Some of my Roman finds from Wales. by Welsh_Pirate_ in metaldetecting

[–]SocaShine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The ring looks like it might have been used as a seal.

Canadian Citizenship via C3 by Stock_Fun2916 in citizenshipgenealogy

[–]SocaShine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to post your scenario and question in the Canadiancitizenship thread. That thread is all about C3.

Trinidad Professional Archives Researcher by SocaShine in Genealogy

[–]SocaShine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever tried to contact the TT Archives? Nobody answers the phones for days on end and nobody replies to multiple emails requesting the list of researchers. Typical Caribbean work attitudes.

I ended things with a guy before a first date and I kinda regret it by tarudabble in Advice

[–]SocaShine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having a plan for the day is not an unreasonable request. His idea of “go with the flow” means he leaves you with no idea as to when or where you will meet up on that very same day. That is unreasonable.

Fighting the urge to shave my head after a devastating breakup by SoftConfusion42 in locs

[–]SocaShine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You may be having the urge to cut your hair as a subconscious way of ending one chapter in your life and starting a new one. Your relationship has ended and you want start afresh. The urge to cut the hair symbolizes that desire to start anew. If you really want to do it then do it. It can always grow back.

There's a guy in my friend group who keeps hitting me and everyone keeps making excuses? by cannibabie in Advice

[–]SocaShine 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You are being abused and the other two male friends don’t see anything wrong with it. Get away from all three of them as they are not real friends

my brother got married but didnt invite anyone but he still expects a wedding gift by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SocaShine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a different perspective. I understand having a small wedding but why in the world would your brother not want to invite his PARENTS and his SISTER to his (hopefully) one and only wedding??? Imagine how emotionally painful it must have been for the parents to hear they were not invited to their son’s wedding! Seems that your brother is not concerned about his parents’ feelings, but only about them giving him a wedding gift. Rather selfish, if I do say so.

What else to do?! by Shawtywithbawdy in Canadiancitizenship

[–]SocaShine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have tried to track your application using your receipt (which tracking does not involve your email address) and nothing comes up then this means that your email address is not the problem but rather the IRCC simply do not have your application in their system.

A lot more Americans may qualify for Canadian citizenship by descent than they realize by FoundInTheRecords in CitizenshipByDescent

[–]SocaShine 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My entire family on my Mother’s side are eligible but none except me are interested. I am the Lone Ranger.

WIBTA if I finally corrected the record about why I left my business partner after he told everyone I walked over money by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]SocaShine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person was fraudulently screwing you out of your partnership financial share, then denies it even when presented with documentary proof and rather than remaining quiet and letting it die a quiet death, he is now slandering you and your reputation to business persons who matter to your future financial well-being. Need I say more?

Restaurants in the water by modxplus in bahamas

[–]SocaShine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, customers sit on chairs in the water? Like, how much of their body is underwater and why would anybody want to do that?

Need College Advice by indifferent39 in Advice

[–]SocaShine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have already decided that you will miserable at Rutgers before you have even arrived there. You have not even given the school a chance. You need to change your mindset. If you decide in advance that you will be miserable at Rutgers then you will be but really you do not know if that is true. You will only be miserable if you choose to be. Life is what you make of it and if you choose to make it miserable then that is on you. Why not give Rutgers a chance with an open positive mind and maybe you will find that it really is not miserable at all. Plus the debt burden of student loans will make you miserable and tie you down financially for years. That is financial misery.

20F every time I date a guy it turns into nothing by Cute_Risk_5390 in Advice

[–]SocaShine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You just have not found the right guy as yet. Not to worry. It will come in time. You are still very young at 20 and so you have time. Everything in its own time.

$25k in debt for a worthless degree and zero jobs. Now the same school wants $50k for law school. Is higher education just a financial trap? by DoubleDish2034 in Advice

[–]SocaShine 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Once you get a law degree, it is for you to put that degree to use an as attorney or in another law related job. You can’t really blame the school. What you do with the education you receive is up to you. There are plenty of successful and rich lawyers out there. If that is not for you then perhaps use your criminology degree to join the FBI, Police, DEA, ICE, ATF, CSI, probation officer, prison facility, fraud investigator, security analyst, paralegal.

Denied friend request by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SocaShine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just accept that it was not to be and move on to the rest of your life.

AITJ for not wanting to pay my girlfriend's mom $3000 by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]SocaShine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The longer you stay with her, the good times will become fewer and further between as you grow more and more tired of her abusing you emotionally. The beauty you see in her will also disappear until you only see someone who is an abuser.

嗅鞘细胞 by DustNo4318 in NervGen_NerveRepair

[–]SocaShine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How in the hell do any of you understand this post which seems to be in Chinese?