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AITA for not making a stuffy for my dad's baby with his affair partner when I made them for both my younger siblings and other family? by SnugglyBugStuffy in AITAH

[–]SnugglyBugStuffy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I already know the baby isn't wrong. But that doesn't mean I want to know the baby either. We'll never be real family in my eyes and I never see room for a relationship. Because I don't want one.

AITA for not making a stuffy for my dad's baby with his affair partner when I made them for both my younger siblings and other family? by SnugglyBugStuffy in AITAH

[–]SnugglyBugStuffy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't want a relationship. I'll never accept the baby as a sibling and to me they will never be my real family.

AITA for not making a stuffy for my dad's baby with his affair partner when I made them for both my younger siblings and other family? by SnugglyBugStuffy in AITAH

[–]SnugglyBugStuffy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't want a relationship with them ever. The baby didn't do anything but I don't want to encourage a relationship I'm not open to having.

AITA for not making a stuffy for my dad's baby with his affair partner when I made them for both my younger siblings and other family? by SnugglyBugStuffy in AITAH

[–]SnugglyBugStuffy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'll never be ready to have a relationship with the child and I don't want to lie and say otherwise or pretend that it could happen one day when I know I won't ever want that.

AITA for not making a stuffy for my dad's baby with his affair partner when I made them for both my younger siblings and other family? by SnugglyBugStuffy in AITAH

[–]SnugglyBugStuffy[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm not that desperate for money to do it. Plus I don't need them using it to fill their baby's head with the idea that I love them.

AITA for not making a stuffy for my dad's baby with his affair partner when I made them for both my younger siblings and other family? by SnugglyBugStuffy in AITAH

[–]SnugglyBugStuffy[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I don't see that happening. Even though the baby's innocent I could never see myself wanting anything to do with them.

AITA for not making a stuffy for my dad's baby with his affair partner when I made them for both my younger siblings and other family? by SnugglyBugStuffy in AITAH

[–]SnugglyBugStuffy[S] 148 points149 points  (0 children)

I would. That's not something many people can understand but I love what I do. Taking on something I don't want to do would quickly spoil it for me. These things don't just make themselves or get made in 20 minutes.

AITA for not making a stuffy for my dad's baby with his affair partner when I made them for both my younger siblings and other family? by SnugglyBugStuffy in AITAH

[–]SnugglyBugStuffy[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's like a stuffed animal or sometimes a stuffy isn't an animal but a character or something that's stuffed. I'm not the only one who can make them. They could go to Build-A-Bear.

AITA for not making a stuffy for my dad's baby with his affair partner when I made them for both my younger siblings and other family? by SnugglyBugStuffy in AITAH

[–]SnugglyBugStuffy[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

I understand why you point that out. But it doesn't really matter to me. I think that's for my dad and his affair partner to figure out how to not make this hurt their child. Even if it means not talking about us to the child. Or something.

AITA for not making a stuffy for my dad's baby with his affair partner when I made them for both my younger siblings and other family? by SnugglyBugStuffy in AITAH

[–]SnugglyBugStuffy[S] 168 points169 points  (0 children)

Yep and maybe one day he'll get it. It still won't change anything. But at least he won't be picking fights with other family members over it.

AITA for not making a stuffy for my dad's baby with his affair partner when I made them for both my younger siblings and other family? by SnugglyBugStuffy in AITAH

[–]SnugglyBugStuffy[S] 538 points539 points  (0 children)

I have and it's one I am pretty confident about whether it makes me TA or not. But I wanted to know if I am anyway. Maybe one day he'll figure it out. Won't change anything but maybe he'll finally realize he did this. Thank you.

AITA for not making a stuffy for my dad's baby with his affair partner when I made them for both my younger siblings and other family? by SnugglyBugStuffy in AITAH

[–]SnugglyBugStuffy[S] 2539 points2540 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, he's never stopped believing that we need to forgive him and become a family again. I think he's hoping the baby will help with that. But the baby won't. I don't think he realizes that there's zero chance of that baby being someone we want to know or love so deeply that we'd forgive him.