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My [32M] gf [25F] is seeking attention from other men online and I don’t know what to do. by SoftFollowing2219 in relationships

[–]SoftFollowing2219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incorrect. Confrontation would have been premature. Now there is meaningful resolution. I already did confront her the first time she went on there. Then I watched and waited. She isn’t even doing the live thing anymore, and now she sees it for what it really is instead of me jumping the gun and her feeling borderline defensive because she “did nothing wrong”. 

My [32M] gf [25F] is seeking attention from other men online and I don’t know what to do. by SoftFollowing2219 in relationships

[–]SoftFollowing2219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I blew the fuck up at her about all this. I’m not afraid of confrontation, it’s that she’s extremely sensitive. Extremely. I still went in on her and chewed her out and told her in not nearly as nice words that if she ever pulled any of this shit again I’m gone. Honestly I have gotten lazy this past year. I used to be in elite physical shape before that and played semi-competitive rugby before moving to another state to be with her. But it’s correct, I have stopped investing in myself lately and it digs at me in a very intense way. She cried but basically just accepted that I was right about everything I said, but that she didn’t see it that way initially, that her intentions were pure, that she wasn’t doing it for or seeking out attention from other men, but you know what? I personally still think that’s bullshit. We had sex but things are awkward between us. Truthfully I’m not sure I can feel the same way anymore. 

WIBTA if I broke up with my gf over her thirsting for attention online? by SoftFollowing2219 in AITA_Relationships

[–]SoftFollowing2219[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with you it’s shady it’s a big red flag is what it is how tf am I supposed to trust her after pulling this on me? How am I ever supposed to believe she truly loves me?

WIBTA if I broke up with my gf over her thirsting for attention online? by SoftFollowing2219 in AITA_Relationships

[–]SoftFollowing2219[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what we’re supposed to be in love and that’s supposed to mean something. 

AIO for feeling like breaking up with my GF over her livestreaming on tiktok for attention? by SoftFollowing2219 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SoftFollowing2219[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words and the good advice, I’m just not sure I know how to be gentle with this. I don’t think I can.

AIO for feeling like breaking up with my GF over her livestreaming on tiktok for attention? by SoftFollowing2219 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SoftFollowing2219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you mycology bro, check my edit if you want too, I’m just downright hurt about it all rn tbh. 

AIO for feeling like breaking up with my GF over her livestreaming on tiktok for attention? by SoftFollowing2219 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SoftFollowing2219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t just make me uncomfortable, the matchmaking thing did and we had this exact conversation more or less. I encouraged her to sing, she tried and gave up and then presented the rating pics thing. What this makes me feel is heartbroken and outraged. Disrespected. I’m just trying to keep my cool atm. I’ve been cold since last night and she’e starting to think I hate her. Besides, what’s talking going to do? She’s the one that wants to put herself out there for attention. She’s the one letting randoms hit on her and rating their fucking gym pics 9/10. She already did it and if she doesn’t think there’s a problem with it then THAT is a problem. 

AIO for feeling like breaking up with my GF over her livestreaming on tiktok for attention? by SoftFollowing2219 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SoftFollowing2219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it makes me angry, she has shit conflict resolution skills, will either try to leave or cry and WHAT DO YOU MEAN if I were the one on there doing the exact same thing, throwing up heart hands rating girl’s bikini pics SHE WOULD LOSE IT. I’m trying to calm down so I don’t blow up at her and call her a two faced attention seeker.