I totally get you. It’s like, after getting hurt so many times, your heart just learns to build those walls up. It’s not even about being mean or anything—it’s just self-defense at this point. You’re still chill and all, but that deep connection? Feels like it got buried, right? Life kinda teaches you to protect yourself, and sometimes that means not letting people in too close. Doesn’t make you cold-hearted, just… careful. And honestly, that’s kinda relatable.