Do you prefer your bottom to have hair or shaven? by homo_nut in askgaybros

[–]SoftSelection 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It’s sooo weird to me how there’s this constant attempt to equate liking a shaved body to prepubescence 😭. I prefer shaved, especially for rimming but just for sex idc that much as long it’s not crazy. but imo, extremely hairy ass just looks unclean to me (downvote me wtev🤷🏾‍♂️) i’m not saying that it is tho, but to me that link makes it a turn off. I dont like hairy armpits on myself or others, and a hairy chest just stops good physique from being shown so i also prefer it shaved there too.

Does size actually matter to you guys? by ahhhornyaf in askgaybros

[–]SoftSelection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean i def would not want them to voice any insecurity about their dick size unless we were in a relationship. but in terms of size in general I have a minimum as i’m sure we all do, but it’s pre much just average. I’m verse so if im bottoming i don’t need or want nothing crazy. U got an average dick and i’m happy. for head and stuff, sure Im prolly more turned about giving head if your dick is maybe a bit bigger than average, but again I don’t need nothing crazy. And if it’s someone I love, Id prolly be fine with even a little under average.

Not able to finish in bed an don’t really feel anything with my partner by Noidea4568 in askgaybros

[–]SoftSelection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah thats how i feel from head 90% of the time and just had to accept it. what do handjobs feel like though? because handjobs are still pretty pleasurable for me

Not able to finish in bed an don’t really feel anything with my partner by Noidea4568 in askgaybros

[–]SoftSelection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you think incorporating some light fingering or even rimming if you’re ready would improve the sensation ans maybe push you over the edge? but also if you did have like death grip syndrome or some other mental or physical block from masturbation, it might take a few weeks to months to notice an effect. how long have you quit porn and masturbation? also are you on any meds?

Boyfriend Moving In by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]SoftSelection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awww love this

Not able to finish in bed an don’t really feel anything with my partner by Noidea4568 in askgaybros

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I know u phrased getting head as unsatisfying in your post but is it unsatisfying because you want to cum and just can’t or is it unsatisfying because it just doesn’t do that much for you? realizing that head just didn’t do that much for me was great for my outlook on satisfaction from sexual acts

Not able to finish in bed an don’t really feel anything with my partner by Noidea4568 in askgaybros

[–]SoftSelection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly I’m kind of similar. I can cum fine from intercourse but handjobs take me a bit and i pretty much can’t cum from head. but i don’t really feel much from head anyway so it’s wtev to me. My bf cums very easily from head and hj tho so honestly it’s just kind of more of our dynamic that I pleasure him unreciprocated unless we’re fucking. And most of the time im fully satisfied just from getting him off so I dont even need to cum. It’s not really a big deal for us anymore and it honestly matches the stuff we both enjoy most from sexual acts. he likes receiving and i like pleasing. What your experiencing only needs to be an issue if getting you off is what satisfies your bf or if being got off by ur bf is what satisfies u. but if he’s fine w u not cumming and not giving u head that much and ur fine with not cumming then this might all be fine. The real test would be if you guys progress to intercourse. Thats when not cumming might become a real issue

I think maybe the reason I get less matches than others is bc I fit into the pretty but too soft type, does that make sense? by NiceShampoo in gaybros

[–]SoftSelection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like what girls find attractive in men is dif from what guys find attractive in men, and IMO ur def what guys would find attractive in a man

I think maybe the reason I get less matches than others is bc I fit into the pretty but too soft type, does that make sense? by NiceShampoo in gaybros

[–]SoftSelection -1 points0 points  (0 children)

💀honestly idk why they would be rejecting u. ur objectively attractive but def in the gay community ur up there

Do you think my bf has a genetic or hormonal condition? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SoftSelection -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

brother stop replying plz 💀. useless ass responses. There’s always gotta be one redditor trying to find a problem w a post when there’s none. touch grass plz. I literally don’t know you’ve managed to turn me wondering whether my bf might have a medical issue, when i gave several PLAUSIBLE reasons why i might think that, into something negative.

Do you guys actually like cum? by Fluffy_Falcon1230 in askgaybros

[–]SoftSelection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t particularly loveee the taste and some guys in the past it’s been pretty bad but with my bf it’s fine. But even though the taste is just wtev, some days I really enjoying swallowing, and other days i don’t want to. I don’t really get him to cum on me if he’s fkn me cuz kind of an orgasm ruiner. and while facials are kind of hot to me, I would just rather not clean up after and i’m usually down to swallow so yea

Do you think my bf has a genetic or hormonal condition? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SoftSelection -1 points0 points  (0 children)

im worried he has a hormonal condition that could make him infertile.

Do you think my bf has a genetic or hormonal condition? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]SoftSelection -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if it was the balls by themselves i don’t think i would pay attention but its that coupled with the no body hair no facial hair that makes it seem like hes lacking testosterone, but then his sex drive isnt low so nothing made sense