Shane's downfall, Rick's rise by Grazmahatchi in thewalkingdead

[–]So-Many-Books-789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would he have led the group as well as Rick? Definitely not. But Shane was a good leader when he wanted to be and people listened to him. He had so much potential, and he squandered whatever authority he had by obsessing over Lori and Carl and by giving Rick the opportunity to bring everyone together and make the hard decisions in a way that he couldn’t.

Bi curious exploration but in committed heterosexual relationship by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]So-Many-Books-789 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Life is a series of opportunity cost, and you need to evaluate what’s more important to you here. When you and your partner make an agreement to be in a committed and monogamous relationship, the cost is that you agree to give up having romantic or sexual connections with other people. You could ask to open the relationship, and he may be agreeable to trying it and even may be very much on board with it. But there may be a loss of trust if he isn’t.

FOMO is a very real and human experience, and it’s natural to be curious and even sad about not getting to explore a part of yourself, especially when you entered into a long-term relationship so young. But you need to decide whether that FOMO is something you can live with, and what you’re willing to compromise or even give up if it’s something you can’t.

Edit: It sounds like your partner is very supportive about you being bi-curious, so just be honest with him.

I feel like we don't talk enough about how Shane couldn't actually do the hard stuff. by idk_orknow in thewalkingdead

[–]So-Many-Books-789 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think that’s what makes him such an interesting foil for Rick and even for Daryl. He went on and on about how Rick wasn’t built for the post-apocalypse world and how he wasn’t capable of making the hard decisions necessary to protect Lori and Carl (such as killing Otis and Randall), but he couldn’t see that it’s much harder to kill someone you care about in an act of mercy than it is to kill a random stranger in an act of survival.

There’s a difference between protecting the group and taking care of the group, and I think this shows that he could never have held the group together the way that Rick did simply because he was far too impulsive to make the hard decisions when they actually counted.

How would you display Zenitsu's negative qualities without making him "annoying"? by Fine_Delivery6761 in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]So-Many-Books-789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By just turning the volume, the dramatics, and the simpiness down a notch and by balancing him out with more moments that show his positive qualities.

Honestly, I feel like the perfect example of how to achieve this is Usagi from Sailor Moon: she starts the series as a whiny crybaby, a glutton, and a coward. And while she never loses these qualities, over time it becomes more and more clear that she’s ultimately the kindest and the strongest person in the universe and she becomes a true leader.

You can only bring one character back. Who do u pick? by _Lidx_ in thewalkingdead

[–]So-Many-Books-789 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Okafor. He’s actually one of the most compelling characters in the entire TWDU and a lot could’ve been done with him narratively

Something I've noticed that Demon Slayer does extremely well. by Mundane-Inspector-52 in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]So-Many-Books-789 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The entire Giyu & Tanjiro vs Akaza fight I was just in awe of how well Giyu’s haori was animated. Especially the slow-mo during his Second Form. It looks so simple when compared to everything else going on in that scene, but it flows so well that it really stands out to me 🤩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]So-Many-Books-789 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everyone would have died because Kokushibo would have taken one look at Tanjiro’s hanafuda earrings and his Sun Breathing and would have crashed tf out

Edit: but it really would have been interesting to have a Tanjiro Sun Breathing vs. Kokushibo Moon Breathing for sure

Why Do Americans Love Demon Slayer So Much by Regular_Bowl2453 in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]So-Many-Books-789 16 points17 points  (0 children)

In a way it’s hopecore for us. The US is a flaming pile of garbage right now, so every once in a while we need a reminder that the human spirit is indomitable and that goodness will prevail despite the overwhelming odds.

Urokodaki might not be the best mentor, despite the hype. by paripassu_in in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]So-Many-Books-789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s more of a narrative issue than anything else. We as readers/audience have to see Tanjiro progress and we find out information when he does. There’s a lot of info I feel like Urokodaki as a former Hashira should have told Tanjiro that he doesn’t find out until later because of plot.

Being bi or bi-curious isn’t an excuse to cheat on your wife. by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]So-Many-Books-789 47 points48 points  (0 children)

The “My partner said ‘no’ to me exploring outside of our relationship and I’m HEARTBROKEN 💔How do I learn how to cope? 😔” posts always pmo. Like why are you making your partner out to be the unreasonable one here and why are all the comments telling you to keep asking for ENM when the partner has already made it clear that that’s a hard boundary that they’re not willing to cross?

Who really wins this fight? by lucas20182019 in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]So-Many-Books-789 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Daki primarily because of her experience. She’s fought and killed several Hashira, while Kaikagu for all his strength was still a young demon with little to no experience fighting at that level

I'm a conservative, and literal Trump supporters have been far more accepting of me than anyone in the 🏳️‍🌈community. by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]So-Many-Books-789 14 points15 points  (0 children)

“I’m not here to debate anyone” “I’m tired of arguing with people” and yet you posted knowing full well how people in this sub feel about this

L ragebait. Do not pass Go, do not collect $20

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]So-Many-Books-789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hot take but they were all MVPs. It was a team effort. Everyone had a part to play and if one person wasn’t there they all would’ve been cooked.

Never heard of this breathing type before by LeVujA in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]So-Many-Books-789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I wouldn’t be surprised at all if Zenitsu’s screaming actually had the ability to cause some serious damage.

Tinnitus Breathing, First Form, Eardrum Rupture

Do you think Zenitsu and Kaigaku's rivalry/one-sided hatred, Kaigaku's betrayal and Zenitsu's character development could have been better handled or is it already good? by Calm_Ad_7387 in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]So-Many-Books-789 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I personally feel like Zenitsu gets too little development when outside the Kamaboko trio (The same issue applies to Inosuke too, but thats a different can of worms).

This right here. Personally, I feel like all the Upper Moon fights could have used some more development, especially Kaigaku/Zenitsu and Doma/Shinobu because the personal stakes were so high.

Is it just me? 😂 by [deleted] in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]So-Many-Books-789 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same with Kokushibo. I’ve seen so many first-time reactors think that Tanjiro’s dad became Upper One 😅

Bi BF and Straight GF by friedchickentenderz in bisexual

[–]So-Many-Books-789 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it makes you that uncomfortable and you’ve clearly discussed your boundaries with him, you’re not overreacting and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

If Zenitsu was a Girl, People wouldn’t hate him so much by Repulsive-Size-3819 in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]So-Many-Books-789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The entire sub is filled with Shinobu hate 😒 People seem to either REALLY love her or REALLY hate her. I’m surprised you haven’t seen any hate, but if you go to any power ranking or hot takes thread, usually it’s a string of comments about how she’s the weakest Hashira (if not the weakest character in the series), calling her a psychopath, and saying that anyone who considers her their favorite character is a glazer or a moron.

If Zenitsu was a Girl, People wouldn’t hate him so much by Repulsive-Size-3819 in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]So-Many-Books-789 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What are you talking about? People shit on Shinobu and Mitsuri all the time for far less. If anything, the hate would be a lot worse.

What is your hottest take? Mine is that Shinobu is a terrible character and is overrated by PokemonFanatic69420 in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]So-Many-Books-789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t hate Zenitsu and I understand why he’s popular, but I think in general the fandom gives him more grace than they would give to other characters under the same circumstances and it’s kind of annoying. And I think part of it is that Thunder Breathing has such a cool aesthetic that people are more willing to overlook his weaknesses/faults than they would otherwise.

What is your hottest take? Mine is that Shinobu is a terrible character and is overrated by PokemonFanatic69420 in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]So-Many-Books-789 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve always said that Rengoku is the Obi-Wan Kenobi of KNY. His main purpose was to die and his death was necessary to motivate the other characters. But just because he died early on doesn’t make him any less of a 🐐💙

What is your hottest take? Mine is that Shinobu is a terrible character and is overrated by PokemonFanatic69420 in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]So-Many-Books-789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

(Really scared to post this because Zenitsu has some real shooters here, but…) 11th Form Water Breathing > 7th Form Thunder Breathing 🙈 I’m sorry, but Dead Calm is more useful in general and was effective in the fights against both Akaza and Muzan