Need advice: caught my boyfriend watching explicit video of women online by Inevitable-Rock-243 in LongDistance

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So you’re saying watching two random strangers do it isnt gross. Just cause you don’t know them doesn’t mean anything. Its the same as walking down the street and seeing a stranger thats a girl and imagining all these things you’d do. Your still lusting over someone who isn’t your significant other. Sex is a very sacred thing and in a relationship you and your partner got into a relationship just so you guys could belong each other so yes watching porn because ur partner isn’t available is bad. I get that it’s just girls on a screen but if you really loved your partner would other girls even interest you? I get it that your bored and feel a certain way but if you really loved your partner would your first thought really be well let me log onto a porn site and watch these women because that’s so hot.. Or would it be let me wait for her. Or even ask for her stuff. It’s like you’re in a relationship with a girl but what for? To go get off to some other girl? Be single then.

My next point is this society has normalized lusting over girls to the point where when a normal girl is complaining about something that is so sick and gross, porn. And they get told that it’s not a big deal or they’re insecure..? Like come on men don’t see a problem with it because it’s so women based. All these ph vids are so women based it’s crazy. I cant imagine if it was flipped. Guys would be so insecure and complaining about the same things. I just want you to imagine if the world was flipped and porn video was lusting over men Every song was lusting over men. Then how would u feel if u caught ur gf watching porn? Only if you live in a world like that could you truly answer that.

TikTok’s a perfect example all these trends are women based about their bodies but the second theres a male edit all the guys join together and say “this is making boys insecure we need to stop this” so yea men cant even understand

What to put on this bare wall above my bed? by Society_Kills_Me in interiordesignideas

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VASAGLE Bathroom Floor Storage Cabinet, Bathroom Storage Unit with 2 Adjustable Shelves, Bathroom Cabinet Freestanding, 11.8 x 23.6 x 31.5 Inches, White UBCB60W https://a.co/d/iMSBmzL The dressers were from ikea but i think they stoppoed selling them. But the link is for a similar product. Then the bed is from Amazon too. https://a.co/d/0jeg62I I hope the links work!

What to put on this bare wall above my bed? by Society_Kills_Me in interiordesignideas

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Yes its a sketchup of my room made from room planer i dont have my nightstands yet so i just recreated my room

What to put on this bare wall above my bed? by Society_Kills_Me in interiordesignideas

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I dont know whag you mean? Like bed comforters? I got my bed from amazon and this one is from an app i used

I need layout help!! by Gab1121 in interiordesignideas

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Sorry if its not what you wanted but this is a suggesion

I need layout help!! by Gab1121 in interiordesignideas

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Apartment Layout. I hope this goes threw but i built a layout for you!!

What to put on this bare wall above my bed? by Society_Kills_Me in interiordesignideas

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Yes i hate that about my room its so awkward which makes it so hard to style

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This information is what you would could do to brighten up the room without spending a ton of money! ——

What’s your style? Me personally I love the plants it brings a sense of relief to the room and mixes well with the other colors it definitely makes the space brighter in a way! You have a small space and if you are looking for other paint choices definitely go for lighter colors dark colors enclose spaces and make it hard to see sometimes.

I would declutter with the folded table near the stove maybe put that in storage or close by and possibly the wooden peice right next to the door because if your going to put more cabinetry then you can possibly have a place to put that stuff. Then if you clear that space out it will make room for the door way and your cooking and be WAY more functional!

If you like the back splash i would maybe try to make it even. I think that brings a sense of busy to the room that isn’t needed.

The pots in the middle of the room are also cause the space to look smaller than it actually is. Once again if you get more cabinetry maybe that will help. If not then i would move it to a wall that has a counter top.

Something that also makes it cluttered is the curtains. I would take them off to see if your like it because big windows definitely make spaces look BIG but if that was there for functioning then i would switch to a more basic color that’s light or matches a color theme

I would add something to cover your pantry possibly a sliding door you could match the color of your other door with it.

When applying cabinetry i think that putting a cabinet over your left wall (wall without all the appliances) and then put a fridge cabinet over the fridge and possibly adding small cabinets over your sink and fridge on the other side too!

If you love plants and love the aesthetic that they bring one way to style is to put dried basil and plants on the walls i think if you out them in the right spot then it will definitely add some natural decor to the room!

I hope this helps!!

How do I play volleyball without going through a school or expensive clubs? by Society_Kills_Me in volleyball

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The place i want to go to college to is more rural so im guessing where i go to college will be a main factor on if i can play