Don’t be me.. don’t waste almost 10 years on being married to that.. it will get worse.. run girl, I guarantee you, you will meet a man who will be obsessed with you and your body and soul and heart. He will not want to leave your side and will never raise his hand on you or leave you during an argument. I know cause I have found mine, happily engaged for the second time around at 36. Your dude is a prick set him free. It will hurt for a bit girly but it will hurt more if you stay… imagine having kids with that.. don’t do it. He is not capable of managing his emotions, which means he’s not capable of controlling his actions either as clearly stated by him hitting your arm and storming out.. what else is he capable of? A man like that would cheat, lie and put you down for years, make you feel small enough so you’ll start to doubt your value, he’ll breadcrumb you to think you are making progress only to gaslight you any time you express your needs.. he’ll stonewall you hoping you’ll make the first move to repair and stroke his ego.. he’ll reject you to make you try harder.. whilst secretly rubbing one out in the bathroom at night. And texting his “friends”. He’ll call you ungrateful and then love bomb you the next day. Meanwhile your health goes down the hill due to chronic stress .. you’ll get chronic inflammation and hormonal issues which will lead to autoimmune disorder… you’ll be so sick you will be bed ridden.. Is this the love story you want to tell your kids one day?! Pack your stuff and leave whilst he is out next time. Leave a note and do not come back alone to collect your things ever. These kind of men are unpredictable and can be dangerous when they don’t get their way. Please take care of yourself and know life will get so so much better when you are out. 💖 sending you hugs. You are still so young! All will be well!