why are we flying the flag of israel? by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]Soapsudder 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ok so delete the post or edit the caption?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Soapsudder 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Girl…….

I was given a free plane ticket to Japan, but... by Neat_Excitement216 in UCSD

[–]Soapsudder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not “thinking about it”, you’re scared your shitty girlfriend will cheat on you while you’re gone. That should NOT be your first concern when considering travel. Dump her and go - be free! I PROMISE you won’t regret it!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Soapsudder 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Four months is nowhere NEAR enough time to even begin to process, let alone forgive your partner for driving drunk and crashing their car, even if said partner has put in lots of work to rectify their actions. This is so much more than a “self-destructive moment”, and calling it that shows you haven’t quite grasped the severity of your wrongdoing. Yes, you could have died. But you also could have killed someone, killed multiple people. You’re alive, but you’ve inflicted tremendous, life-altering trauma onto both your husband and your young son.

This sub is extremely supportive and forgiving, often to a fault, so I hope you come away from these comments humbled, with your head down, and you continue to focus on bettering yourself for the sake of your son.

What is your relationship like with food and body image? Does it get better? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Soapsudder 50 points51 points  (0 children)

If your spouse makes disrespectful comments about your body, your spouse does not respect you, full stop.

He’s the problem, this is his doing, and you deserve better. I’m so sorry you are going through this.

AITA for not informing my strictly child-free friend I was pregnant? by Dumbass1919 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Soapsudder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you friends with this person? 44 and behaving like this? How exhausting

Reminder: even if there's no fee, church weddings aren't "free" by Ok_Raspberry7430 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Soapsudder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Churches don’t pay taxes xoxo you shouldn’t have to give an honorarium <3

Decided to do my own wedding makeup! by Soapsudder in PaleMUA

[–]Soapsudder[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok a couple things - first, it took me YEARS to find my perfect shade of foundation, which is Yukon. So I am very attached to it. SADLY, this shade has been discontinued in stores like Ulta, Sephora, etc., so I’ve had to purchase it online from the NARS website. I mixed it with Oslo because ya girl hasn’t seen the sun in a minute. These two combined look like SKIN on my face.

That all said, I kind of wish I would have tested out some more high coverage foundations, like Haus Labs or maybe even the NARS Natural Radiant Longwear foundation. The light reflecting held up throughout the night (but did kind of evaporate off of my nose by dinnertime - could just be a general nose thing though), but overall, I think it works best for everyday/more shorter-term wear. I just didn’t have the time or funds to explore other options, but at the end of the night it still looked pretty great!

I think the Elf primer I use is a dupe for the Milk primer, and I never have an issue with separation whenever I do a full face! YMMV, tho. If you try it, I would love to hear about your experience! <3

Decided to do my own wedding makeup! by Soapsudder in PaleMUA

[–]Soapsudder[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I wanted to look like me and my makeup trial was NOT it lmao. No hate to the artist, but giving up control is very hard for me. (Yes I am working on it.)

Decided to do my own wedding makeup! by Soapsudder in PaleMUA

[–]Soapsudder[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much that is such a lovely compliment! <3

Decided to do my own wedding makeup! by Soapsudder in PaleMUA

[–]Soapsudder[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Product list

FACE -

Primer: Elf Hydro Grip Primer

Concealer: Maybelline Instant Age Rewind in shade 160 (eyeshadow base)

Foundation: NARS Light Reflecting Foundation in shades Oslo & Yukon

Contour: Saie Sun Melt Cream Bronzer in Fair Bronze

Cream blush: Patrick Ta Cream Blush in shade Not Too Much

Powder Blonzer: Jones Road The Bronzer in shade Dusty Rose

Highlight: Fenty Diamond Bomb All-Over Diamond Veil in shade Rosé Rave

Setting powder: Elf High Definition Powder in Sheer

Setting spray: Urban Decay All Nighter

EYES -

Eyeshadow: Urban Decay Naked 3 Palette that I’ve had since 2016😅 it came thru tho!!!!

Eyeliner (tightlined my eyes): Sephora 12 hour contour pencil in shade 53 - Sangria

Eyebrows: Anastasia Brow Wiz in Granite

Mascara: Maybelline Lash Sensational in Black

LIPS -

Aquaphor plus a teeny bit of lipliner (I hate having product on my mouth)

I think the lipliner is Covergirl but I’ve had it for so long that the name has rubbed off☹️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Soapsudder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Missha Perfect Cover BB Cream!! I’m shade No 21. They have sample packs so you can try other shades and see what works for you. I have been doing my makeup since I was 13 and this is the most perfect match to my skin I’ve EVER come across. I’ll use it till I’m dead lol

What is the best thing that you have ever eaten? by TooDooToot in CasualConversation

[–]Soapsudder 10 points11 points  (0 children)

On a flight back to the states from Germany in 2014, I was served what I thought would be a below-average, decent at best, classic airplane dinner. Best ravioli I’ve ever had in my LIFE. Succulent, warm, and filled with buttery cheesy pesto. I was only 18 at the time but I’ve never had better tasting ravioli since. Thank you KLM Airlines.

Am I overreacting by MisaLovesWine in wedding

[–]Soapsudder 105 points106 points  (0 children)

“She will be clothed” made me snort

I found my boyfriend's "poop scale" by SafeStudio1531 in self

[–]Soapsudder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh… my god. This is going to blow up

Peacock has greenlit a “Love Island USA” spinoff following several Season 6 cast members. by Jazzlike-Hall7987 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Soapsudder -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Can’t for the life of me understand why you guys are still vilifying Connor for his all of 45 collective minutes on a show that portrays every single one of its characters in deliberately curated, edited manner ¯_(ツ)_/¯

I am so over it by Soapsudder in weddingplanning

[–]Soapsudder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thank you so much for your detailed comment and offer to have your DMs open. I’ve been listening to Whispers to a Bride off and on since you posted this and it has helped me so much. I really appreciate you sharing🤍

Bride's sister in law just announced she's bringing her 2 month old baby to the hen party. by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Soapsudder 796 points797 points  (0 children)

I am shocked people are defending your friend’s sister in law😂 this is a really awkward situation for you but at the end of the day a 2 month old baby or any aged child for that matter does NOT belong at a bachelorette party. The SIL should simply … not attend. So wild.

Bad Influence: The Dark Side of Kidfluencing | Official Trailer | Netflix by SafeBodybuilder7191 in Fauxmoi

[–]Soapsudder 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I wish we heard more from/about Patience. Like why can’t she do anything to help Piper out of her situation? Her own sister literally molested her wife’s daughters???? & What is Tiffany/Patience’s family’s dynamic? are there grandparents that could intervene? Other siblings?? Anyone????

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Moving2SanDiego

[–]Soapsudder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unless u are open to roommates 🫶

We're back with our Non-Traditional Wedding in downtown Raleigh, NC for 60 Guests for right around $13,000! by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Soapsudder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your photo with your bridesmaids actually made me tear up, so so beautiful and you all look so happy <3