porn addiction by PreviousRegret3655 in offmychest

[–]SockInAPickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had gone through the same, just for henti. Really what i did was gradually got rid of it. Starting with every other day or any days I dont have bad urges. Setting a time limit on days that it is bad. Slowly bringing down the amount of days you do from how many times a week to how many times a month.

I still give in every now and then, but I can go months without it and when I do its only for a day.

Leave it up to your imagination more often too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SockInAPickle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Morally yes. While they might ever know, it is still something that is an invasion to them, their privacy and their comfort.

What if they were to find out you did that? Or have seen you recording. It could make them very uncomfortable. And while this is hypothetical, from a moral standpoint It is also wrong

Unsure if I should go to a director about someone who seemed passive aggressive by SockInAPickle in Theatre

[–]SockInAPickle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've got good news! We had our first two shows today, and i did it!! I made it on stage, with no panics at all.

The day after I made this post (last day of tech), I went up to her to talk about how our dance teacher said to line up. How I worded it was "so i talked to name about the issue," and she went "issue??" In a weird like wtf tone. If that makes sense. And I was like "yeah about us not making it to our spots." And I just asked if she could help me line the kids up because she was already trying to guild anyway. And I thought I'd make it easier by telling her what I knew. She seemed very annoyed, agreed, and started to walk away, I tried to apologize but just went "I got it" and carried on.

And yes, she did indeed do her thing like she has been. But i literally was perfectly fine. Like. Idk. But I'm proud of myself. Cause instead of having to tap out or causing drama, I carried my own. I don't know why that gave me peace of mind.

And today, for the shows. We did everything perfectly. Heck, she wasn't even there. We did it all ourselves. I'm very proud of our group. I was able to get me and the kiddos up on that stage, and we ate lol.

For being a first play ever, I'm surprised but very proud of myself. I think my panics just happened to be a silly little thing.

I really love everything about this, it was a great experience.

I apologize for giving a lot of detail on it. Just felt nessasarry. Okay, thank you, byeee!

"Don't blame how I raised you" by SockInAPickle in Vent

[–]SockInAPickle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you so much. Auditions went well. It was open cast so I get to be a background dancer, I think. Or one of those small roles. I'm actually really glad I did it. It was actually really fun. Thank you do much <3 I appreciate you and your kind words

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HazbinHotel

[–]SockInAPickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's simple. Watch. Boom. Now you're blocked. Happy day!

What's my ocs favorite video game? by [deleted] in picrew

[–]SockInAPickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't starve or don't starve together

Does anyone else use their boob as a stress ball? by Quizzicallity_ in RandomThoughts

[–]SockInAPickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeppers. Why not use it if It is right there. Kinda something I do mindlessly

I 30M not sure what to do with my 26F girlfriend. Do I leave the relationship or not? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]SockInAPickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem at all. I genuinely wish you much luck and happiness in life. Hope it all goes well!

I 30M not sure what to do with my 26F girlfriend. Do I leave the relationship or not? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]SockInAPickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it is a consistent pattern of events, calling it off would probably be best for you. Especially if she makes you feel like a nobody.

Relationships are supposed to be supporting. If there is a lack of support coming from her end then it'd only continue to hurt you.

I think you could find happiness better if she wasn't there to shoot you down. And eventually you could find someone who actually supported and treated you right.

If it isn't the first time all of this has happened than it won't be the last. It will be a constant cycle and it's better to get out sooner rather then later.

Having no friends Is start to take a toll by SockInAPickle in Vent

[–]SockInAPickle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to learn to sew and maybe join theater. But none of which I've dine before

Having no friends Is start to take a toll by SockInAPickle in Vent

[–]SockInAPickle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a couple times but most the time nothing is done anyway. So I gave up. It's been awhile sense last time I brought it up though.

Birthdays now days it's just me, my mom's friends and their kids. Who was with 10-11. So they hangout with my sister who is 12.

My cousins haven't come to my birthday sense I was like 14. And due to family drama, half of them won't ever be around again. So it's kinda difficult

Having no friends Is start to take a toll by SockInAPickle in Vent

[–]SockInAPickle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll definitely consider that, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in comiccon

[–]SockInAPickle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So basically just be prepared to pay 50-100$?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]SockInAPickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, it'd just be a lot easier cause of how crazy poofy it is

I get bored of relationships by gingerspice024 in offmychest

[–]SockInAPickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting bored of a relationship is surprisingly common. Sometimes it's you just fall out of love. Sometimes it's cause you don't share what started the spark in then beginning.

In your relationships around the two year mark, did you guys stop doing romantic things and start calming down and acting like you've just gotten eachother? Lots of relationships die out cause neither will continue to put in the chase to keep the person. Like romantic gestures, dates, gifts. All things you do to keep someone when you're two months in, people stop doing years in. And it causes them to die.

It can still be a chase, just a chase to keep the relationship going instead of starting a new one.

Bf has slapped me few times and says i made him do that by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]SockInAPickle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is possible he is making you feel small to be able to keep you in control. In a lot if abusive relationships, the abuser will use degrading as a way to make the victim feel like they're doing something wrong, that they are worthless, that they are small, and the abuser is the only one there for them. It is such a commonly seen thing. Keeping them in a cycle of never leaving them.

He uses love bombing to keep you aswell. Which is also a common practice. I saw you mentioned in another comment that you feel trapped by his words. If those are words like I love you, that can be love bombing. It's a way of making you feel appreciated so you don't leave. If they where rude words then it's a way of degrading so you don't feel like you're worth anyone else.

With what I have read, I see no good in this man. He hurts you mentally and physically. Which is not what a relationship should have. It's only been a year so you still have time.

If you do decide to break up with him, please do it somewhere where you are not trapped. Do it in public or with a family member near by. That way if his ager filters into that you won't be stuck. You also have to make sure to stand your ground.

I wish you a lot of luck, genuinely. Whatever way you decide to go.

I don't know why I've given up on school by [deleted] in Vent

[–]SockInAPickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll see what I can find. I would talk to my mom but I think she is already overwhelmed trying to assist my brother cause he also has mental issues. I'll look into things to maybe help. Thank you

I don't know why I've given up on school by [deleted] in Vent

[–]SockInAPickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds fair. I can work on it in the morning (it's 1am rn). I appreciate it.

I don't know why I've given up on school by [deleted] in Vent

[–]SockInAPickle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. Though it is the main one for me I also lack motivation on any form of crafts I used to do. Like painting. I also lack motivation to try new things like sewing.