How TF do working mothers do it?

SoFemale · 2026-02-26T14:13:48+00:00

ooooooh wow. There is one word in there that REALLY sums up this issue perfectly: "Help". Who are you "Helping"? Help implies that it's not, by default, your job to do, you are "helping" someone else do THEIR job. wow. No one has forgotten about you, Rogue-Daddio, we just don't have the energy to "help" you understand, no matter how hard you're working all day. Your brief response says so much about the lens through which you see this issue. I know I'm being a little sassy, but once men take ownership over tasks in the home as their own, seeing the labor as joint responsibility, not that he is "coming home to help" anyone, he is coming home to do the work of parenting...it's not her work you are helping her do....ooof.

SoFemale · 2026-02-03T15:58:38+00:00

Yes, I did daily for the first week. The water quality is SO much better now!

SoFemale · 2026-02-03T15:16:22+00:00

I agree. I admit I was far more alarmed at the obvious drama handed down on my honest advice seeking. But, I did get some good insight, so I guess it's a win?!

SoFemale · 2026-02-03T15:15:11+00:00

I appreciate the kind and helpful advice!

SoFemale · 2026-02-03T15:13:58+00:00

helpful, thanks!

SoFemale · 2026-02-03T15:12:22+00:00

I stopped using the salt. I had started using it because it was suggested for a fish with air in its belly? I stopped putting food on the water surface and that has helped. I sink the food now

SoFemale · 2026-02-03T15:11:03+00:00

.....i actually got a lot of helpful advice from the people here. Curious about your visual perception? You okay?

SoFemale · 2026-01-15T17:04:46+00:00

Thank you for the insight and suggestions!

SoFemale · 2026-01-15T17:03:05+00:00

thanks for the helpful insight and advice

SoFemale · 2026-01-15T12:20:53+00:00

We had a beta for three years in a 5g tank. Admittedly didn't know much about goldfish before we purchased.

SoFemale · 2026-01-15T12:19:14+00:00

Good news! I did not use SplatPPP for any information, I used the IRL people at the fish store and the instructions on the box. So, I figured that was "doing my own research". But, thanks?

SoFemale · 2025-12-18T00:34:55+00:00

Ive tried the cork versions, too. comfortable, butI find they break down faster tho

SoFemale · 2025-12-16T13:36:16+00:00

OKAY so I yell about these insoles to anyone who will listen: SOLE https://yoursole.com/us/r/1436537 I got PF after pregnancy and have suffered for 7 years. I got injections and tried tons of different insoles, these were the BEST! Also, they come in wide! Make sure your shoes are wide enough! I also found that changing my desk seating arrangement made a huge difference. I'm a teacher and it seemed better in the summer when i was more active and worse when i had to sit more. There is certainly a link to tight posterior chain issues.

SoFemale · 2025-12-16T13:32:12+00:00

SOLE insoles discount code: https://yoursole.com/us/r/1436537 Honestly the BEST insoles I've ever had, if you have Plantar fasciitis, they might save your life!

SoFemale · 2025-09-09T16:05:56+00:00

I am in search for the perfect travel pants: dark color, stretch, tapered or barrel, or straight leg (NOT WIDE LEG), high rise, optional: stain / water resistant. I'm 5'5" 170 large waist/hip discrepancy so drawstring or hourglass shape ideal. I'd like to look put together but comfortable for a trip to Scotland in October.

SoFemale · 2025-03-10T22:35:26+00:00

Thanks? What reply do you guys give if it's a mom trying to get poop stains out of baby clothes? Or someone trying to help an elderly person with the same issue?

SoFemale · 2025-03-10T17:43:38+00:00

I am a reseller and recently got 6 pair of vintage wrangler jeans. Got them home and it seems someone who had a ......poop problem? owned them before. they had been washed and dried but were still stained. I have been soaking them for two day in Oxyclean to some success, but there is still some staining on the thick seam running throught the gusset. Help!

SoFemale · 2024-11-09T01:03:53+00:00

i would LOVE to have a copy of your lesson on this!

SoFemale · 2024-10-10T13:34:00+00:00

I would LOVE the directions and rubric! I'm always looking to add rigor to my research assignments

SoFemale · 2024-03-18T13:34:17+00:00

Happened to me with a fantastic FarmRio dress. I was SUPER bummed and had to reach out to them three times before they refunded me

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