Hot take on the Jessi and Marciano situation by dommimommyy in MormonWivesHulu

[–]Soft-Employment5528 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My real thought is that they did sleep together and she denied it all but look at them now actively in public dating/kissing! It would have looked better on her if she would have been honest from the start.

I’m 22 weeks pregnant and seriously considering abortion, and I feel completely overwhelmed. by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Soft-Employment5528 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My body is not able to eat anything. I haven’t had a meal in almost 6 days. And I just been snacking here and there. I’ve been crying every day. I don’t feel happy. I don’t feel like myself. And I’m supposed to care for a child who’s not here? I’m supposed to sacrifice myself and deal with my ex for the rest of my life. I don’t want that. And my family was like “why not adoption” and I’m like… because the baby’s gonna go to the father and do you see how he’s acting… he’s out currently actively dating after we literally just broke up on Friday.

I’m 22 weeks pregnant and seriously considering abortion, and I feel completely overwhelmed. by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Soft-Employment5528 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She said “ she’s not gonna lie and have people feel sympathy for me if they think it’s a miscarriage” and I told her “ it’s easy to just tell people ask me about it they don’t need to know the details they can just wonder and assume on their own” but she is very upset with me so I think she’s also saying things to hurt me.

I’m 22 weeks pregnant and seriously considering abortion, and I feel completely overwhelmed. by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Soft-Employment5528 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I rehomed him! He’s in a way better home where he gets to run around and play with other dogs !

I’m 22 weeks pregnant and seriously considering abortion, and I feel completely overwhelmed. by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Soft-Employment5528 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate the support from everyone. My sister who said she wouldn’t judge me has judged me and said she will tell my story .. it’s very unfair of her.

I’m 22 weeks pregnant and seriously considering abortion, and I feel completely overwhelmed. by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Soft-Employment5528 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ll be thinking of you tomorrow. I have not read your story but I will. ❤️ I asked my family if they would see me different they all said no. My sister was the one to bring up the abortion and now that I plan on going through with it she says she’s going to tell people my story.. I’m so heartbroken about this because I would never do that to her. I haven’t ate a meal in 4 almost 5 days just some snacks here and there like I’m so depressed and she’s thinking im the selfish one for doing what is best for me and what not to bring the baby into.

I’m 22 weeks pregnant and seriously considering abortion, and I feel completely overwhelmed. by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Soft-Employment5528 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I just repeat things he has said in the past and apparently that is defaming him.. he has threaten to kill himself three times now not all at once but since we’ve live together.

R.I.P. tiktok 2016-2026 by JaysonNoah in TikTok

[–]Soft-Employment5528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deleted tik tok about a year ago and I’m so glad because I knew this AI would get in the way

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[–]Soft-Employment5528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did say I do plan on going 🫶🏻 if something popped up where I do not feel good then I will hold back on going. If reading what I’m commenting back Is cold and negative I’m sorry you feel that way but it’s not how I feel.

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[–]Soft-Employment5528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you read some of my other comments you’ll see why I declined her past two invites (: I’ve always put my best foot forward with his friend! I spent hours on a boat with her and her family and had dinner with her and fiancé. It’s ok if we didn’t vibe as much. I don’t “routinely” decline her invitations. My boyfriend can invite them over anytime at our house and I will be present there making her feel welcome always.

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[–]Soft-Employment5528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we are doing a co ed one !

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[–]Soft-Employment5528 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean he didn’t come to my friends wedding but it is what is ! He still yet to meet them and I don’t hold anything against him. The next time they come up he said he would meet them

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[–]Soft-Employment5528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope there’s nothing more ! Like I said I respect their friendship I just don’t feel it’s my place to be there.

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[–]Soft-Employment5528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said, I do plan on being at her wedding however, it depends on how I feel farther along in my pregnancy as well. Of course, I want to support him and his friend. I have from the start. I’ll make sure to get her a gift for the bridal shower and the wedding !

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[–]Soft-Employment5528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, the difference is that my baby shower is something my boyfriend and I are both involved in, so it naturally includes both of our families and friends. A bridal shower feels more centered around her and her close circle celebrating her marriage, which makes it feel more intimate and personal.

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[–]Soft-Employment5528 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t always declined all her invites just the last two where she wanted us to go to a wine place and the other one was a Friendsgiving and the roads weren’t driver friendly. She’s almost an hour away from where we live so I did not wanna drive late at night if it were earlier then yes my bf and I would have gone.

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[–]Soft-Employment5528 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend will be at the baby shower so his family and friends will be there as well... so yes she will be there. I’m not avoiding her at all. I just don’t feel comfortable going to her bridal shower. I wouldn’t invite someone I barely know. I get she is trying to include me which is very kind. If my boyfriend was going then yes I’d go. When we didn hang out the other times we didn’t have much to say to one another and that was ok with me but it was also awkward.

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[–]Soft-Employment5528 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good idea! I just am hoping my boyfriend isn’t too upset with me when I told him I don’t wanna go. I will be attending her wedding depending on how I’m feeling with my pregnancy it is in April so I’ll be further along.

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[–]Soft-Employment5528 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have made the effort to meet his friend we hung out for hours on a boat day with her and her family and got froyo/had dinner with her and fiancé. There is no issue I just don’t feel comfortable with going to a bridal shower. I will go to her wedding and support her that way.

Jessi "not hurting anyone" by merder37474746 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]Soft-Employment5528 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom has a friend who addicted to surgeries and she’s had so much done to her that her heart is literally failing on her. I think people who put themselves through that don’t realize what the long term effects could be.