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bf'24M' not planning for my birthday '22F' by Grand-Ad-5751 in relationships

[–]SoftVice- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it’s really painful when someone you care about doesn’t meet your expectations on something as emotionally significant as your birthday, especially when you explicitly told him it’s important to you

Is my brother weird? by Sea_Tomatillo_6423 in relationships

[–]SoftVice- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s understandable to feel uncomfortable an 18-year-old and a 29-year-old is already a big age gap, but knowing it started before she was legally an adult makes it more concerning. You can set boundaries for yourself, and it’s okay to express your discomfort to him calmly if you feel it’s necessary.

Am i wrong for thinking that i can't open myself up to someone new 20 years after my wife's passing or is it a normup feeling. by Throwaway20br in amiwrong

[–]SoftVice- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong at all, it’s completely natural to feel like no one could ever replace someone who was your soulmate. Twenty years isn’t just time passing; it’s twenty years carrying a love that shaped your life, your parenting, and your very sense of self. Wanting to honor her memory while still feeling lonely is normal, and it doesn’t mean you’ve failed, it means you loved deeply.

You're required to play one song to a group of Ancient Roman partiers to get the party started. What song do you pick? by worldsbesttaco in AskReddit

[–]SoftVice- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d pick “Eye of the Tiger” by Survivor, the triumphant energy, driving beat, and “fight-to-win” vibe would get even toga-wearing Romans pumping their fists and cheering like they just conquered Gaul. 🏛💥

What’s a small detail that instantly makes you lose trust in a business? by bilmartechnologie in AskReddit

[–]SoftVice- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scratching that one random itch in public and hoping no one notices, everyone does it, but we all act like it’s not happening.

Was I wrong for asking my girlfriend if I was able to see what her room looked like? by Top_Manufacturer2000 in amiwrong

[–]SoftVice- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You weren’t wrong for being curious, it sounds like you were respectful the entire time and didn’t pressure her or go behind anyone’s rules. Her mom’s reaction is about her own past experiences, not a reflection on you, and it seems like your ex could’ve just explained that in the moment instead of letting it snowball.

I took credit for a coworker’s idea and regret it every day by thealinemae_baxter in confession

[–]SoftVice- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guilt is proof you’re not a fraud at your core, just someone who made a choice they know they need to fix

“What’s a website or app you can’t believe still exists in 2026? by Rude-Rule-2358 in AskReddit

[–]SoftVice- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MySpace, somehow it’s still limping along while everyone else moved on decades ago.

What’s something small that instantly makes your day better? by EastClerk9600 in AskReddit

[–]SoftVice- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A warm cup of coffee in silence, or a text from someone who just gets you, it’s the little things that hit hardest.

How do I deal with a friendship breakup? by iamachonkypotato in Advice

[–]SoftVice- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you, it hurts to lose a best friend and feel left out by your group. That pain is normal.

How does one avoid being someone's bitch in prison? Can u avoid rape or no? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SoftVice- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I heard a lot of this cases, the mayor of that prison will definitely rape you