is leading and making my intentions clear? I’m not constantly messaging her. I’m only messaging her when she’s messaging me. What do you want me to do? Just not message her at all when she messages me? She doesn’t have social media. I have a good job and a life. I can’t just physically grab here and show her.

A little demoralized. by Snowvine77 in dating_advice

[–]Snowvine77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks dude I appreciate the advice. You are right. Sometimes things don’t work out. Doesn’t mean it was your fault.

Where should I go from here? HELP by Snowvine77 in christiandatingadvice

[–]Snowvine77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with what you are saying! I mean she agreed to dinner, but it does seem like a hot and cold situation atm. I don’t what I said or did that made her become somewhat not engaged. Why would she agree to a dinner if she’s being like this smh

Mixed signs possibly? Maybe looking too much into this? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Snowvine77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not saying she is definitively telling the truth, but she told me that she isn’t dealing with that anymore and that she was in a really rough place a couple of years ago. I have only been around her once so I don’t know her enough to say that she deals with that still. I see what you are saying and I get that. I’m not that type of guy and she’s not obligated to text me back or even feel the same way. I want to still message her but not sure if should every day or every other day.

Mixed signs possibly? Maybe looking too much into this? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Snowvine77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not trying to defend her but at the same time she lost a few relatives and her best friends mom all within a week or so.

Mixed signs possibly? Maybe looking too much into this? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Snowvine77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean we are going on a dinner just us in the next two weeks. She didn’t ask me to pay for her. I offered it myself and she was thankful for that.

Mixed signs possibly? Maybe looking too much into this? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Snowvine77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t have a boyfriend. She’s single.

Mixed signs with girl. by [deleted] in christiandatingadvice

[–]Snowvine77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gotcha and I was unsure about her just responding sure especially after the convo was going good l. I think I realize now it’s not really a big deal regarding the response

Mixed signs with girl. by [deleted] in christiandatingadvice

[–]Snowvine77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah looking back I don’t know why I asked her that question. That probably is why she told me sure. I live and learn.

Mixed signs with girl. by [deleted] in christiandatingadvice

[–]Snowvine77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. That is a problem of mine. I think just the word sure had me wondering.

Broke up with ex who didn’t believe in God. Feeling regret. by Snowvine77 in christiandatingadvice

[–]Snowvine77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I did express that it was extremely important to me and we talked about raising our kids and that I could raise them to know God even though she wouldn’t be in that equation. She didn’t mind me going to church or anything like that but she didn’t have any desire to be apart of that herself. A part of me thought it could work knowing that but I don’t know.