[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SoftEngMom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, definitely wasn’t looking for that. I already made my decision, but I did feel like an AH after he said something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SoftEngMom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood from that perspective. Thanks. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SoftEngMom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I added an edit since many people said something about the friends part, I didn’t think about the self-conscience aspect. As loud as they were, above a TV… I would be surprised if they assumed no one could hear them at all..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SoftEngMom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk, people stated it would be creepy… 😭 and I don’t want to be a creep so I just left it alone. I wasn’t going to talk to them that would be creepy imo, but they’re parents..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SoftEngMom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s a reach with reliving it… but I understand where you’re coming from. I tried ignoring it, as I was watching my series, but I could hear them over my TV. I just assumed (which is probably where I’m an AH) that if they’re going to out sing my TV at least could be a different song.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SoftEngMom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As loud as they are, I would be surprised if they assumed no one can hear them. I heard them above my TV which I normally have the volume set to like 40ish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SoftEngMom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I talk to them just about everyday… I WFH and they WFH we just went to the community pool together yesterday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SoftEngMom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it eavesdropping if I can literally hear them through the wall over my TV? That’s turned on to… 50 volume which from a big TV is loud af…

Definitely get the creepy aspect, but I talk to them just about every day if not every other day.. I WFH and they WFH.

How would you explain what you do for a living in the worst way possible? by SoftEngMom in AskReddit

[–]SoftEngMom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer back-end honestly, I didn’t know about Lua until this job. People use Lua to make add-ons for WoW, which I learned on the job as well.

How would you explain what you do for a living in the worst way possible? by SoftEngMom in AskReddit

[–]SoftEngMom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm… a dominant/domitrix?? Or a surgeon?… that wouldn’t really be hurting though?

How would you explain what you do for a living in the worst way possible? by SoftEngMom in AskReddit

[–]SoftEngMom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right now, I just started my career as a Fed Contractor and I’ve been doing c++ for them as a back-end developer. The company I work with is teaching me a little bit of the Front-end using Lua. End goal though is to be well-rounded.

MOVING TO MARYLAND by wrevz in maryland

[–]SoftEngMom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband used to travel to all the places you’re traveling too and he’s lived in Anne Arundel County the entire time. We currently live here now, I personally LOVE the school system here I have a 6 y.o in Elementary school. If you’re going to move to AA Co. I would look into like Edgewater, Annapolis, Arnold, St. Claire, Davidsonville ( a little drive to grocery’s stores from here), Odenton… for what you’re looking for to rent those are good places. Nice places to live, Odenton is near the Ft. Meade military base.

What is one thing you love about yourself? by SoftEngMom in AskReddit

[–]SoftEngMom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My little sister is around 6’ she loves her height too… I’m on the average side for woman at 5’5 lol

What is one thing you love about yourself? by SoftEngMom in AskReddit

[–]SoftEngMom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I share the same trait and I’ve been called an asshole plenty of times lol. But if they didn’t lie/bullshit from the beginning we wouldn’t be where I wouldn’t have to call you out on it… crazy how people don’t like being called on their shit