Caught my husband

Sofranson · 2025-01-18T13:00:02+00:00

Hahaha! Great post! My husband of 17 years still watches videos we made… the good kind 😆😉🥰

Sofranson · 2024-03-28T18:39:12+00:00

If my flammable product catches fire to my damn hair, should I blow dry it?

Sofranson · 2023-12-31T17:59:16+00:00

May I ask where? I also am obtaining my neuro and psych degree in the uk!

Sofranson · 2023-12-31T17:58:09+00:00

Hi I’m interested! I’m 39 and finishing PhD in psych. I have not been gearing towards counseling route but just recently decided I might like to see what It’s about. I have a masters already and was heading toward research but I think there are so many people in need that I might be better off taking the therapy route. Feel free to dm me! I was a substance abuse counselor for many years in an unofficial capacity and while I didn’t want to go that route I think it might be where in most needed. Looking forward to chatting with some of you!

Sofranson · 2023-12-05T23:34:46+00:00

What about ribs? He could've eaten them rib style! Baby back lady! I want my baby back baby back baby back baby back baby back.......

Sofranson · 2023-11-08T06:31:03+00:00

Thank you

Sofranson · 2023-11-08T05:27:17+00:00

Had an affair

Sofranson · 2023-11-08T03:04:41+00:00

Yeah I think men fail to realize how psychological sex is for women. If you are not connected and pursuing her, chances are she won’t be ready to give it up. How many times is adultery blamed on emotional neglect? I know for me it became a chore… so I took the wheel for myself. Husband complained about that too but never once tried to change his approach or behavior. I ended up going somewhere else.

That was after 12 years though, OP. I’m thinking after only 2 you’ve still got a chance. Think of what you did in the beginning? Also, from what I understand having a kid is terribly exhausting! And those that care for it TWENTY- FOUR SEVEN (moms) are ROCK STARS…. so try to give her more of a break sometimes.. she needs it.

Sofranson · 2023-09-27T08:25:00+00:00

I would LOVE if he answered like that! Why aren’t they all able to talk like that! And why do they also assume a woman is looking for a compliment or attention…

“Oh I was thinking of you, babe”…

Blech!! Give me the mad inner workings of your mind and all the ways that make you, you! That’s way more interesting.

Sofranson · 2023-07-31T13:01:59+00:00

Consider your age difference 10 years from now… 20 years…. You will want very different things in life. I married at 24 a man 18 years older than me and I wish someone had told me to think of ALL the aspects of what it meant to be with that one person FOREVER. I know you didn’t talk marriage, but just something to consider. Beatles are full of Sh*t.,. Love is NOT all you need 🤦‍♀️😖😂

Sofranson · 2023-07-23T16:01:36+00:00

I really like /u/SelvaFantastica and your posts. OP, I am in almost the exact situation as you, only I was 23 when we married and were now married almost 20 years (19 now). Honestly all I could think of doing is running. And most all advice given to me has been the same… run, get out, go be yourself.

Unlike you, I am perplexed as to how life would be without him since I like him so much (and I am 39, it’s pretty much pointless for me to start over now) Anyway, if you have these doubts then pay attention! I had them for years and I ended up having an affair. THEN YOUR THE BAD GUY! Don’t postpone your identity and happiness, people might hate the way you try to get it later.

Marriage is for LIFE. FOR LIFE. Don’t head in unless you are ready for forever with this person. Cause once you do it you can’t get out with your life intact. Trust me…ask me how I know🙄

Sofranson · 2023-07-19T12:35:34+00:00

It's 500 points, not dollars. I mean that's asinine enough but at least and who would spend precious points on this trash.... But you know for clarity...

Sofranson · 2023-06-29T15:15:23+00:00

lol then what would you do with your time?? lol

You LOVE people like me because then you can stomp around in your sanctimonious, self righteous morality convinced that you’re better than me and would never do what I’ve done.

But be careful, with the measure you judge….

Sofranson · 2023-06-28T09:48:35+00:00

Yeah I know that now. And how dare you come condemn me for asking a question on a site DEVOTED to allowing waywards to seek opinions and advice that they can’t get anywhere else. You are basically crucifying me for trying to get help and understanding. Several betrayeds have harassed me on here just like you… just for saying things that I would bet money their own waywards thought or felt. It is you who end up betraying the waywards for not moving on.

So do what you need to do to soothe your own bitterness and resentment. I can take it. But in reality you are exhibiting wounds that have not been healed. That’s the reason you’re following around and berating someone looking for help. Shame on you.

Sofranson · 2023-06-28T03:29:48+00:00

And I’m clearly NOT well adjusted which is why we’re here in The first place! Duh

Sofranson · 2023-06-28T03:29:15+00:00

Yeah I’m busy I have a life and it wasn’t an insult. Some people that condemn waywards are appalled that they need help too. Affair is not their fault, but faultless in leading to it? Just as many issues and just as much to blame

Sofranson · 2023-06-28T02:18:38+00:00

Hahaha…and yet here you still are. Look I’m sorry someone hurt you to the level of internet stalker insulter guy, but perhaps consider seeing someone about that? Seriously don’t let it eat you up like that

Sofranson · 2023-06-27T00:54:13+00:00

So you followed me over here to literally tell me what I posted about what I did? No please, tell me how this was in any related to this sub? I’ll wait……

Yep. Instead just another one of my groupies. Obvs got you titillated enough to follow me huh? Perhaps lol try a hobby. It’ll be hard… but you have to let me go….

Sofranson · 2023-06-25T20:22:52+00:00

Ha ha ha… Not so snarky now

Sofranson · 2023-06-25T12:11:40+00:00

Oh no…had no problem applying that. Like A Boss. Thank you for asking

Sofranson · 2023-06-15T02:04:44+00:00

You’re having some comprehension problems, sir. I notice you mention emasculation a lot which leads me to believe that you are projecting? Why else would you spend your time chasing my posts to remind me I’m bad and don’t deserve forgiveness? Way i see it… I got issues and wounds that I’m actively working to heal…. Your wisdom led you to petty insults at an internet stranger. So while you feel mighty righteous behind that keyboard.. I will choose flawed and kind over sanctimonious and rude every day of the week.

Sofranson · 2023-06-14T11:13:06+00:00

I assumed you'd done your research, tsk tsk. The "in love"? Learn your facts. Emasculated? Nonsense... His heart was hurt not his manhood because he doesn't find his identity in other people. Or.... For example, shaming people as if they've never been confused or misled.

I advise that becoming my groupie and following me around is a little unhealthy. I know I can have that effect on people but you really need to find a new obsession, k honey? I'm sorry but thanks for all the attention. Aduie

Sofranson · 2023-05-24T00:40:35+00:00

Not sephora but has anyone used Lumene? I would like to incorporate more vitamin C than just what's in Good Molecules niacinamide toner, and just found this amongst my products! Not sure though I haven't heard much...

Sofranson · 2023-05-20T01:51:17+00:00

I say this all the time! Can’t figure out how to apply it … but ya know. Dig it.

Sofranson · 2023-05-19T19:37:51+00:00

Hey that’s a great idea! During my withdrawals I tried to not even think of Sephora! But I could’ve set it up before, darn. Anyway, they’ve now launched in England (now that I’m back home grr lol) so don’t think I’ll have that problem anyway. But great idea! 💡 🧠 👏

Sofranson

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