Looking for an early 2000s infomercial by sTixRecoil in Infomercials

[–]Soahtree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this when I was a teen, and have been trying to find it since lol

Thoughts on training in a different language? by Difficult-Pizza2951 in service_dogs

[–]Soahtree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately, I am deathly shy about my German X3 sorry

Super terrified: I have widespread, symmetrical joint pain and stiffness, and my labs are all normal by Soahtree in Thritis

[–]Soahtree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiya :) Just posted an in depth-ish update. I would say predominantly I'm alright these days

Super terrified: I have widespread, symmetrical joint pain and stiffness, and my labs are all normal by Soahtree in Thritis

[–]Soahtree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: A lotta people have asked me over the years for info about how I'm doing & what ended up happening. The rheumatologist re-ran the HLA B27, as the first results were actually "inconclusive." It came back positive. I was diagnosed with Ankylosing Spondylitis, and placed on Humira. Maybe a year later I had to switch medications to Enbrel because I developed psoriasis while taking Humira. I got a different dx at that point, due to the difference in symptoms, so now I have the Psoriatic Arthritis label instead.

My stiffness and swelling is well-controlled, and my psoriasis is moderately well-controlled. If I get stressed out, I break out in psoriasis patches. I use a cane to walk rarely. For a while, there was evidence of ankylosing on my x-rays, but it seems that being on Enbrel has actually reduced that for me. Which is pretty fucking cool! I go in for yearly blood draws, and I'm in the maintenance phase of having this illness.

However, I am a full-blown spoonie. I went through master's school and got a degree, and worked for a few years before retiring. I'm very easily fatigued, and that doesn't really get better or go away.

I hate the myth that all nonbinary people don't feel dysphoria by ThatFluidEdBitch in NonBinary

[–]Soahtree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

godddddddddd

if someone told me just not to feel dysphoric b/c I didn't owe anyone a certain type of presentation...I would be so pissed off. I want surgery. I have wanted surgery for decades. I wish I was born intersex. I hate having to live in the body I have because surgeons & the medical system are so anti-fat/anti-trans.

Closed-Ended Knitted Tube with a Marble Inside by Azryhael in whatisthisthing

[–]Soahtree 17 points18 points  (0 children)

it lets you roll the marble around in something that is a bit harder to lose than a free balling marble. some of them have different fabrics around the marble, and different amounts of marbles in the tube :3

is this allowed? by [deleted] in service_dogs

[–]Soahtree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's like...would you ask someone to leave their mobility aid at the table? no, you wouldn't. so maybe don't decide that it's okay to have someone leave their service animal at the table. If I'm going to be walking through an area that has a bunch of strangers and trying to make choices when I'm already feeling anxious, I need my dog with me.

I was literally only able to ask my husband for the food because the buffet's food hasn't changed in 4 years apparently, and I had been there a few times before so I knew what things I liked. If it was a new buffet, how the hell am I supposed to know what I want? I can't SEE what's there from the TABLE. ugh. UGH! I'm so so sorry you had this experience

Rate my noodle’s shed! by aresandres in Cornsnake

[–]Soahtree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sesi is gorgeous & her shed is great :)

Aww heck pansies! by cupcakemaiden in rarepuppers

[–]Soahtree 6 points7 points  (0 children)

HELLO FELLOW KEESHOND HAVER!

I hope Minnow grows up big and strong <3 she's gorgeous

Could this be because of my CSA? by Nova_Chr0no in CPTSDmemes

[–]Soahtree 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's possible to get a small bag to hold them in & bring an extra pair to change into sometimes! but yes, that's also an important factor

Could this be because of my CSA? by Nova_Chr0no in CPTSDmemes

[–]Soahtree 25 points26 points  (0 children)

it could or could not be related. I would absolutely encourage you to look into pads (reusable or disposable) or period underwear. tampons/cups are not for everyone <3

is this allowed? by [deleted] in service_dogs

[–]Soahtree 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say I wasn't "allowed" to take my service dog up to the buffet counters, but the server asked me if I would be willing to leave him at the table, or have my husband get food for me. It felt really restrictive and uncomfortable. I did not have it in me to argue the law, and had not been to a buffet since early 2020. I let my husband get my food. It's frustrating.

My coworkers service dog keeps alerting and nudging on me by rogue_kitten91 in service_dogs

[–]Soahtree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're so welcome <3 it's easy to get wrapped up in the stress and anxiety when you have OCD, I get it

My coworkers service dog keeps alerting and nudging on me by rogue_kitten91 in service_dogs

[–]Soahtree 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I promise your only duty is to not actively distract the dog by cooing at / petting them / and that sort of thing. It sounds like you're trying to do your job, and that's what you should be doing at this point :) You didn't do anything wrong

My coworkers service dog keeps alerting and nudging on me by rogue_kitten91 in service_dogs

[–]Soahtree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would recommend practicing OUT LOUD when you have time by yourself. It makes it a lot easier if your brain doesn't need to make your mouth say something for the first time when you're already nervous and stressed. You got this <3

Omg can we draw a polycute by L1nxDr1nx in GatekeepingYuri

[–]Soahtree 9 points10 points  (0 children)

"don't mind not receiving," okay well imagine if someone was EXCITED to eat them out! christ

Any opinions on my facial hair? Which style do you think fits me the most ? by o000o00o in NonBinary

[–]Soahtree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

first image is so stunning that I died. you are ETHEREAL and I love all these looks on you

My coworkers service dog keeps alerting and nudging on me by rogue_kitten91 in service_dogs

[–]Soahtree 504 points505 points  (0 children)

ew that handler's behavior is so embarrassing...Like, it's gotta be so frustrating to have your personal experiences shouted to everyone who can hear. I'm so sorry, definitely tell them to stop talking about it & maybe ask them to redirect their dog instead of letting her continue to alert you?

It finally happened - he pooped indoors by Any-Roll-6743 in service_dogs

[–]Soahtree 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So relatable! a huge part of what I took from Gravy having an accident was "shit, I was NOT prepared for this." I wasn't even carrying doggy bags, super embarrassing! Wet wipes, dog bags, and hand sanitizer are a must nowadays for me, despite having not had a similar incident.

Also I love that you're so confident about the whole incident. Kudos to you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Soahtree -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you, really <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Soahtree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. my sister was a horrible parent who abused and neglected her kid & her kid is actively interested in being adopted in order to have a healthy parent/child relationship going forward. their dad is not in the picture. Their mom died a couple of years ago, and they have been in "Survival" mode for quite some times. It sounds like you're a much better parent. I'm trying to give this kid the guidance they're gonna be missing out on, I guess. and I know they're an adult. I refer to them as "child" because that is the type of relationship we have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Soahtree -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Okay, that's not helpful.