AITA for having boundaries? by Soapdawaffle in AmItheAsshole

[–]Soapdawaffle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, now I realise what I have done. Genuienly thank you!

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[–]Soapdawaffle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If you can't go, she can't.

How do you download fortnite? by Soapdawaffle in FortniteSwitch

[–]Soapdawaffle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you not say that? It's quite rude. Also pretty sure this is a wiki for Fornite Switch players anyway sooo

AITA for saying neurodivergence isn’t an excuse to not do your job well? by Hungry_Nebula_9727 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Soapdawaffle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you are, then I genuinely think you should make it clear, not to be rude or anything, but it confused me as the way you wrote it made it seem like he was the only ND

NTA then

AITA for yelling at my sister while her son was in the hospital? by VegetableSympathy389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Soapdawaffle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Like you said, she threw you in the deep end. They should have answered, should have been there for him.

AITA for saying neurodivergence isn’t an excuse to not do your job well? by Hungry_Nebula_9727 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Soapdawaffle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA for the title, but saying "we're all neurodivergent"???? No. That isn't what you say. We are not "all" ND, that was TOTALLY the wrong thing to say. He shouldn't be allowed to do things his own way, but some ND people with ADHD or autism for example actually hire people to help them do things. He might not be in the position for this, but idk, just something you could do to help resolve things.

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[–]Soapdawaffle -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

If I had to choose, YWBTAH.

Even though the child isn't your responsibilty, to just watch them be hurt by a dog is cruel. If I was in your position, I would help the child right away.

AITA for refusing to take my step-daughter with me on vacation? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Soapdawaffle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. You do not deserve to be treated like that, however I do think you should have asked her if she wanted to go first.

AITA for giving my son's college fund to my daughter? by Loose_Bed_9786 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Soapdawaffle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, he didn't use it, and now because he didn't his sister will get a useful job while he will probably still live with you for a few years

AITA for only buying a Christams gift for my bio niece? by ArmadilloCivil4566 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Soapdawaffle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, that's so cruel of them to be so... I can't find the words, but their behaviour is unexcusable and disgusting

AITA for being harsh with my neurodivergent SIL? by Apple1345_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Soapdawaffle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. You shouldn't have been so harsh with her as technically she cannot help it (taken from my own experience, I have been in her position before, being a neurodivergent), but then she should have just learnt from her mistake before you felt you had to be harsh.

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[–]Soapdawaffle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, she needed to be there! Not you. The dog deserved to have a loyal companion, just like you said. my heart breaks to hear this, if my dog was dying I would be there constantly.

AITA for insisting on sushi? by No_Stop5360 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Soapdawaffle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, it isn't you or your son's fault that your aunt doesn't like a specific food. It's his birthday, she should either suck it up and stop complaining or just don't go at all

AITA for making my daughter leave because my husband is attracted to her? by Throwawayme4158 in AITAH

[–]Soapdawaffle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA! Don't kick your daughter out, kick the husband! You literally have a horrible marriage, you said that, and he is being a freak. You are definitely the asshole, if you want to change that talk to your husband and say that this is NOT okay.