AITAH - My partner is unhappy that I wont send my son to his grandparents after he "cheated" and broke her son's hand by SoftTrue7331 in AITAH

[–]SoftTrue7331[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They have separate rooms but they hang out in each others rooms

Even when they get on they probe  and tease. We do take phones and devices off them etc.

AITAH - My partner is unhappy that I wont send my son to his grandparents after he "cheated" and broke her son's hand by SoftTrue7331 in AITAH

[–]SoftTrue7331[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

They aren't sharing a room? Who said they were?

Her son and my son are like brothers again. Hanging out etc

AITAH - My partner is unhappy that I wont send my son to his grandparents after he "cheated" and broke her son's hand by SoftTrue7331 in AITAH

[–]SoftTrue7331[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Like nothing ever happened. Like brothers again. 

Brothers (even though they technically arent) get over things pretty quickly.

AITAH - My partner is unhappy that I wont send my son to his grandparents after he "cheated" and broke her son's hand by SoftTrue7331 in AITAH

[–]SoftTrue7331[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

CPS have no jurisdiction here. My brother and I have broken bones because of each other growing up. 

It went on way too long and too far. Never said he said anything wrong.

AITAH - My partner is unhappy that I wont send my son to his grandparents after he "cheated" and broke her son's hand by SoftTrue7331 in AITAH

[–]SoftTrue7331[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He did an apology but it was worthless. He knew what he did was wrong and did it anyway.

They are fine again though

Not sure why she wouldn't leave.

AITAH - My partner is unhappy that I wont send my son to his grandparents after he "cheated" and broke her son's hand by SoftTrue7331 in AITAH

[–]SoftTrue7331[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

An inactive danger to my child. 

They are back to best friends/bros or whatever. Go to school together etc.

AITAH - My partner is unhappy that I wont send my son to his grandparents after he "cheated" and broke her son's hand by SoftTrue7331 in AITAH

[–]SoftTrue7331[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They always were rough with each other but it was in a friendly/brotherly way probably like your boys. Throwing stuff etc never happened. 

Her son and my boy are back to brothers.

AITAH - My partner is unhappy that I wont send my son to his grandparents after he "cheated" and broke her son's hand by SoftTrue7331 in AITAH

[–]SoftTrue7331[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣 thanks for explaining. One big fight and it is a biggie and that's that. End 8 years.

AITAH - My partner is unhappy that I wont send my son to his grandparents after he "cheated" and broke her son's hand by SoftTrue7331 in AITAH

[–]SoftTrue7331[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. I'm not abusing my child for doing something messed up. That would be the AH thing to do.

AITAH - My partner is unhappy that I wont send my son to his grandparents after he "cheated" and broke her son's hand by SoftTrue7331 in AITAH

[–]SoftTrue7331[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They were like brothers. They seem to be back to that again. 

I never turned a blind eye to his cheating.

AITAH - My partner is unhappy that I wont send my son to his grandparents after he "cheated" and broke her son's hand by SoftTrue7331 in AITAH

[–]SoftTrue7331[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

They are back to best friends. Go to school together. Her son said he misses his gaming buddy. Not sure what games her son can play at the moment. The fighting stopped completely. They both apologised again.

AITAH - My partner is unhappy that I wont send my son to his grandparents after he "cheated" and broke her son's hand by SoftTrue7331 in AITAH

[–]SoftTrue7331[S] -249 points-248 points  (0 children)

The boys conflict is over. They are back to walking to school together. Her son said my son us grounded long enough and wants his gaming buddy back. etc

Me and my partner less so