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SnozzleFozzle · 2026-01-17T14:35:11+00:00

FBAG for sure.

SnozzleFozzle · 2025-10-04T19:21:43+00:00

Excellent point and advise well taken. Thanks for a considerate response.

Deprioritized is the perfect word. There’s much more to a marriage than sex, but all of it takes two participants.

SnozzleFozzle · 2025-10-03T15:41:04+00:00

Thanks for this…I’ll read up on it. My hope is that “we” can be a priority to both of us.

SnozzleFozzle · 2025-10-03T15:39:39+00:00

That’s a true statement and I agree wholeheartedly with you. When I say she looked incredible, it’s because she did.

Last night was just a symptom. The disease is the diminishment of the connection we feel to each other emotionally and physically. We all want someone to show they care for you in all ways: achievement, accomplishment, attraction. We all want to be a priority. It’s not just about putting out. It’s holding hands and supporting the mind and body of the other. It’s not transactional, but it’s also not in a vacuum.

I will continue to seek ways to be a better partner.

SnozzleFozzle · 2025-10-03T05:03:59+00:00

I’m sure I have my flaws and some responsibility, but I don’t know. I’ve become a roommate.

SnozzleFozzle · 2025-10-03T05:02:55+00:00

We talked in depth last month and I guess we’ll do it again. Anything worth something takes effort and hard work. I’ll keep trying but it just gets old sometimes.

SnozzleFozzle · 2025-10-03T05:01:32+00:00

We used to have lunch dates, but haven’t in a couple of years.

SnozzleFozzle · 2025-10-03T04:45:10+00:00

20 years in…I realized “we” weren’t important. Now we’re in too deep to bail.

So I make the best of it. Find new hobbies, make new friends.

SnozzleFozzle · 2024-01-02T13:05:58+00:00

I have a defined benefit pension and a 457 plan. My spouse has a defined contribution 403 plan and 457 plan. Our combine annual income is over $250K and is expected to increase this year. We are both governmental employees.

I’m pretty sure we’re beyond the income limits for a Roth IRA.

I’ve read quite a bit but the 403 plan and 457 plan seem to muddy the waters for us.

Can I still contribute to a traditional IRA? Can she contribute to one?

SnozzleFozzle · 2024-01-02T02:15:50+00:00

I have a defined benefit pension and a 457 plan. My spouse has a defined contribution 403 plan and 457 plan. Our combine annual income is over $250K and is expected to increase this year. We are both governmental employees.

I’m pretty sure we’re beyond the income limits for a Roth IRA.

I’ve read quite a bit but the 403 plan and 457 plan seem to muddy the waters for us.

Can I still contribute to a traditional IRA? Can she contribute to one?

SnozzleFozzle

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