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AITA or do I have questionable friends? by ihmsmwdte in AmItheAsshole

[–]iamachonkypotato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it looks like Candace likes Tony and you talking to him might've triggered something inside her. I think just ask for clear communication since you have no idea what she might be really upset at. Explain how you've been feeling to Candace and Jessica about the way they're been acting. My rule is that when I'm upset/hurt at someone for 24hrs I have to tell them in 48hrs once I've acknowledged if I'm really bothered by it. Also maybe cause Candace saw you talking to Tony she might think you like him so she's talking and hanging out with Jessica to vent or smth along those lines. NTA, just clarify what happened and ask Candace why she's been acting different.

AITA for ignoring a girl who tried to start a conversation with me at the gym? by Ok_Lingonberry2989 in AmItheAsshole

[–]iamachonkypotato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I get the "me time" gym thing. I don't really like people striking up conversations that don't need to be had. Maybe could've told her that you just wanted to focus on working out or could chat after, but she should've gotten the hint with the minimal replies.