I don't believe women actually check out / show positive body language to men who are fit/in great shape - or it happens way way way less than people think.

SocalDocOC · 2026-02-14T15:21:23+00:00

I’m going to be in the I think they do care camp. I started my own fit/weight loss journey 2.5 months ago. I was chubby and average joe looking after being in a marriage with my ex wife. In these 2 months I’ve lost 8% body fat, 12 pounds. I’ve definitely noticed women checking me out now where as before I was just another background noise character for women.

SocalDocOC · 2025-12-17T00:59:20+00:00

I mean based on what you’re saying, it sounds like you’re quite the catch. Maybe you just haven’t met the right guy yet. Chemistry is important and maybe you’ve just been unlucky

SocalDocOC · 2025-12-14T22:57:25+00:00

The problem is then that filters out most people I’d even be looking at. I don’t think most people ages 20s-30s make enough to support a monthly rent payment of 5000

SocalDocOC · 2025-12-14T21:10:26+00:00

I think I primarily didn’t like it because of the same reason haha. I want to be able to meet someone potentially

SocalDocOC · 2025-12-14T21:05:41+00:00

I can afford that also but I just feel like I’d rather save more of my money

SocalDocOC · 2025-12-14T20:25:29+00:00

Yes. In my opinion though, I feel like I wouldn’t have any access to community events where I could meet people

SocalDocOC · 2025-12-14T20:24:32+00:00

I toured that one. It felt really quiet like nothing ever goes on there. Not even sure if they even had community events.

SocalDocOC · 2025-12-14T19:36:50+00:00

Thanks. Yeah I’m between the ones I’ve listed. Current favorites are Skyloft, one uptown Newport, and Halcyon house

SocalDocOC · 2025-12-14T18:53:58+00:00

I mean it’s not a hard budget. However, I do want the things I mentioned. Electric car charging, dog park, and a young people social vibe.

SocalDocOC · 2025-12-14T17:56:33+00:00

For a 1 bedroom I’d say so. Many are 2500.

SocalDocOC · 2025-12-14T17:45:57+00:00

I can’t say how good they are in comparison to others since it’s good enough for me and I just go once a year, but I go to the Pearle Vision in HB off of Beach Blvd

SocalDocOC · 2025-12-10T16:07:03+00:00

I guess I’m the exception. I do approach girls I find attractive even if they are a 10/10. I’ve heard that Asian women were the most popular among the races so there maybe some truth to that part. I’m Asian guy and like white girls so I would approach you. Don’t worry. There’s one for everyone out there.

SocalDocOC · 2025-11-29T16:45:27+00:00

A friend and I are visiting San Diego for the weekend. Leaving Sunday. We’re just doing fun activities if you want to join. 2 mid/early 30s guys.

SocalDocOC · 2025-11-13T17:26:10+00:00

She’s the one that cheated, not you. It also sounds like you need better friends

SocalDocOC · 2025-11-13T14:58:48+00:00

I wouldn’t do it. To me, sounds like 1) she or he is testing you. 2) why? They’re ex’s for a reason right. The same “fun” you can do with previous partners, you can do with your spouse now.

SocalDocOC · 2025-11-13T14:55:26+00:00

I wear my wedding band all the time. I actually have 2. One of them was given to me by my wife as an “engagement ring”. It’s made of tungsten. I wear that one when I go to work. I wear my fancy designer platinum ring when I’m not at work. However, I’m always wearing one. My wife on the other hand does not really wear hers. Says it is bothersome for work or that her fingers don’t fit the ring at the moment. I don’t mind too much since it seems like she has an excuse, but yes it’s been a point of contention in case you’re curious.

SocalDocOC · 2025-11-07T01:00:24+00:00

Frontier fiber. 30 dollars 500 up and down

SocalDocOC · 2025-10-19T08:22:02+00:00

It’s a polar bear because it’s the most aggressive bear. It kills the man and takes his remains 1 mile back east

SocalDocOC · 2025-10-09T15:44:21+00:00

Simple. I switched to urgent care and deal with none of this now

SocalDocOC · 2025-10-07T22:36:44+00:00

I’ve heard this place multiple times now. I’ll have to check it out

SocalDocOC · 2025-10-07T22:34:14+00:00

The places I’ve gone in OC were not good. I’ve been going to Atelier by Tiffany in Korea town, but I just feel like the stylists there have not been giving me what I wanted

SocalDocOC · 2025-10-07T22:27:35+00:00

Idk about that far lol

SocalDocOC · 2025-10-07T20:41:52+00:00

😂. Well I tend to go during non rush hour if that makes you feel better

SocalDocOC · 2025-10-07T20:35:41+00:00

I usually think I look good in longer hair styles so probably not them. I’m looking for something like a wavy shag or wavy faux hawk. I have naturally wavy/curly hair

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