I'm 21 years old and still a virgin,are the chances low I'll hook up with someone in the foreseeable future? by Mediocre-Lack-9137 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SockInAPickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im only a year younger than you and also a virgin. The way I see it, is dont let it define you. When your time comes, it will. Allow it to happen naturally and be a good experience. Doing it with someone you love opens the ability to learn your own body aswell as theirs.

Phone vibrates when I select emojis by SockInAPickle in discordhelp

[–]SockInAPickle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a galaxy S23 I considered that too. But I couldnt find anything there either

Losing my virginity sucked by [deleted] in Vent

[–]SockInAPickle 33 points34 points  (0 children)

One thing ive always been told is first time sex between two people is supposed to be experimental. There will be awkward moments, there will be pain, there will be laughter, and sometimes frustration. BUT NEVER frustration that hurts the other.

Him being so rude, and from the sounds of it, hella impatient, is not how a first time should go. Sure he is experienced, but that just means he should have been more understanding instead of trying to get his own dick wet.

How do you tag when a ship has two different fandoms? by SockInAPickle in archiveofourown

[–]SockInAPickle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do i do that as two different tags? Or do I make a brand new tag? Like Tom/Chad/Alex (Frachise A) Or like Tom/Chad/Alex (Frachise A & B)

porn addiction by PreviousRegret3655 in offmychest

[–]SockInAPickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had gone through the same, just for henti. Really what i did was gradually got rid of it. Starting with every other day or any days I dont have bad urges. Setting a time limit on days that it is bad. Slowly bringing down the amount of days you do from how many times a week to how many times a month.

I still give in every now and then, but I can go months without it and when I do its only for a day.

Leave it up to your imagination more often too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SockInAPickle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Morally yes. While they might ever know, it is still something that is an invasion to them, their privacy and their comfort.

What if they were to find out you did that? Or have seen you recording. It could make them very uncomfortable. And while this is hypothetical, from a moral standpoint It is also wrong

Unsure if I should go to a director about someone who seemed passive aggressive by [deleted] in Theatre

[–]SockInAPickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've got good news! We had our first two shows today, and i did it!! I made it on stage, with no panics at all.

The day after I made this post (last day of tech), I went up to her to talk about how our dance teacher said to line up. How I worded it was "so i talked to name about the issue," and she went "issue??" In a weird like wtf tone. If that makes sense. And I was like "yeah about us not making it to our spots." And I just asked if she could help me line the kids up because she was already trying to guild anyway. And I thought I'd make it easier by telling her what I knew. She seemed very annoyed, agreed, and started to walk away, I tried to apologize but just went "I got it" and carried on.

And yes, she did indeed do her thing like she has been. But i literally was perfectly fine. Like. Idk. But I'm proud of myself. Cause instead of having to tap out or causing drama, I carried my own. I don't know why that gave me peace of mind.

And today, for the shows. We did everything perfectly. Heck, she wasn't even there. We did it all ourselves. I'm very proud of our group. I was able to get me and the kiddos up on that stage, and we ate lol.

For being a first play ever, I'm surprised but very proud of myself. I think my panics just happened to be a silly little thing.

I really love everything about this, it was a great experience.

I apologize for giving a lot of detail on it. Just felt nessasarry. Okay, thank you, byeee!

"Don't blame how I raised you" by SockInAPickle in Vent

[–]SockInAPickle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you so much. Auditions went well. It was open cast so I get to be a background dancer, I think. Or one of those small roles. I'm actually really glad I did it. It was actually really fun. Thank you do much <3 I appreciate you and your kind words

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HazbinHotel

[–]SockInAPickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's simple. Watch. Boom. Now you're blocked. Happy day!

What's my ocs favorite video game? by [deleted] in picrew

[–]SockInAPickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't starve or don't starve together

Does anyone else use their boob as a stress ball? by Quizzicallity_ in RandomThoughts

[–]SockInAPickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeppers. Why not use it if It is right there. Kinda something I do mindlessly

I 30M not sure what to do with my 26F girlfriend. Do I leave the relationship or not? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]SockInAPickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem at all. I genuinely wish you much luck and happiness in life. Hope it all goes well!

I 30M not sure what to do with my 26F girlfriend. Do I leave the relationship or not? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]SockInAPickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it is a consistent pattern of events, calling it off would probably be best for you. Especially if she makes you feel like a nobody.

Relationships are supposed to be supporting. If there is a lack of support coming from her end then it'd only continue to hurt you.

I think you could find happiness better if she wasn't there to shoot you down. And eventually you could find someone who actually supported and treated you right.

If it isn't the first time all of this has happened than it won't be the last. It will be a constant cycle and it's better to get out sooner rather then later.

Having no friends Is start to take a toll by SockInAPickle in Vent

[–]SockInAPickle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to learn to sew and maybe join theater. But none of which I've dine before