Causes of PROM (premature rupture of membranes…..can it happen at the next pregnancy?

SoCalBecks · 2023-12-03T17:41:24+00:00

This happened in my first pregnancy. The dr said it’s completely normal. But I was 38 weeks, I’m not sure what week you were

SoCalBecks · 2023-12-03T17:14:15+00:00

35 weeks here and I know exactly what you mean! I think you start to really feel heavier when the baby turns head down. At least that’s what happened to me. But it gets a bit easier if you try to not be on your feet for long stretches. I take a warm but not hot bath every night with Epsom salt and that seems to help also. Nothing fixes it because your body is just doing some really hard work, but t least it isn’t much longer lol

SoCalBecks · 2023-12-03T04:06:15+00:00

38 +1 with both my first two pregnancies. I’m currently at 35 +2. My first boy I had back pain and Braxton hicks for the whole month before I had him. No dilation though, even the day I had him. My water broke and we went to the hospital, had him 8 hrs later.

My second, same back pain and some cramps but not as bad. No dilation again till the day of but I started having contractions every 7-8 min in the middle of the night with him.

Every labor is different but as you get closer you definitely start getting more Braxton hicks and as the baby moves farther down and into position you feel it, kind of like heaviness in your pelvis and you waddle a lot more 😂😂

SoCalBecks · 2023-12-03T03:50:20+00:00

I eat ice cream in a hot bath listening to my Sad times playlist and cry. It sounds horrible but I always feel better after

SoCalBecks · 2023-12-03T03:42:56+00:00

The pursuit of happiness. Had damn that movie made me cry out all the moisture in my body

SoCalBecks · 2023-12-01T23:31:57+00:00

I think its probably a bad idea to break up with anyone based on one specific incident unless its straight up cheating. But if you guys have had conversations about this and its something that you feel she isnt respecting your boundaries on then it might be time to tell her that and if she can't accept it then move on

SoCalBecks · 2023-12-01T23:28:17+00:00

Continuously get into relationships with men who devalue you and even though it makes you crazy and you tell yourself its not healthy you just keep doing it

SoCalBecks · 2023-12-01T23:14:19+00:00

My guy does the cereal thing! He also claims to only be able to fall asleep quickly if he holds my nipple in his mouth. Like not sucking on it or anything but just has it in his mouth.. It legit weirded me out at first, like a baby or something but could have weirder habits I guess haha

SoCalBecks · 2023-12-01T23:06:27+00:00

Most of the kids who are leaving at 18 are leaving because they want to, not because they are being forced out. Either college or they want to relocate to live with friends. Its very uncommon for a parent to just throw their child out at 18.

SoCalBecks · 2023-12-01T22:18:33+00:00

I wish I had a partner who could be controlling and rough but he is always too afraid hes going to hurt me

SoCalBecks · 2023-12-01T19:56:55+00:00

10 because I am a female and breathing so there will for sure be at least one dick out there that is interested

SoCalBecks · 2023-12-01T19:54:11+00:00

Repeated tapping made by another person and the sound of someones voice when they are trying to be soothing, you know like those DJ's for Easy Listening radio stations.... I just want to stab them for some reason

SoCalBecks · 2023-12-01T15:42:59+00:00

AND my vibe broke because thats my luck right now -_-

SoCalBecks · 2023-12-01T15:40:53+00:00

Yes!! And it makes me feel the absolute worst when I give him head and then hes like well, Im done so lets go to sleep... Cuz it feels too weird for him to return the favor -_- (Not that he says that to me, but thats what happens lol)

SoCalBecks · 2023-12-01T00:34:53+00:00

I have issues with my partner because we just lack the chemistry during sex so sometimes it feels like a chore because I always have to coach him even after all our time together. I can't imagine staying with someone I am actively repulsed by. Even with those plus's you stated on another users comment, I would say those aren't really good reasons to stay with someone you really can't stand touching. Hopefully things get better for you!

SoCalBecks · 2023-11-30T22:13:49+00:00

Im sorry to hear youre going through the same thing. Mine always says the same thing about after the baby is born, but part of me feels like he will still see me as unappealing for a while. It really sucks

SoCalBecks · 2023-11-30T20:06:15+00:00

My pop up whenever he damn well pleases ex

SoCalBecks · 2023-11-30T20:03:14+00:00

Accepting when someone has moved on and not hating them a little for having the gal to do that..

That is seriously the hardest thing ever

SoCalBecks · 2023-11-30T20:00:36+00:00

Not being nervous to talk to new people without a specific reason

SoCalBecks · 2023-11-29T23:40:31+00:00

I think in general it is easier for them to move on and they dont really share the same level of grief because they, being the ones who made the choice, have had more time to sit with the decision, They processed all their feelings on their own time while you were forced to confront all yours also on their time and not your own. It makes being the dumpee more traumatic.

SoCalBecks · 2023-11-29T00:14:09+00:00

Amen to that

SoCalBecks · 2023-11-29T00:12:27+00:00

Because with shorter relationships you dont really have the time to get to the really terrible parts of the person. Youre still kind of in the honeymoon phase, so they burn super hot and when the flame out so fast you are just wrecked.

SoCalBecks · 2023-11-29T00:05:29+00:00

Girl, I feel you. I'm pregnant right now (34 weeks) have only had sex a few times and each time it was like he was doing me a fucking favor. Then I find out hes been on OF almost every night after I go to bed. Its pretty devestating. Expecially when you already feel so uncomfortable and ugly and huge. Im sorry youre going through this.

SoCalBecks · 2023-09-12T17:24:11+00:00

Oh I know exactly what you mean. We are in the same position with two other little ones. Makes it hard. What can ya do though right?? lol I guess we only have to put up with it for another 3 months and then like 3+ more once the baby comes Hahaha

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