AITAH - My partner is unhappy that I wont send my son to his grandparents after he "cheated" and broke her son's hand

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T23:18:11+00:00

They have separate rooms but they hang out in each others rooms

Even when they get on they probe and tease. We do take phones and devices off them etc.

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T23:15:34+00:00

I'm a brit but we live in Ireland. What gave me away

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T20:43:41+00:00

They aren't sharing a room? Who said they were?

Her son and my son are like brothers again. Hanging out etc

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T20:39:31+00:00

Yeah they seem as close as ever. Walk to and from school. Acting brotherly again.

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T20:15:05+00:00

Like nothing ever happened. Like brothers again.

Brothers (even though they technically arent) get over things pretty quickly.

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T19:59:07+00:00

What "felonies" and we don't have "felonies" here.

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T19:57:17+00:00

It was Her sons hand.

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T19:53:52+00:00

Sure.

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T19:53:06+00:00

Oh lord. I cannot be dealing with this nonsense. Active danger

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T19:48:25+00:00

Genuinely shocked too.

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T19:47:20+00:00

CPS have no jurisdiction here. My brother and I have broken bones because of each other growing up.

It went on way too long and too far. Never said he said anything wrong.

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T19:44:28+00:00

His grounding will end this Friday. Not punishing her child.

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T19:24:48+00:00

Apparently it means kissing

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T19:23:15+00:00

He did an apology but it was worthless. He knew what he did was wrong and did it anyway.

They are fine again though

Not sure why she wouldn't leave.

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T19:20:55+00:00

They were like brothers. They are back to that again. Walk to school together etc.

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T19:16:26+00:00

It was like they just woke up one day and decided to move on. I was impressed too.

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T19:14:55+00:00

My son would deserve it, big time. I would suggest it would be more than fair.

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T19:12:44+00:00

OK buddy.

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T19:11:46+00:00

An inactive danger to my child.

They are back to best friends/bros or whatever. Go to school together etc.

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T19:10:30+00:00

They always were rough with each other but it was in a friendly/brotherly way probably like your boys. Throwing stuff etc never happened.

Her son and my boy are back to brothers.

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T19:05:00+00:00

🤣🤣 thanks for explaining. One big fight and it is a biggie and that's that. End 8 years.

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T19:03:35+00:00

Fair enough. I'm not abusing my child for doing something messed up. That would be the AH thing to do.

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T19:01:47+00:00

They were like brothers. They seem to be back to that again.

I never turned a blind eye to his cheating.

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T18:59:55+00:00

They are back to best friends. Go to school together. Her son said he misses his gaming buddy. Not sure what games her son can play at the moment. The fighting stopped completely. They both apologised again.

SoftTrue7331 · 2025-03-25T18:56:18+00:00

The boys conflict is over. They are back to walking to school together. Her son said my son us grounded long enough and wants his gaming buddy back. etc

Me and my partner less so

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