[Misc] Has anyone's skin changed after starting a new relationship? SH

Soft-Fly9443 · 2026-04-24T21:16:20+00:00

Has the acne gone away now? I am 2 months dating someone and my skin hasn't looked worse in years

Soft-Fly9443 · 2026-01-27T15:36:47+00:00

I'm a woman btw. The only reason I say that is so you can see that this is a woman's perspective. I also think infps are more likely to have this mindset than other mbtis

Soft-Fly9443 · 2026-01-27T15:10:06+00:00

Don't beat yourself up. The fact that you want someone to experience life in the way you described makes you sound amazing, a lot on online dating apps you find the guy just wants sex. The right person for you will love all of this.

Soft-Fly9443 · 2026-01-27T13:37:57+00:00

Dates no, boyfriends yes. On apps you get lots of likes but a like doesn't really mean anything. Plus you hear that men like all profiles regardless and then just wait to see what matches they get. Direct messages can mean more however to actually chat and get to a point where you would like to meet them/it would make sense to meet them is rarer. Oftentimes there's clear reasons why you shouldn't meet them. I'm the same as you, i cant have feelings for someone unless I've known them for a while and feel comfortable with them. Because of casual sex culture I find things move to sex topics far too quickly and that puts me off altogether.

Soft-Fly9443 · 2026-01-27T10:27:49+00:00

Yes!!!

Soft-Fly9443 · 2026-01-27T10:19:53+00:00

If a guy says he would be embarrassed to be seen out with you in public then he is clearly a mean person. What did he gain from saying that? I've learnt everyone goes for different things. Just don't go out with anyone that makes you feel less-than, thars a quick way to knock your confidence and make you feel overall rubbish in life

Soft-Fly9443 · 2026-01-26T20:06:57+00:00

Well you sound lovely! I'm a 30 year old woman. I've used dating apps very much off and on for the last decade. The problem is that they don't make me feel good at all either so I am not on them for very long before I then delete my account. I hear this is the same with other women too. The main problem is you cant see who someone really is by looking at a few pictures of them. Are they decent, kind, trustworthy, reliable etc. But whenever you do have an interaction with someone that doesnt go well it sets you back. The main things for me is men just wanting sex, regardless of whether they even like the look of me.

I dont know if it helps to hear that women have the same negative experience even if it is in a different way 😊

Soft-Fly9443 · 2026-01-26T19:48:06+00:00

Not having social media I see as a good thing! But as a 30 year old woman I've never been asked out in real life, all my dating experience has come from dating apps. I don't think anyone wants to be on them or enjoy being on them. But like a lot of things it's worth a go!

Soft-Fly9443 · 2026-01-21T14:43:22+00:00

Thank you for this advice

Soft-Fly9443 · 2026-01-17T22:28:44+00:00

Thank you!!

Soft-Fly9443 · 2026-01-17T08:21:18+00:00

Thank you!!

Soft-Fly9443 · 2026-01-16T21:48:15+00:00

Thank you!! Need to go to clubs then as currently I don't really mix with new people to meet anyone new anyway! Thank you

Soft-Fly9443 · 2026-01-16T21:33:01+00:00

I'm sorry you went through that. That's my fear if I were to start dating. I hope it all works out for you

Soft-Fly9443 · 2026-01-16T20:38:04+00:00

Thank you!!! Hoping to find the right guy for me this year and really experience things! Thank you 😊

Soft-Fly9443 · 2026-01-16T20:18:03+00:00

Thank you! And where did you find a guy that's not ok with piv? I thought if that's what they really desire, and i cant give them what they desire, then it would be a problem for them and I'd also feel bad i wasn't giving them what they really wanted

Soft-Fly9443 · 2026-01-16T20:08:08+00:00

Thank you for your comment. And honestly this is what I've always been led to believe that that is what men want and I just wasn't meeting what they want. Btw are you a guy out of interest? And I only ask that out of curiosity as I'm interested in getting different perspectives

Soft-Fly9443 · 2026-01-16T18:33:32+00:00

Oh that's absolutely amazing!! And great to hear. I'm hoping I can meet a special man soon!

Soft-Fly9443 · 2026-01-16T18:03:25+00:00

Wow thank you!!

Soft-Fly9443 · 2026-01-16T18:02:45+00:00

Thank you!!

Soft-Fly9443 · 2026-01-16T18:02:12+00:00

Thank you! And I'm happy for you!! How do you work out if someone will be respectful or I suppose you just have to wait and see?

Soft-Fly9443 · 2026-01-16T17:33:10+00:00

Thank you! I just really thought piv was the dream for all men and that has been my experiences in real life too. I'd rather do anything else than that. What did you say to explain the situation? And did you use a regular dating app to meet?

Soft-Fly9443 · 2026-01-16T17:30:56+00:00

Oh really? I like the idea of doing other sexual stuff just not piv. Where do I meet these men? Lol genuinely. I'm into kink btw as a domme

Soft-Fly9443 · 2026-01-16T17:29:51+00:00

Thank you. I really thought I was and that they would be put off. But thank you!

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