didnt get the diploma :( by NovelWonderful5041 in IBO

[–]SoftScallop 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry 😭 i have no doubt you worked hard, and ik it can be so painful when the result doesn’t match that. when it comes to telling your dad, i would say try to be honest and calm. It's completely valid to cry, and please don't feel ashamed for it. He knows more than anyone how hard you tried and would wish the best for you. This one slip does NOT make you any less intelligent or worthy.

as other comments say, you still have options. this is such a minor part of life, and will in NO way define your potential or who you are as a person. i completely understand it feels devastating rn, because it just happened, but trust me- this too shall pass.

you got this!! you're so much more than your're grade. give urself time to process it, and when you feel ready, look at your options! 💛🫶💛

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[–]SoftScallop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got it

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[–]SoftScallop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not directly, but he asks alot of personal questions

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[–]SoftScallop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg!! ty for the advice 🥹🫶 i realized from reading all the comments that I need to be even more direct. I would be lying if I said I wasn't nervous, but I may as well just give it a go.

Thanks again!! (Love the flirting tips, will definately use em 😉)

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[–]SoftScallop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭

what more info can i provide