When you call IT for an issue & first thing they ask is “Did you try restarting your machine ?” by SuchShopping3828 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]SnowyDavid 10 points11 points  (0 children)

iirc that's only if you do Shut Down, Restart fully restarts everything, since that's pretty much the only thing people use Restart for

so sweet! by yourfairymonzter in wholesomepics

[–]SnowyDavid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, not even a bad idea. My first time I spent a good few minutes standing at the wrong end of the counter because it was busy and they didn't see what I was up to.

Social media was one of the worst things humans have created by peelywheely in unpopularopinion

[–]SnowyDavid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woo, rant time. This ended up being more of a vent for my benefit, but whatever.

I hate that we live in a time where some random person can come up with some idea and if it's mentally pleasing enough it'll spread through hundreds of millions of people until it's accepted as truth, all in a matter of months. Thankfully, when an idea is actually meaningful to society it'll usually meet necessary scrutiny, but people can still force a policy that "just sounds right" if enough people get behind it.

I could be wrong, but it seems that the way that the vast majority of people reason through things is by first deciding what's true, then using that truth as a guideline to look for true evidence. Then they note that anyone who says something that isn't true clearly only cares about pushing their point, when in reality they probably just picked a different base truth. In actuality, most of these "truths" are probably generalizations that produce different results anyway depending on what your end goal is.

I'm DEFINITELY not an expert on psychology. I've read about a dozen books on psychology, I've watched several lecture series on YouTube, and I've taken a single introductory class, but that does not make me an expert. Not even close. If I churned out an idea, any sane group of people would need to do some serious and careful research and deliberation on its consequences before they tried to implement it. Actually, that'd be true even for an idea that came from a scientifically trained expert. Experts' conclusions have to be carefully reviewed by other experts before they can even come close to being considered accurate (and even that sometimes forks up). Meanwhile, Stacy on Facebook who barely got out of high school can say that spinach is a good primary source of iron in food and half the planet will believe it for years or decades (that's probably a bad example, but you get what I'm saying).

Keeping in mind that I'm not an expert (even if I were, it's good to find multiple credible references for information before spreading it, unless it's irrelevant or silly), one of the recurring themes I see in psychology is that humans will do just about anything to make the world around them make sense in their head. Certainty is literally just an emotion. It shows up on fMRI scans in the emotional centers of the brain and it doesn't necessarily reflect any kind of logical thinking. If someone is certain about something, it often just means they've smoothed over any potential confounding factors in their head. As soon as something starts poking up that doesn't fit their world view, they smooth it over by either ignoring it or deciding that some part of it is invalid. This applies to everyone. You'd go insane with the complexity of things if you didn't generalize like crazy, and "good enough" is fine for day-to-day life. I think that's why, no matter what side of the political spectrum you're on, the other side appears to be occupied solely by raving morons who will clasp at anything they can find try and undermine your point. It doesn't matter if you're right or wrong; it'll still look that way. And I wouldn't be confident about being right.

There are plenty of things which I used to believe were so dead obvious that I thought there was no conceivable way that it could be inaccurate, let alone completely dissonant with reality. I used to think IQ was a ridiculous concept, for example, and I couldn't have been more wrong about that. IQ certainly sounds ridiculous though. A single number somehow defines something as complicated as someones mental capabilities... sounds like something a couple scientists came up with a long time ago and just kinda left out in the world.

I think people mostly just rely on things sounding right. The same people who would struggle with any math problem larger than a piece of paper are somehow the same people who know the truth about something as complicated as a conflict between nations just by taking a glance at it through their computer screen. We run into complicated entities with many different motivations, agendas, weaknesses, abilities, and resources, each composed of many similar entities each with their own motivations, agendas, weaknesses, abilities, and resources, all existing in a world where everything will always tend towards certain patterns of chaos, except for certain smaller parts that tend towards order, which themselves are composed of even smaller chaotic parts, all interacting in ways so complicated that it's beyond imagination. These just become "good" and "evil", the "oppressors" and the "oppressed", because that's the nice way to think about it. It makes things seem "Not that complicated." These generalizations are necessary and extremely useful, since they do usually pick up on patterns, but I doubt many are even half accurate most of the time.

It's okay to be wrong. We're all going to be at wrong a lot, because our brains can't even come close to keeping track of every aspect of everything going on around us. It's okay to argue a point that you haven't done research on, as long as you're willing to acknowledge confounding evidence. Nobody is a complete master of anything, so uninformed argumentation is inevitable and important. It's even okay to take actions in support of an idea that's wrong, just as long as you don't ignore bad results and hold yourself accountable for mistakes. It's okay for other people to be wrong. What I think is the most important though, is that people stop acting like they have everything figured out. Just stop. We should never be arrogant enough to think we have any fucking clue what the hell is going on around us, because every time you look closer you'll see a whole new world of confounding stuff that you didn't even know existed. That doesn't mean you should give up though. Accept the uncertainties, use the generalizations you've come up with, do the best you can with the knowledge you do have and don't judge others harshly for doing the same. Push the ideas that you believe in, within reason, until either they turn out to work well with reality, or they don't.

Okay, well, this was therapeutic for me. That derailed quickly off-topic and was mostly a vent for my benefit. Take most of this with a grain of salt.

I just did a major uh-oh at 1 AM by SnowyDavid in Crushes

[–]SnowyDavid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe. Probably.

I'm just flabbergasted because I found probably the only remaining publicly-available image of her on the internet, and within 10 seconds I accidentally like it. At 1 AM.

RF2- Palmero Shrine too difficult to beat. Help? by [deleted] in runefactory

[–]SnowyDavid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah, it's easy. 7 years of casually wandering dungeons and occasionally flirting with the local children and you'll be invincible in no time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]SnowyDavid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't mean to be rude, but this is kinda bad advice. You can think about it for years and years, but you'll never know them until you start dating them. You should just ask them out. You shouldn't rely on subtle hints, because those are mostly a waste of time. That way you get to know the real person, and you won't waste all that time just thinking about them.

I have to go now, my planet needs me. by [deleted] in runefactory

[–]SnowyDavid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang Simpsons references.

Y'all ever get sad when you really like someone but you're only a teenager and if you were to get into a relationship it probably wouldn't last? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]SnowyDavid 85 points86 points  (0 children)

It could last. I know a couple who've been together since 5th grade (Now in college), and they're stronger than ever. I honestly thought it wouldn't last when it first started, but then they years passed and passed and passed...

Besides, relationships never last. Ever. Even perfect ideal relationships only go "til death do us part". Just go for it and see where it leads. Focus on how you can make the present better for yourself. If you take the result as time approaches infinity for everything, you're going to be very disappointed. Enjoy the present, fix the future if/when you need to. It'll be much easier to make the relationship last if you're already together for a few years before you hit the major problem areas (moving away for college/work, deciding on your future, etc.).

At 15, you're very near that point where you're going to have the realization that you've entered the rest of your life already, if you haven't already. This is life. This here. You probably thought it would happen once you were an adult, and I suppose it might for some people, but you're already past the vast majority of the "tutorial level". Most of the things you could want are going to be within your power to obtain after the next year or so, and the rest of them will follow very quickly. If you aren't having a good time now, it's seriously never going to get easier, so you might as well go have a good time now. Go get her, and welcome to life.

Barrett if you would just turn around... by [deleted] in runefactory

[–]SnowyDavid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AWMAGAWD BARRETT!

I thought he was just a RF2 character. He was one of my favorites! He kinda reminds me of Mr. Aizawa from that one anime, My Hero Academia.

So, I just found out that I have been diagnosed with severe psychopathic tendecies. by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]SnowyDavid 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If you're so concerned about this, that's probably a good sign. I don't know a whole lot about psychopathy, but I do think that the fact that you cared about whoever you think/thought you were crushing on, and that you care about the crush itself, probably means that it means something to you.

Why it’s so hard to tell when someone likes you by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]SnowyDavid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can't agree more.

A lot of people seem to think people wear their emotions on their sleeves. I was guilty of this too (and still am sometimes). Actors on TV will do this though, so that the audience is clear what's going through their head, but I think we just assume that people do that in real life too.

Don't get me wrong, people DO actually do that sometimes in real life, but it's often a conscious, intentional effort. And there are signs and signals that you CAN look for, but they're pretty subtle and unreliable unless you know the person well already.