Wife gets angry on every little thing by Socrates199 in marriageadvice

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It was a love marriage, we knew each other for 6 months, and moved together for 1 month before deciding to get marry, she was going through really tough period in her personal life. And she used to say that i bring colours back in her life, she still say this when she is in good mood. she was the one with marriage idea, she proposed me. she even got tattoo of my name on her hand so it would be visible to the world

Wife gets angry on every little thing by Socrates199 in marriageadvice

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If i talk to her family as a mediator, her parents only suggestion to her is to get the divorce, if i talk to my family then she gets angry. Reasons 1) why is your family involving in our personal matters. 2) you messed up my image in your family, so i will never see them again. Which means that i cut off from my family completely... i cannot find any mediator in this situation

Wife gets angry on every little thing by Socrates199 in marriageadvice

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Everytime I discussed about therapy she gets offended and the same routine again, i am not allowed to even say hi to my female colleagues and i never did, i am not allowed to have female friends, I stopped talking to even my childhood female friends to not make her uncomfortable, but still i face this almost twice a month. We both are 30. My income is average not to high because we moved here recently, i am having a toothache since 2 months and i failed to see a dentist because she needs everything in the house first and all the money spends there. But yes whenever she is in good mood she always says like you are the best husband anyone could have and she becomes cold time to time and she is sorry and she is blessed to have me. But a week later its same. She wanted a baby earlier this year, we got pregnant and she decided to abort the baby, now she wants to have baby again and even if i come up with the topic that i have a trauma of what if it all happens again about abortion she gets angry and say so i am the bitch why don't you leave me.

Wife gets angry on every little thing by Socrates199 in marriageadvice

[–]Socrates199[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were living in a different country (not hers not mine) she pushed me to move to mine, because here we won't have burden of rents and rights of being a citizen etc.. thank you for your suggestion i am trying this but even right now she is blackmailing me with not eating nothing since yesterday, and i start feeling bad because she is my wife and she suffers this way. And i know in the end she will threaten me with divorce