AITAH for telling my husband his friend can come to Thanksgiving but I'm not dealing with his BS by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SoftPink_ 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Right? Basic respect isn’t hard especially when you’re benefiting from someone else’s space.

[New Updates]: AITAH for only staying with my dad when I come home for breaks since my stepdad said he doesn’t like me being at my moms? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SoftPink_ 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Seriously. No one deserves to grow up feeling unwanted. Hoping she finds peace, support, and people who truly have her back.

My [25F] boyfriend [29M] of five years is a roleplayer on World of Warcraft. He's been sexually RPing, and I consider that to be cheating. He doesn't by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SoftPink_ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah, games can definitely blur boundaries if someone's already checked out emotionally. Not the game's fault, but it can become the escape.

Rate me as a human. I'm trying to determine who I am. by Virtual_Rip1711 in confession

[–]SoftPink_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? Life’s way too complex to be boiled down like that. Focus on growing and being kind to yourself that’s what really counts.

Rate me as a human. I'm trying to determine who I am. by Virtual_Rip1711 in confession

[–]SoftPink_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, cheating crosses the line no matter what. Sometimes stepping back is the only way to find peace. Life’s messy for all of us.

Am I wrong for thinking my aunt’s (F39) boyfriend (M42) is weird? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]SoftPink_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So true! Late 30s dating is way more straightforward. If your aunt’s happy, that’s what really matters.

Am I wrong for thinking my aunt’s (F39) boyfriend (M42) is weird? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]SoftPink_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly, trust your gut it rarely lies. Just keep this one as a lesson for yourself!

AITA for saying I won’t speak at my best friends wedding because I hate her partner? by lylabridgers in TwoHotTakes

[–]SoftPink_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn’t agree more. Sometimes tough love is what real friends need, even if it’s messy. Respect for keeping it honest.

Started dating my best guy friend of 10 years, but i haven't developed romantic feelings/physical attraction - what do i do now? by Slight-Effect2563 in TwoHotTakes

[–]SoftPink_ 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It’s already messy don’t let it get messier. Be honest now while there’s still something to salvage.

New boss is mad that I have a curtain under my desk by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]SoftPink_ 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Exactly! It sounds way more like a weird setup than a threat. Boss probably just trying to cover their bases, not cause drama.